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ashtraySissy
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| Currently seeking slave. Must be able to relocate. Age 40-70, as not looking to raise another child. Experience preferred, but not required. I have a partner, so not looking for a husband or lover. Read the profile completely!!!!
PHOTO REQUIRED. Send with email if not on profile. Read the entire profile, before contacting me. Hate having to fill in the blanks, when it is right here. If you aren't a match, then don't contact me. I am firm about what is here and will not modify any of it, for anyone. I clearly state what I will compromise on, as well. I realize that it is very long, but not putting anything here that is not important. So is worth the read, to a serious candidate, seeking TPE.
If you just want to chat online and disappear, just find someone else. If, after we chat, you find it isn't a situation you want or I am not what you are looking for, just say so. Won't hurt my feelings at all.
You are not married, separated, or looking to try this out. I have a partner, so not looking for a husband or lover. You have a desire and a need to serve. Experience is not a measure of desire. I do understand a new slave needing training and guidance. If you have experience, you will be retrained to serve as I desire, anyway.
Seeking a strong male in public, a slave at home. You will be someone who wants to please and serve. Someone who will share his thoughts and ideas to make our life better, yet always aware that I will make the final decision. Immature behavior is not acceptable, in any way, shape, or form. So you will be someone who is mature. But not so old that you don't enjoy having fun, too. (I do understand that age is a number, young or old). I love to laugh and enjoy life. I have a partner, so not looking for a husband or lover.
I am a mature female dominant, not some barbie doll or 'hot' babe. My appearance is acceptable and expect yours to be the same. I do smoke, though would love to quit (no luck, so far). I will make some (a few) accommodations for those who have a problem with smoking, but not to the point that I am outside my own home. Must be able to clean house and cook. Employment is a must. Not taking a boy to raise. An attentive partner, in public. A true slave, at home.
I have hard limits. They are blood, scat, and children. There are a number of things I enjoy doing and probably just as many that I don't. But am open to discussion on these, when appropriate to do so. Play when I want and not when I don't. I do not do anything that I have not received training/instruction in. Health and safety are primary issues. I have a partner, so not looking for a husband or lover. The slave I select will have to be accepted by both he and I, even though I am the owner. My homelife is important and do not want to deal with "drama".
I have given a first instruction in this profile, so if you don't follow instructions when you email, I will not respond. If you can't do this, then you are obviously not obedient and not worth my time. I require a checklist to be completed (I will send once outside contact established), before I will place a boy under consideration. No arguments or complaints. It is what I want. No exceptions.
Repeating this, as so many don't seem to see it. I have a partner, so not looking for a husband or lover. Your first instruction: PHOTO REQUIRED.
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Well, survived the hurricane. Was a mess and taken time to sort through things for move, as well. Has made move more difficult, as power companies tied up with repairs and unable to work with me to get set up for this weekend. Having to go with companies I really didn't want to work with, but hopeful will be alright. Everything happens for a reason, even if the reason is one I made for myself. lol
Hope everyone in South Texas made it through alright. Be Well. |
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Just stopped in for a second. Getting ready for the hurricane and sure that I will be offline for a few days, at least.
Hope everyone else is somewhere safe and that everyone has a good weekend. |
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Found a house and am thrilled. Very close to the new job and yet more private than this stupid apartment. Will never live in one again. Forgot how noisy and disruptive apartment life can be.
Looking for movers...lol. Have found a house in the country. So will be moving the end of September. Need some strong backs to move furniture and boxes. Have a few, but the more here, the quicker it will go. |
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Well, its been 2 weeks and LOVE the new job. Have had to review law, federal and state, but not too much has changed. Partner is great and am excited to work with her.
Still seeking and not excited about the contacts, so far. It hasn't changed and not sure why I would think that it would. Disappearing acts and b.s. abound. Life is too short to waste and with the new job, my time is even more valuable to me.
Former boy has been in touch and we are still friends. He was the best boy I have had, over the last 3-4 years. The time and situation was not suitable in the past. But don't have anything bad to say about him. Would love to find another like him. Mature, willing, a true servant of superior caliber. But, of course, these are few and far between. |
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I'm finally outta there!! Have to say, I really don't miss it, but do miss a few friends I made there. Excited about the new job and going to do more paperwork today.
Read this and love it. Even Dr. Seuss hated posers. lol
"Be who you are and say what you mean, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss
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Gave my notice and only one week to go, before I take my vacation and then get back to work. Sure makes the days on this job easier, knowing they are few in number.
Well, the losers are out in droves. Our lists get longer and thankful I have other Dom/me's to share them with. Saves some time. Now, if I could just get a program that would be able to identify them, before I waste my time chatting. lol
"hello" is such a simple word. Doesn't require any forethought to reply to. Very non-threatening. Yet so many think that ignoring a "hello", when they are busy in chat, will be acceptable. NOT TRUE I have no problem accepting a brief message stating someone is chatting with family, friend, whatever, but would love to talk to me later.
Ignoring me only tells me one thing. You have no respect for me and definitely do not fit the type of person I am seeking. So be sure that you will be ignored and the information shared with my friends at CM. No point in wasting anyone else's time either.
Have to run. Work awaits. YUK!! Hope everyone has a great weekend. |
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Well, today was the day. Am very excited and happy. I got the job!!! Finally getting back to the work that I love. Start in 4 weeks and can't wait to give notice. This temp job is a pain and ready to live in the real world again. LOL |
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Whew. What a weekend. Woke up Sunday, to find a fabulous present, cake, and birthday card waiting for me. So was the beginning of a great day.
Monday was my actual birthday. Recieved more presents, phone calls, and was taken out for dinner and a movie. Saw "Hancock" and it was terrific. (Unlike that loser "The Happening").
So spent the last two days celebrating my getting a year younger. (Yes, the time has come to turn the clock back. lol). Had a great birthday, but it did keep me off here. Popped in once to get a phone number (had to call a boy back and couldn't find it). But am finally relaxed, happy, and looking forward to the rest of the week.
The job interview went VERY well and should know something this week. Keeping my fingers crossed, as it is the job I have been waiting for since I got into my field. Would be the icing on my BD cake, so to speak.
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Well, getting excited. Have been working a temp job, while seeking full time. Got a call today and have an interview next Monday. Feel very good about it. And as it is on my birthday, what a great present that would be. The only other thing I want is the right boy. Oh well. LOL
Met some great people on here and making some new friends. Some near and some far. But very impressed with the caliber of friends I have made. Love chatting with them and others in my favorite chatroom. Especially some of the links I have gotten from them. OMG!!! How funny.
Well off to check emails and then hope to chat a bit before bed. Be Well. |
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Well, while it is disappointing, is good to know that other Dommes on here are having the same problems with players and do me's. Would be nice if the ones who aren't interested, or feel the situation is not suitable for them, would just say so. Those are so few and far between. At least I can share that they appear serious, with my friends.
Funny that people see CM as an isolated arena, where they can come and play and leave, without anyone knowing. I communicate with so many other dominants on here, male and female. Made some very good friends. Gotten the heads up on quite a few of the losers on here, which is very much a time saver. Have some lovely submissive friends, as well, who share their own experiences.
Had another "show" tonight. I have met so many magicians on here. You know the ones I mean. Appear, chat, then "poof" they're gone. Hope they learn some new tricks. Because after sharing with my friends, they won't get much of a response in the future. lol I know they have burned their bridges with me. No one I know has the time or energy to waste of players.
I look forward to meeting the right slave. Finding that one who will join our family. A slave who fits right in and is ready to serve; without question, hesitation, or reservation. |
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How quickly they change their spots. Getting harder to spot the players and wannabe's. Perhaps is why I don't get that excited when contacted by someone who seems real. Find it is better to just "see how it goes", than to deal with the anger and disappointment that would otherwise be felt. I am not your aunt or sister. If you want a friend, then say so. But disrespect, ignorance of the lifestyle, and my all time favorite the "disappearing act", will not get anyone in my good graces.
I am and will always be a dominant female. I do not expect to be called Mistress, but do expect to be addressed with respect. If you tell me you will be available to talk or chat, you will be. If you are truly interested, once you have been given permission, you will contact me on a regular basis in the proper address.
Don't waste my time or yours. Read my profile and you will know if this is the situation you are looking for, before you contact me. The instructions are not for screening. They are checking for obedience. Too many fail on the onset, because of this.
I do not live on messengers or CM. I have a life and do my best to live it. While currently injured, it is more difficult, but still able to do a few things I enjoy. These do not include sitting and waiting on a boy. |
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Plowing through the emails. Shouldn't be surprised at how few seem to have actually read my profile. But even fewer follow the simple instruction given in it. Yet they expect to be considered for a position of service. My partner went through a similar experience with his potential. Who is no longer a potential. Not to go into details, was actually glad to see how it happened. Not someone I would ever consider, after such behavior.
Am currently in contact with a potential who seems to truly desire to serve. Followed initial instruction without fail, to begin with. Working on maintaining appropriate contact, which needs work. But trainng is always needed, with someone who does not know me. While I would love to say I have found the right slave, there is just the potential for now. But you never know what the future will bring. |
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My partner has expressed concerns that perhaps my profile is too "picky". lol Well, I suppose it is.
I guess saying I will not "budge on anything" could be changed. Compromising is a part of life and everyone does it in some way or fashion everyday.
After all the fakers I have wasted time on, I guess I just want to be sure that the one who contacts me is serious and truly desires to serve. If someone is willing to read the profile and still feels they desire to serve, then that is the person I want to hear from.
We have a lovely family and have no desire to disrupt it with drama or intrigues. So think that finding the right person is a serious endeavor.
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Back. Moved a few times and major computer problems. But hopefully things will go better now.
Live with an amazing man, another dominant. We have a great life and now seeking a slave to share it with us. He has his own boy under consideration and I am so impressed with him. He has raised the bar on my expectations for my own slave. lol
Plowing thru the many emails. Some are new, many I have heard from before and rejected for one reason or another. Thank goodness I have other dom/me's to chat with. Makes it soooo much easier to weed out the players and wannabe's. Tired of wasting time. Have said this before, I have a life and want to do more than just waste it on losers.
Finally settled into our apartment, but have so much sorting and unpacking left to do. So going to go do some of it. lol Later. |
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New profile. Much longer, but much more specifc, I think. Am sure there will still be those who don't read it, before they contact me. But nothing I can do about that. Hopefully will find that I hear from the more serious boys, instead of the "little" boys. lol And not referring to age in that comment. Age is a number. Desire and maturity are the things I look at. |
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Once again, I am disappointed. Aren't there any who truly desire to serve? |
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Well, emails are getting better. Wish the people sending them were. Hopefully, I will find what I seek from the ones this week. But not holding my breath. Don't know why anyone goes to the trouble to contact me, if they have no intention of talking to me. LOL |
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Last Aug. I ranted on this, but guess you have to do it every so often to get a boys attention. DO NOT WRITE WITHOUT READING THE PROFILE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is a notation, all thru it, telling you that I will not respond to emails without photos. My preference and the way it is. |
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I am so damn tired of boys that think I am here to waste my time. I do have a life. And better things to do than spend my time pumping up your fantasies. Talking online takes time away from the boy I do have. Wasting my time with you, instead of with REAL slaves. Every time you take up my time, you are stealing part of my life. GET A LIFE and stop stealing mine. |
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The new year is shaping up to be a good one. Have found one who looks to be an excellent second. Now if we can just get through winter. Love it, but ready for spring. Good news! My roommate took her monthly test and looks like she is in remission! A lot to look forward to, for the both of us. |
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Christmas finally over. Was great, but glad I don't have to worry about buying the right gift or missing someone. lol
Exhausted and ready to get back to work. *LOL*
Really though, planning a quiet New Years and looking forward to what 2007 brings. |
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Today someone hacked into my yahoo account. Shame that they are so desperate to have a life, that they need to steal someone elses. |
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Finally moved. Difficult having a roommate, after living on my own for so long. |
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Wondering why someone would contact me without reading my profile. It is obvious they did not read it, because they did not do what I asked before contacting me. Oh well. Not wasting my time on someone who cannot follow instructions from the outset.
Been a busy summer. Moving again. But excited about the house and being with my best friend again. While she knows and accepts my lifestyle, she is vanilla. Can play in my room and around the house, with modifications. Don't mind. Just glad to have this time with her. She has ovarian cancer and know that our time is limited. At least with me there, she is not alone.
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I do not chat on CM, as it is not compatible with my computer system. Now, to the topic at hand. I wish people would read the profile, before emailing me. It is so tiresome to get these "epistles" that have nothing to do with what I am looking for. I was extremely clear in my profile what I was looking for. That is the purpose of the profile, as I understand it. I am very careful to read over profiles to see if the person I am considering is suitable for my home and family. I would expect them to do the same. Even when I take the time to respond to an email and reassert my requirements, I get the same responses, all of which have everything to do with what they want and nothing in reference to what I want.
GIVE ME A BREAK!!! R-E-A-D !!!!!!!!!!! |
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Wanted to edit and accidentally deleted my last journal entry. LOL
Well, talked to the boy last night. Time to look for a second. As it is not simple, adding another person to a household, we know it will take time and not in any hurry. Won't be able to do much of anything until we move though.
Time away from my boy has shown me how much I miss a poly household. Though staying with the "kids" is not really conducive to play. lol Will be glad when January is here and I can be iin my own home again. Though where we will be is still up in the air. But what makes life so interesting, surprises and change.
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Something on my mind this morning. Several have contacted me and given me alternate address to chat. Add them, but never hear from them. Is this normal?
Used to the wannabe's, but this is something new.
Talking with someone now. But have to say, I am doubtful. Only because of the distance. Isn't unusual to develop a nice online relationship and find it is not going to be more than that. Having been through this several times, I have to wonder, who is the real masochist? LOL
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Has been awhile since I've written here. Forget sometimes that I can. lol
Haven't found the one I am looking for. Profiles are so hard to write. Know I should update mine, with more personal desires.
Took today to really look at a few and read them carefully. Amazing what you can learn about someone if you really take the time.
Well, going to update the profile. Hope that it will be more of a reflection of myself.
Be well.
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A sub suggested I try this site. Have had little luck on others. Tired of the wannabe's who turn into whiners and complainers.
Who ever thought that it would be this hard to find a real slave. A man who knows his place in the home. Too many who want to try it out or just play around. Topping from the bottom.
Suppose to meet someone this weekend. But have to say, my heart is not in it. Have been disappointed so many times. Hard to get excited. Not the way it used to excite me, anyway.
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| Age: 21 |
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