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Not a Pro-Domme - This is a lifestyle interest for me.
I've had a cursory involvement and interest in the scene for over decade, coming up in and out of goth/industrial and BDSM scenes around NY and NJ. I've since stepped away from my longtime fascination with fishnet and leather, and have grown to firmly enjoy adorning summer dresses with a disarming smile.
I find quite a bit of fun in the specious image.
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I have a number of pursuits and interests that keep me busy much of the time.?This means that when I am free- I like to know that my time is being well spent.?I will always put myself and my pursuit of happiness first.
I'm never happier than when I'm exploring or experiencing something new. Next trip is LA with friends in the fall.
I am interested in meeting someone at this time.
I love to laugh and smile, and am an aficionado of lame jokes. Enthusiastic about technology, international politics, philosophy, and continued self education.
I'm most interested in developing a kind and conscious sub. I would accept a sub that's nothing short of being equally motivated and sincere. I most appreciate passionate people.
While I understand how exciting it can be to find someone that shares your kinky interests- if we don't have anything in common outside of that, I'm not interested.
The Finer Things
If you:
- Hate going to the other boroughs because some socioeconomic hangup
- Think a woman isn't a Domme if she's not in a corset
- Are "new to this" and have no profile
- Support Trump
- Are crippled with social anxiety and would need to ensure that even knowing me would be a secret (Spoiler: I'm a normal person, not your kink.com fantasy reincarnate.)
- Still don't understand that I'm a woman first and a Domme second
Then we won't get along.
Plainly however, I'm not here to cater to your fantasies. If the only way you get off or think that someone is a "true" Domme is because she "forces" you to participate in that one kink you think about every day- you're not my type.
Telling me that you've never found a woman tough enough to handle you, or sending me a laundry list of your fantasies or kink experiences- is the quickest way to disgust me. (Spoiler: If you're messaging, the fact that you're into being dominated in xyz ways is implicitly?understood, you don't need to send me your kink.com search history.)
For some reason strangers feel it's ok to ask "So, can you tell me about how you fuck?" just because we're on a kink site. I'm not a Pro-Domme, and I don't know you.
Catch some reality.
To me, being a submissive means learning and understanding what the Domme likes, not thinking about what she can do to you because it's something you equate to being submissive.
While I'm a pool of warmth and affection, I'm comfortably sadistic. Chances are I'd have a lot of fun denying someone of what they're obsessed with until they learned how to submit beyond preconceived notions.
To lift the veil of mystery, my 3 biggest kinks are:
- Intelligence
- Stealing Chipolte's Tobasco sauce
- Control
The internet says I'm...
99% Dominant
96% Master/Mistress
95% Degrader
94% Sadist
92% Rigger
91% Non-monogamist (but not flippant)
79% Owner
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Please spare me the LARP theatrics. It's 2017, I'm a real person. I don't want to hear your neckbeard faux-Shakespeare?talk. Just be a?normal?person, please! It's weird and creepy to pull that "Takes a Knee" "May I address you mi'lady?"?
Go 'grovel in the light of my glory' somewhere else.
Thanks!?
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