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Domme/Switch Couple, 56/49,  Roanoke, VA, Virginia
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Put up some new photo's from HMB ball this year. Had a blast!








 Roanoke, VA 





Gender Identity:










 5' 7"

 145 lbs




Gender Identity:










 6' 1"

 190 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Male


A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Movies (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 True Crime (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Museums (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Corsetry (Expert)

 Massage (Expert)

 Foot Worship (Expert)

 Leashes (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Strap-Ons (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)

 Historical Shows (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)


 Knitting (Expert)



 Biology (Expert)



 Female Sovereignty (Expert)


 Opera Music




 Antique Shows


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Going to the Opera

 Musical Theater


 Travel (Expert)

 Dancing (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts (Beginner)


 Weightlifting (Beginner)


 Anal Play

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Domestic Service (Expert)

 Housework Service (Expert)

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)


 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Oral Service

 Role Playing

 Card Games

 Chess (Beginner)


 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Art Collecting (Beginner)

 Cooking (Expert)

 Cross Stitch (Expert)




 Photography (Beginner)

 Sculpting (Beginner)

 Sewing (Expert)

 Conservative Politics


 Intellectual Discourse


 Nutrition (Expert)

 Occultism (Expert)


 Psychology (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Old Guard

 Polyamory (Expert)

 Alternative Music


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music



 Pop Music


 Rock Music

 Show Tunes



 Bowling (Beginner)




 Garage Sales


 Hiking (Beginner)

 Hunting (Beginner)

 G-spot Stimulation




 Sensation Play

 Clothing Selection

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension Bondage



 Horror Movies



 Cuck Options


 Seventies Music

 Catholicism (Expert)

 Auto Racing

 Ice Hockey

 Curious About:

 Tai-Chi (Beginner)

 Yachting (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community


 TV News

 Alternative Medicine (Beginner)

 Astrology (Beginner)

 Online Auctions (Beginner)


 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics


 Paranormal Phenomena (Expert)

 Political Activism



 Swinging (Beginner)


 Working Out


 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Modern Paganism (Beginner)

 Body Building


 Amusement Parks (Beginner)

 Fishing (Beginner)

 Gambling (Beginner)





 Masks (Wearing)


 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Beginner)

 Sensory Play


 Tickling (Expert)

 Board Games

 Comedy Shows

 Online Chatrooms

 TV Sports





 Blue Grass

 Country Music


 Latter-day Saints






 Horse Racing

 Kick Boxing


 Street Hockey





 Erotic touch

 Gas Masks


 Maid / Butler Service

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play

 Romance Novels (Expert)



 1950s Lifestyle

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Hard Limits:


 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Hair Pulling

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism



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Journal Entries:
4/26/2011 4:53:12 PM

Hello All, back again, checking messages and seeing if there is anyone REAL out there instead of scammers and jerks.


FOR ALL WHO WISH TO WRITE ME:  As of now, if there is not a face picture on the message - YOU ARE WASTING YOU'RE TIME.


My face is out there in plain view for all, if you aren't real enough or serious enough to send me a picture, why should I waste my time on your message?  I Don't need body part pictures either, that just shows you're lack of proper ediquite when approaching a Mistress.




Warning I am a Domme, expecting the best is my nature!

3/27/2011 8:15:32 AM

Hello Everyone!  Just added some new pictures from the HMB party this year and I will also post one from a submissive male that I played with for awhile.  Check 'em out!

12/5/2010 3:27:29 PM

Hello All - I haven't been on in a long time.  Got a big promotion and corner office with all the hasseles and headaches that come with it too.  Had to fire one person and hire new and now I am training new person.  Putting too many hours at work and home is still in need of our third. 


Maybe the holiday season will help me find that one person that would complete our poly and settle down permanent with us.



Here's hoping!



3/27/2010 11:57:16 AM
Nice to hear from some here that like what I have to offer.  I will hang as long as I hear from real people who either like the profile or would like to talk. 

2/18/2010 4:45:28 PM
  well obviously I am not off here yet.  Just like last time, get tired of the run around and try to get off and wham!  People come out of the woodworks like that was all they were waiting for.  Life at home is getting busier than ever, with one regular sub in full training and one new one audition for a place.  I am having to sensory deprive in one closet and cuff and hog tie in another room.  In addition the Hooker's Ball is this Saturday and my new Corset has arrived as scheduled!

12/3/2009 3:00:36 PM
Hello All, I have thought this over several times and I have finally decided to close this account and delete my pictures and profile.  I will wait a week for any last friends to leave a message and then I will no longer be on here.  Not the site fault, there just doesn't seem to be anyone in my area that is a serious life BDSM. I have been on here over 2 years now and only one bad sub has ever came through. 


11/21/2009 12:26:10 PM
Okay, found new friend in home town to train, and have a old sub moving back in the house.  Things are looking up for the holidays!

10/22/2009 3:25:02 PM
Oh well, people were actually reading and following orders for a short while.  Now I have to start training a whole new batch.....there is one promising new sissy boy on the calendar...maybe he will work out okay....

10/12/2009 4:43:55 PM
Well I have gotten a few new interested subs, so I will be back to let all know if any of them work out for play or poly.

10/6/2009 2:48:55 PM
 Hello all!  I am booked solid and happy as a clam!  Still looking for a sub permanently, no real takers on that yet.  Maybe after Christmas, someone will step forward.  Till then, play hard!

8/28/2009 6:01:30 PM
Hello subs!  I am back from a busy summer and schedule.  Been playing a lot with friends and checked out some local swap groups.  Not much in town. 
Messages are getting better here, folks are learning to follow instructions better.

I am serious, not a player, if you don't like yourself well enough to send me a picture, WHY should I like you enough to play with you?

How many people play with others they don't like the looks of?  Really? 

I will be checking messages and answering the real ones more now that summer is gone.

4/21/2009 6:11:00 PM
Well back looking for little boy-men to whip....

Life has been over busy and as weather warms up, so does my clients.  Little time for luxuries....

Still searching for that "just right - sub..." Anyone interested?

2/17/2009 3:27:30 PM
Well I'm back......

Damn Computer actual blew up in October!  Took to January 2008 to replace the @1$$!@ thing!

Sorry for missed messages.  It has taken quite awhile not to mention I had to have a emergency surgery in December.

Life has been interesting as the Arab Curse goes....

Now maybe life will slow down a little. 

8/17/2008 10:36:33 AM
Well my comments stirred the pickings a little bit.  Nice to hear from some REAL subs.  I do wish more would read my profile, only 1 out 5 ever attached or submit a picture.  Why hide what you look like?  If a meeting happens, you wil have to show your face?  Hiding something only makes me wonder what else your hiding or maybe lying about......

8/6/2008 4:29:14 PM
Same sad old story.  Checked back after long absence and the choices are still not good.  Where have all the good, healthy, subs gone to?  I guess when I find that out, I will be going there as well......

6/11/2008 6:07:07 PM
Well I checked back again after a long time away, and sadly the choices are not much better.  Pages of messages from people who wrote but did not add a picture.  Tell me, if I am brave enough to post my pictures and let all see, and some steal, why would I read or answer any message that does not have the guts or honesty to add a picture?  I don't care about webcams, I do not have the time or the interest to sit and interact through a computer!  Pain and lashes just aren't the same!  If I could get the no pictures within whipping distance, I bet they would learn better quickly. 

I really would like to find intelligent, good looking, skilled people who live the lifestyle, not fakes or wannabes. 

Come on people, raise my hopes! Show me that there are REAL BDSM folks still out here!

3/28/2008 10:40:04 AM
Well hello from the sick bed!  I had the misfortune to catch the latest virsus going around and it just about did me in!  I am just now up and out of the bed for more than minutes!  A very BIG accomplishment! 

Once again I notice as I opened mail, no one reads or pays attention.

For everyone---- Have a picture on your profile or attach a picture to the message that you send me.  All messages without pictures (no matter how sweet or inviting) will be DELETED and no response sent.

I will not talk to blank text on a screen.  YOU want to stand out and get my attention - send a picture!

1/25/2008 2:18:11 PM
Well I found something new on the profiles and tried it.  It is the Playlist site that lets you build a list of favorite music and share it with anyone interested in looking at your profile.  I liked it so well that I put it on all my sites!  I Love Music, all kinds!

1/20/2008 10:08:38 AM
Well it is late January and no one has come forward that is suitable, yet.
  Lots and lots of messages for online Domination that I specified in profile that I DON"T do. 
An almost everyone doesn't read the profile or simply will not attach a picture to messages. 

I am starting today to delete -WITHOUT READING- ANY message that doesn't have a picture attached. 

So anyone that sends a message and wonders why I didn't reply, need only read this. 

"Where, oh where have all the good men gone" 

12/29/2007 12:17:00 PM
Well Christmas was nice, a week of vacation!  Damn little activity on here though.  Guess everyone was with their families.  I have just about decided to end this account and move my search elsewhere.  No one here is serious and almost all live hundreds of miles away if not continents!  If  I have no success by the end of February then it will be time to stop. 

11/28/2007 4:15:18 PM

Guess What!  It worked!  Maybe there is real subs out there that are truthful and want a real dom not a wannabe!


11/12/2007 10:02:07 AM

Just uploaded new Halloween photos!  Wonder if this will inspire new slaves!

10/28/2007 2:27:24 PM
Well I got a lot of response after last journal entry so I will stay for awhile and see what happens.  New pictures are in the works, hope I find someone soon.

10/20/2007 8:45:49 PM
Oct 20 - First time on in weeks.  Got tired of the fakes and wannabes.  I plan to post new pictures after Halloween.  If nothing worth my time works out then, I will be leaving this site and concentrating my efforts elsewhere.

9/12/2007 6:03:12 PM
Update: The user who took my photo has had it removed.  But for some reason now, when you look at mine, you may not see my pictures.  Not sure what happened, maybe admin reloaded them and they are waiting approval again.  Whatever, not sure at this point.  Maybe it is time I move to another site?  Suggestions?

9/5/2007 8:14:09 PM
For ALL who are interested.  I have found another user using my picture.  If this continues, I will remove all my photos.  Be careful who you are talking with, don't confuse them with me.

8/29/2007 7:02:05 PM
Back again, some new messages and new friends to chat with.  Still no one serious enough for a poly though.

Does anyone out there need a family to cherish them?  Doesn't someone want to be a part of something special and long lasting?

I am so weary of checking and checking. 

Please don't write me if you are:

Under 21
Over 60
No Picture on profile or in message

Closing your account ( why write anyone ?!?)

8/21/2007 6:18:01 AM

Took a break from here and let my sub be in charge of watching my messages and seeing who's looking at us.  I got away with friends and family to a NC Wet & Wild park for a simple day of fun and had a ball!  I am growing weary of seaching and no results. 

I will be checking back and only I answer my messages but it will not be as frequent as in the past.  No real results makes this not worth a lot of my valuable time.

7/18/2007 3:18:14 PM

You know, some days I open this site and get such nice messages that I smile all evening.  People can be gracious and polite when they try.

However with that said, I don't think anyone here reads much though. No picture - No reply. 

Now come on folks......don't waste my time or yours!

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