I know that I am being very cautious and particular about whom I have in my household as a sub/slave.
I have a regular vanilla life and can't put it on hold to play bdsm when I feel like it.
I can't have someone running around nude or in skimpy attire nor attire not fitting the sexual gender.
I have young adults in my household and would ask questions in which I am not ready to explain that side of my life to them. I may never be ready either.
I don't want them subjected to the bdsm world.
I need someone who can adapt to my real world and be discrete when it comes to the bdsm. So real life takes priority over everything and anything else.
I know it is a difficult situation and alot to ask of someone but I will not settle for less.
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