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Living in Manhattan again. Be *ready* and *serious* Relationship inquiries answered ONLY.
I AM NOT A PRODOMME. I am however a "Daddy" Domme, ask me what it means, and no it doesn't have much to do with age-play


Added Dec 1, 2012* The quick definition is merely a Domme that is *NOT* interested in her submissive's money. I am a dominant female that seeks a relationship with an Alpha male/submissive male/Alpha female/submissive female, but *ONLY* a relationship that is based off of D/s, not financial transaction.


Added Dec 3, 2012* Put simply, I seek a real dynamic with a submissive, however the *original* definition of a dynamic between a submissive and Dominant Female has been hijacked with financial domination and abuse of submissives by women who are themselves not dominant. These women desire the "benefits" of being a Dominant, while taking upon themselves none of the responsibility--which I believe to be inherently not Dominant. Impossible for a dominant personality to do to a submissive. The desire to "possess," to "claim," to "provide for," to "protect," are dominant personality traits, and prevent an alpha dominant from exploiting those that he/she claims, because the nature of the Dom/me is to lead, not knowingly sabotage for personal gain. It is a one-way dynamic that warps the balance of power between D/s and leads way to abuse, yet it exists, and is prolific because of the inherent *need*, the *craving* of a submissive for a authoritative partner. The apparent lack of such type females in our society, gives way to people who are willing to "play" those roles for a fee... More power to them, (thank you to the Femdoms who keep starving subs alive long enough for me to find them...) I simply wish the term was "Financial Top" rather than "Domme," because the current label is a misnomer. So--"Daddy Domme" (a dominant female who wholly desires a relationship based on D/s, and would *relish* and *need* the power exchange, the exchange of responsibilities just as much as the submissive needs it) is the title I use for the main way D/s is expressed in my relationships. Casual interactions when my partner (I'm currently single) and I are mingling in public, or together in our home and *not* having a sexual experience. The D/s never turns off, even when we eat a lazy breakfast in bed together, or when we travel with friends to foreign places. "Daddy" is an undercurrent of control and authority that leads gently, and guides you where I wish you to be, without obvious pressure, or force exerted, and praises you for your successes, and rewards you for pleasing me in *and* out of the bedroom.
9/18/2012 6:05:52 AM

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- ATTN: July 12, 2012 Are you in Scandinavia (Sweden, Denmark, Norway), Netherlands, or Germany? Write Me!

I will be visiting for three months, and I'd like to meet you...

I AM NOT A PRODOMME.

-ATTN:9/12/11 NYC - Manhattan for a week, then Dallas, Texas...

-The shit I'm offered everyday *SERIOUSLY*: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UdbHiDnbhb0&list=SL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6g6g2mvItp4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dpA94wDNjI&feature=player_embedded

Texas for a bit?... I think so...

YEP- I'll be out and about in NYC tonight, so if you'd like to chill, eat, dance, or simply be my footstool send the numbers!!!

Heading to South Korea soon...

I am recently back in NYC from Australia (it's summer there now) and on my way home I had a chance to see a bit more of the caribbean (also hot)- all to come home to snow in NYC *pout* Ah well time for the snowboards to be waxed down again- care to do the waxing?... *smirk*

~*Jett*~

Check out how Cartoon Network is corrupting the kiddies... Fetish and Kink game: http://games.adultswim.com/dungeons-and-dungeons-action-online-game.html

7/7/2012 11:05:29 PM

So, let's see...

Since my last update I've been to Cayman Islands, Virgin Islands, Jamaica, Bahamas, Canada, Germany, France, Belgium, Holland/Netherlands, and Poland

 

I have planned a trip to go check on my home in Denmark, so I'll be in Scandinavia/Germany for about a month/three months this fall, and am single.

 

Are you?

 

Are you serious?

 

Seeking a non-pro?

 

Then fill out that little box and send me a message...

 

 

 

 

2/27/2011 11:25:09 AM

DOES ANYONE WANT A BEATING?  I’D SURE LOVE TO GIVE ONE RIGHT NOW!!!

 

MistressJett on 2/27/11 at 2:20 PM:

 
 

*Growls loudy* 

Ok, first I let it slide with the "whole married but curious" bit- but yes you're right- that's not my kick.

Then you wanting me to keep it a secret from your partner. 

     -but when you closed your letter asking for my rates, that blew it 

I AM NOT A PRODOMME! 

Grrr*

There actually exist women who *are* dominant, and wish to dominate for the sheer pleasure of it!

 

                                          Idiot!Baka!

 

1/24/2011 9:59:45 AM

 

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I'll be in NYC available to meet this weekend-

Today Friday January 21st, tomorrow Saturday January 22nd, and Sunday the 23rd 

 

Write me with your phone number, photo, and what you seek- I'll give you a call back, and perhaps even meet you...

1/21/2011 1:04:34 PM

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Does the idea of meeting me get you wet?

Do you want to prove yourself to me?

Are you looking to please?

Try out a new adventure?

I’m recently home from Australia and other travels and I need a companion this weekend (Dec 17-19th)to:

  • Shop with me
  • Carry my bags
  • Make me breakfast in bed
  • Draw my bath
  • Clean my house
  • Drop off my dry cleaning
  • Spackle and paint
  • Do my laundry

In exchange you’ll be offered:

  • The opportunity to meet and get to know me, skipping the waiting list
  • Accommodation at my residence, or put up in the local Marriott hotel
  • A short ski trip
  • Food included

You’ll need:

  • To send me a photo
  • A number to contact and interview you at
  • A way to get here
  • A change of clothes and pajamas

*Preferred*

  • Driver’s license
  • Bi, or into strap on play
  • Own transportation
  • Stay the weekend
3/1/2010 10:19:09 PM
I'm in SYDNEY!*
12/10/2009 4:07:36 AM
*Mmm*

 so an update...


       I'll be going to Australia in a few months, and I suppose we'll see how long I'll stay- a couple months at least...
(after three I must obtain a visa (-_-) )

 Who knows if I'll drop by the UK before I head to AU, that's still in the air.

 All my chi-town friends hit me up, I am coming your way shortly too!
 
The Mainers out there, I love your state, but it's too cold for me now- 7inches of snow says it's time to migrate, see you next summer and thanks for the fun, "ice fishing" scoff* lol.

Sigh* I have finally closed the paperwork on my place in NYC, so the New Yorker isn't in NY anymore (not counting chilling on LI) You know I love you guys the best and dearest NY

Prob.will be in GA for Xmas- say hello all you "Peaches."

Yes, the CT place is my primary residence now, although when I go to AU wulf will probably head (to his family and our) home in Denmark, so you guys wil miss us for a while*

I suppose I'll update about the Chicago and UK trips to give a heads up before I head out that way...

    Hugs* Have fun* and Be Safe*

                   ~*MistressJett*~
8/30/2009 3:50:27 PM
Hey,

   check out
http://www.youtube.com/OutsideLands ,

Free,streaming, three-day concert from 
 San Francisco, today is the last day, the lineup is amazng, if you check it out, write me
and let me know what you thought...

                       ~*MistressJett*~
8/5/2009 11:54:09 PM
Let me be more blunt*
  -If you are poor or ignorant LEAVE ME ALONE!
 

8/5/09 at 12:09 PM:
Hi Mistress, Do u take appointments for sessions in NY this week? Alternatively if Mistress were to come into NJ I would love to pick u up at the Newark train station and spend a day where we could dine, shop or go to the beach or a park. I would love to indulge a wonderful goddess as u appear to be.

MistressJett on 8/6/09 at 2:49 AM:
I am sorry *read annoyed* that you seem to be unable to read my profile or that of my sub,

        I am NOT a prodomme, I am secure enough in my finances to not trade my dominance for money, and even if I were to do such a thing, your utter lack of tact reveals to me that you woudn't be in the tax bracket to afford me- *Scoff* ME travel to you to give YOU pleasure, chuckle, I doubt you could afford the Amtrak tickets,  you indulge me? It seems as if you have gotten the relationship dynamics misconstrued, you are the hanger-on; not I... Dine, shop, I seriously doubt your offer, let me guess- you are married, but looking for something on the side simpler? Not that scenario, ok, you are divorced, but don't mind the slightly paedophilic undertones of aproaching someone in the age range of your offspring, either way I don't see what I get out of collaring a 46 (probably older) year old, married,divorced, kids man who cannot read- and seems to be selfish in the search for a relationship, oh wait, you're right- you only wanted to pay... 
 
                                                 ~*MistressJett*~
 
           P.S. The thing that really pissed me off, is no self respecting New Yorker is going to go on a date, where they have to travel to the date IN NEW JERSEY, the move screams I AM CHEAP and cannot afford to take you out in Manhattan, plus I am not going to send a car or limo for you-take the train young hot Domme, to meet me- old married man *Rolls eyes and mimics* "I'll pick you up at the train station"
3/16/2009 7:59:57 AM

Ok, let's get this straight*
 I seek a *submissive*
 -not- a burden, 
    I am SO tired of having to spend less because of uncomfortable sluts, if money makes you uncomfortable, or better yet- if you are either financially, or emotionally (think of suicide often, want to kill innocent people, want to be tortured 24/7) insecure, you need not apply.
    Why? Do I want your money? Hell no, but I will not scale down what I like when we go out.
    I make a goodly sum of money, and if you cannot bring anything to the table, as in take me out to a *nice* place, then keep it moving...
          ~*MistressJett*~

1/9/2009 12:47:44 PM

Returned from Jukkasjarvi, and enjoying life; back in business and school mode- but still taking the time to search for an amazing partner- if you believe that is you- Let U/us know...

                ~*MistressJett*~

11/12/2008 10:35:10 PM

So, back in the states from vacation again, just had best few weeks of my life- again! Hopefully able to top it next month at xmas (I love my life) meanwhile I am still searching- are you intelligent, able to hold a conversation, happy, live life the to the fullest and enjoy the best of the best? Then let me know and I will decide if we are compatible...   Have fun out there pets-

                 ~*MistressJett*~

10/18/2008 10:12:44 AM

Read the lower entries to understand this one...

 
blank on 10/18/08 at 12:56 PM:
 
 Funny I should see you here today. With much thinking about our notes back and forth , Ive come to think I owe you an apology. During a bad day I tried to take it our on your profile and then you, which I had no right to even think about. Please accept my apologies.


 MistressJett on 10/18/08 at 12:58 PM:
 
 I am ever gracious pet,

                    all is well, and you are forgiven- heh looks like I'll have to update the ol' profile now... *Smile*


                                             ~*MistrssJett*~
 
 
 

10/16/2008 12:23:46 AM
Barack the vote!!!
10/15/2008 9:05:47 AM

Quite an interesting discourse- don't read a book by it's cover- not only am I African American, female, and Domme- I am well read, and well spoken, sexy, and have an awesome body- which the headshots need not show, ask and you will receive ~*wink*~

Young, but independently wealthy, and one hell of a lover- but here is what one person received when they didn't bother to ask:







blank on 10/12/08 at 0:14 AM:

 View my pictures bitches, (all of them)   4 fucking pictures of you talking on the phone. All of them????? 4?????  This is me holding the phone this way, And this is me holding the phone that way. This is me wearing a coat, hat and scarf iduring the summer??????
 
 

 

 MistressJett on 10/14/08 at 1:09 AM:
 
 Heh,
              Are you high pet?
       Perhaps you could look them over once more- I am not on the phone in all of the pics, neither am I taking the pics from a phone, which you so ignominiously assumed, and the coat hat etc, were on my catamaran- you might want to look up what that is, and I was sailing to Maine, in the fall I might add... If you have further questions or would like other pictures, then I would consider responding if your next correspondence was a mite bit more respectful, but other than that, there is left not much more to say…
            I wish you a good life, and not so many jaded experiences pet-

                                   ~*MistressJett*~

 

blank on 10/14/08 at 4:42 PM:

 I well know what a catamatan is, I have another home in Maine and I know what fall is like. Never said you took the pics from a cell phone, I said your holding it this way and that way. Your start off with, View my pictures bitches. That’s rude, your talking down to all subs as there second class. Sure you know being a sub doesn’t make you  a doormat And before someone’s your sub calling them a bitch I feel is rude.  I may be wrong, I’ve been wrong before but I wouldn’t approach anyone with hello bitch.


MistressJett on 10/15/08 at
1:35 AM:

 If my headline displeases you so, then I shall adjust it, however take into consideration that not all are offended by the term, the first message you sent was not specific enough to identify that the word bitch was your issue, the wording suggested that you were affronted at having to follow an order before I collared you ( not that I am looking to, I have read your profile.) Rule to the wise however, if you wish to communicate, do not always assume that a perceived injustice is personal, as in this case- for my pets prefer the term bitch and I am not broadcasting it for everyone, I am talking to them. Perhaps it is the age difference or just a difference in cultures, but the title bitch is not always disparaging, it just ...is... I have many pets, human, and animal- and the terms to me are just that- a term, I love them no less or more for it, but I can share with you pet, that what is offensive to one is not always repulsive to another *wink*

                                        Remember that, and you'll be golden,
                                                                              ~*MistressJett*~

 P.S. As you can see, I am not what you initially expected, so when you next have broad sweeping ignorance, try asking the person, before making assumptions...

 blank on 10/15/08 at 6:51 AM:
 
 LOL  I dont want to keep this going , but "broad sweeping ignorance’s?"  Its not unusual to be offended being called a bitch. There may be a culture difference that makes it acceptable for you. If that’s so next time you see your Minister you’ll refer to them as a bitch? Your grandmother? a judge, school teacher, or brock obama? If its that acceptable for you go for it........ 

 MistressJett on 10/15/08 at 11:46 AM:
 
 

First off don't is a contraction- you need an apostrophe. Minister is lower case, because it is not a person specific noun, “Your grandmother” is not a complete thought, and Barack Obama, is uppercase- because it is a name- I am going to assume that you mentioned a minister because you think I go to church, grandmother – because you think I have one, and Barack because I am somehow supposed to know of him and be reverent just because I too am black- but here goes the ignorance again- I am a registered republican, previously I specifically said that the message was and is for my pets only, if you happened to stumble across it, then forgive me, but it is not meant for you… As far as Barack, I actually would call him bitch, if he in fact were my bitch- and liked the name, how many times must I mention to you that my pets like and prefer the term.  By the way, my point is that it IS unusual to be offended by the term if you picked it out (as my pets did…)
Lastly I must chuckle whole heartedly, for one of my pets IS in fact a judge, so I guess that I do call judges “bitch”. *Smirk*

 I have never called you bitch, and did not make you look at the photos, I reiterate for the LAST time, I made this profile for them, was and am speaking TO them, so don’t get your panties in a bunch over a term that doesn’t necessarily have to do with you, I am sure that you have things that I would be personally offended about, but I am not rooting them out, especially if they have nothing to do with me- live and let live, if it offends you – look away…

                                                       ~*MistressJett*~

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