Hetero Female Dominant, 39,
|I do not accept friend/admirer requests from people I do not know, or from people who don't have respect enough to send an email first. All you collectors can keep jerking off to the idiots who accept your requests. Don't bother Me!
Starting a poly household
!Do you desire a curvy, sexy Goddess to help lead your life in a better and new direction? Do you want to know what it's like to be cherished and adored as a true gift to your Domme?
I am an experienced sensual Domme with a bit of a sadistic side. I honor and cherish submissives as special men in My life who have given Me the greatest gifts of all...their loyalty and self. I often travel to the Chicago area and have a need at times for dinner, museum, tour guide type "dates". I enjoy meeting new people and am not opposed to a small road trip to get Myself out of town and to a new adventure, but I do expect a boy to put forth a good amount of effort himself.
I adore CBT, massage, domestic service,anal play, taking pictures, showing off My pet, sensation play, light bondage, collar and leash, obedience, and much more.
I am not specifically looking for a 24/7 situation, but if one presented itself at the right time, I'd certainly consider it.
UPDATE: I am currently looking for a live in slave, and I am conducting interviews with those I find to be good matches with Me. Interviews are at My house for no less than 5 days, 24 hrs a day, unless we find we are not a match before that. Slave must be primarily domestic, as well as a "bread winner" to support the household. More info will be given via email here, to start, in answer of your questions. females will be considered.
A Poly Household
Disciplining your private parts (Expert)
You massaging me (Expert)
You kissing my feet (Expert)
Going to the Opera
You worshiping my body
Tying you up
Disciplining you with a cane
Keeping you locked in tamper evident chastity at all times
Giving you corner time facing the wall
Local BDSM Community (Expert)
Rear End Play (Expert)
You being my domestic servant
You at the end of my leash
Going to munches
Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me (Beginner)
Complete control over your orgasms
You servicing me with your mouth
You worshiping me in stockings
Tickling you while you are bound
Horror Movies (Expert)
Coffee Shops (Beginner)
Forcing you to wear diapers
Eye contact with me is not permitted (Beginner)
Placing you in masks (Beginner)
Modern Primitivism (Beginner)
You worshiping me with recitations and rituals (Beginner)
Deciding what you wear (Beginner)
Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)
Plastic Wrap Bondage (Beginner)
Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Beginner)
Public Play (Beginner)
Dominating you with a strap-on (Beginner)
Wax Play (Beginner)
Role Playing Games
Role Playing (Beginner)
Rubber Fetish (Beginner)
Medical fetish play
Electrical Play (Beginner)
10/4/2011 12:49:13 AM
I'm planning on being in St Louis in July 2012. I may be interested in meeting people there and possibly playing. Let Me know if you'd like to be in contact to see if that may work for you.
9/11/2010 4:14:42 PM
Some thoughts about respect, Money Dommes, and safety...as I also shared on another site.
As a Lifestyler, I am very active in the BDsM
community. I spend a good deal of time taking classes, making
connections at munches and watching and participating in teaching
demonstrations. I take what I learn there, from online, from
conversations with subs and Dom/mes, from reading, into my
relationships with subs and My play times. A HUGE concern I have deals
There are countless Dommes, of all sorts, and subs who do not put in
the learning time and practice time that others do. They basically
hear about something, want to try it, and do it. This is heart wrenching
to see during online/cam play ..ie, doing breath play for the first time
alone online with no emergency plan, eating scat without knowing that
it can literally kill you, and doing anal acts with objects that can cut
or seriously injure, are a few examples.
We should all be lifelong
learners and keep educating ourselves. subs should NEVER feel forced
to participate in acts that they do not want to do just because they
paid for it ( to a money domme) and may feel like they may not get there money's worth or a
second chance if they refuse.
I should not go without saying that
subs have the responsibility, as well as Dommes, to be knowledgeable
about BDsM and to not just accept orders from the first willing Domme.
A key point to BDsM is RESPECT!
This is NOT a one way street. NO matter what a Dommes view of men/subs
etc, they still deserve respect unless they give that up to you. As
members of this site, we are a community where everyone deserves
respect. The subs have all the power unless that power is given to
You. I'm often told by subs how poorly they are treated and
disrespected by total strangers. (Granted, some get off on this, but
You should still have knowledge or permission to treat them as
such...yes, I said permission! ) What happens is, they may leave or
pass up so many great opportunities because they think We are all
alike. Unfortunately there can be a geat lack of respect among the
Ladies too...which is far worse in My eye. We all have different
protocol levels, but we should at least share respect!
There are a lot of women on here looking for money. I believe that should be done, if it's done at all, after a sub
has inquired, and I also believe that anyone who WILL ask for money
tribute should be upfront about that. subs get attached quickly and
also get upset easily or angry or even vindictive when the Domme they
were connecting with for a good amount of time, all of a sudden goes YIM
with them and THEN tells them to pay up or piss off. We expect subs to
do their research and read profiles; We expect them to be honest on
theirs', then We aren't.
An important credo of Mine is to Always expect from Myself, at least what I expect from others...in ALL of life.
I'll wrap this up with one last thought, and please forgive any ranting I believe in radical inclusivity.
Your kinks may not be Mine, and Mine may not be yours. We may not
agree on many things, but that's ok. I'll respect you as a person and
expect to be treated likewise.
11/15/2009 11:26:27 PM
Now interviewing for live in service slave. he will work hard in and out of the household and submit all to Me. female may be considered, but a male will be needed as well.
12/11/2008 6:54:07 PM
Today I thought I'd share some thoughts that I gave to a new submissive minded man who has found nothing but Dommes who seem to only want to drive him away and not take an opportunity to help someone new to engage in the lifestlye.
There are not too many real Dommes out there who are willing to put time into a new sub to nurture him into being what he is meant to be..only want him to be what she demands him to be. I do not believe in that. I believe a sub will serve best and with heart when he is also enjoying himself and what he's doing. he must know who he is and what his true nature is. This can not be told to him, he must be nurtured and guided on a path of discovery, not a path to being a cookie-cutter version of what someone expects him and every other sub to be.
8/23/2008 11:17:38 AM
I thought I'd take a moment to share that I am a member of a few local kink/BDsM groups. If you are in the Oshkosh, Appleton, Green Bay, Wausau etc general area and are looking for groups to meet with, network with and learn with, send a message and we can discuss how to get you hooked up.
7/8/2008 8:28:57 PM
I've now enjoyed two meetings with a new man...really enjoyed today's meeting ;) I'm glad that I took a chance to talk with him, and then to meet him. There was a time when I was quite strict about what a man should look like and the age he should be, but times change and these have as well. Luckily he is goodlooking and rates well on Miss B's body scale!
My words of wisDomme for today...stretch those age preferences and take a chance on someone now and then, you will often be surprised in all the right ways.
6/16/2008 2:55:34 PM
Dommes need to know Their place too!!!So many people complain that they do not get replies to their messages on here. Granted, some of us do get a lot of mail, but a few minutes and some 6 words or less can really prove your character. Too many "Dommes" forget that without subs, We would have NO ONE to play with! We should be thankful that We get messages showing interest. It is only right to also extend that thanks to those who show interest. It always stuns Me how little manners are used by those who are so demanding of them. I'll share a portion of a message I recently sent to one sub..which is not all too different from what I send to any who tell Me of their issues with no reply-"Dommes" ( and yes, I put "Domme" in quotes because I am suspect that most of you just players)
It's the people
who can't demand at least what they demand out of others who are wrong
in at least not sending a thank you/ no thank you note. Too many so
called "Dommes" forget that there still needs to be mutual respect and
that they too must show manners. Those who can not model proper
etiquette have no right demanding it.
So, if you are a BAD DOMME (and not in a good way), straighten up and learn some manners and stop giving the rest of Us a bad rap. On the other hand, you DO make Us look EVEN BETTER! lol
1/22/2008 10:49:03 PM
"the best way to approach life is to be child-like without being childish"...someone expressed this to Me tonight during a conversation about why we think it's a good thing to be able to refer to men as boys and women as girls. He thought it may have been said by Spider Robinson?(I'll have to look it up) So many people take offense to being referred to as boy or girl. Yes, it does matter on the context and on who says it, but in general I don't think it's anything to get worked up about. Words only mean to you what you let them mean to you. I see calling a man a boy as a reflection on how I admire his light heartedness, his young heart, playful spirit, etc...for Me, it's nothing but a compliment.
I say W/we all take a stand and accept and admire the child within U/us. Be child like without being childish. Look at the world and others with the amazement and the inquisitive nature of a child. Smile....laugh....play...be that boy or girl with pride!
12/31/2007 10:33:41 AM
A pleasant and safe New Year to everyone! I hope your holidays have been joyous.