Someone asked me what I was looking for and I actually thought about it. This is the response that I sent:  I have dealt with a few "doms" but it didn't work out. I'm not looking to be someone's pet. I'm still a woman and I have feelings, thoughts, meaningful conversations, and I can't be with a dominant man that doesn't understand that. I like kink in the bedroom. I like men who are confident, and a little controlling. Sometimes I get out of line and need to be put in my place. It's not purposely but because I don't know any better.I dont know the rules and standards of relationships because Ive always been in charge of everything.   Ive never had a good, solid man in my life to lead me or to be by my side. Thats what I want and need. I need a man thats loving, caring, treats me like a princess and also treats me like his personal whore.One that is not afraid to spank me,choke or pull my hair.  (I love kink) One that knows that Im hard-headed and stubborn and knows how to deal with it.  One that can take care of all of my needs, physically, sexually, emotionally, and mentally. I dont know if that type of man is a DOM/ Switch/ Or Sub... but whatever he is..he is for me.

So if you really want to know "ME"  this is who I am and what it would take to make me be with you.