|
|
|
|
| ?The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now.? ~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh
?
I find myself in an amazing place in my life. I am happily married to a vanilla man?who hangs the sun, moon and stars for me on a daily basis. We have a marvelous life together, full of laughter and love. While BDJ does not participate in WIITWD, he fully supports my involvement in the local community and enjoys participating on the fringe edges.
?
And I am also blessed to have a wonderful dominant in my life as well. He quietly slipped into my world and has become the midnight blue sky of my nights and the bright blue sky of my days ? the perfect backdrop to complete my world. His patient guidance and care for me have enabled me to find the balance I had been seeking for a very long time. Our relationship works well for us and is fully supported by my husband.
?
I am however, interested in finding a play partner to be approved by my dominant. I am not a hard core masochist and have specific restrictions that will have to be respected.
?
I am also very active in my local community and run the Submissives of Jacksonville group. We have a monthly brunch and are developing an amazing group dynamic. Feel free to look us up on fetlife!
?
"Sometimes what seems like surrender isn't surrender at all. It's about what's going on in our hearts. About seeing clearly the way life is and accepting it and being true to it, whatever the pain, because the pain of not being true to it is far, far greater." ~ Nicholas Evans
?
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right - for you'll be criticized anyway." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt.
?
?
|
|
|
|
