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MissJeanJ

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Not interested in newbies or vanillas just trying to shake things up. I also do not engage with anyone under the age of 25. Personally, I prefer the over 50 crowd.

Key points to know

1. I am a lifestyle Dominatrix. I am not a pro-Domme, cam girl, clip Domme, or sugar baby. If you do not understand what this means, please move along.

2. You must enjoy pampering and pleasing your Mistress. I will be an important part of your life, ergo you will desire to treat me as such.

3. Your cock is mine. Chastity (mental caged), masturbation control, denial, CBT, etc. I used to co-admin a male chastity group on Kik and enjoyed it very much. Now I run one for lady keyholders.

4. Foot fetishists are welcome with open arms. I love foot boys!

5. I am online only! The most recent sub who met me in person worked for close to a year to get that privilege, so do not count your chickens before they hatch. I do not do cam sessions, as I only play with my own devoted subs. They have the pleasure of seeing and hearing from me on Twitter, Kik, email, phone, mail, etc. Yes, owned boys know what I look like.

6. I am a voyeur. I love boys who can send pics, video, and so on.

7. Other random kinky things that interest me surveillance, bondage of all kinds, dietary and exercise control, daily reporting, tasks, king, canes crops, CFNM, and I will add more as I think of them.

I take the following very seriously discretion, safety, manners, and your submission.

If you wish to start a conversation, read my last journal entry, then send a message that includes the word Sunflower (otherwise the message may be ignored). Although tell me the reason you are contacting me...just to chat, a desire to serve, etc. I am polite, but not a mind reader and do not have endless patience. We ladies get a ton of mail, you only have one chance to stand out.

PS. I do not respond to messages from other Dommes, because 99.9 percent of the time its just a dude posing as his own Mistress in order to chat kink or involve a third party. Talk about topping from the bottom! Geez.

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2/11/2017 5:44:49 AM
This is my original, book-length profile:


If your pulse races when you provide for your Domme, then read on! I am a lifestyle financial Domme looking for a finsub (not a boyfriend or husband) who is willing to give everything - mind, body, and soul - to the right mistress.  Let's see if we have that connection.

 

I am not a pro, cam girl, or brat and this is not my job. I have a life outside of kink, a good job, and a retirement plan. I pay for my needs, you pay for my wants. I may not need you for my survival, but I want you for my happiness and fulfillment. I'm aware of how controversial it is to be financially kinky. To me, a finsub with a heart for service is truly the gold standard. Opening one's checkbook is an incredibly hard thing to do, so a man who can manage this with grace is someone to be respected and cherished. Financial worship is an act of devotion which most cannot or will not engage in, so I find those who do to be enticingly attractive.

 

My fantasy: I am looking for the perfect mouse.

 

"Mouse" is my term for a finsub interested in a deeper financial submission. Regular tithing would be required of my mouse as well as control of his budget. I don't believe in debt (except for a home mortgage when necessary) and I'm a fan of the Dave Ramsey get-out-of-debt-live-on-cash-and-be-generous style of financial living. This would require revealing all financial records (income, investments, debts, etc). My mouse's financial life would be molded so that he will become debt-free, build a sufficient nest egg, all while showing appreciation and increasing generosity to his Mistress. I've often dreamt of a man who takes on a second job with the express purpose of turning over the entire paycheck (sigh). A good mouse is loved and will make his Mistress proud. Come squeak for me, little one.

 

Clearly being my mouse is a tall order, so until I find "the one" I guess I'm here for a little fin-based D/s fun.  Please note that I do not keep a large stable of boys...I prefer to focus on those with whom I have the best connection and work on cultivating those relationships.

 

Due to my philosophies, I am not interested in rinsing or raping your pockets or bankruptcy...not in a real-world sense. Are they great fantasies? Actually, yes. Can they be fun short-term play scenarios with a trusted partner? Absolutely. I even like to flirt with blackmail innuendos, but I'm not about to destroy your job or life. How would you be able to serve me as I deserve if you were penniless or homeless?

 

Just as I am sure you cannot submit to everyone, I must have a connection with my submissive as well. A well-spoken, intelligent man with a foot fetish who knows how to wear a tie would really ring my bell. I confess to being a little old-fashioned in that I would take a handwritten letter over an email any day.

 

A note about married men: I believe in the supremacy of women and your duty is to serve. I don't play the hotter-than-your-wife game and I'm not here to interfere in your relationship either. (I may exert a little control over your habits within the confines of your marriage, but that's a conversation for another day.) Whether you are blissfully in love, in an open marriage, or miserable with a vanilla, you are still married and will not disparage your wife on my behalf. You will give her what she wants and needs AND still provide for me. If you cannot honor the commitment you made to her, why would I believe that you'll honor one made to me?

 

My lists of interests would be as follows: foot worship, financial servitude, CBT, masturbation control/restriction, chastity, and sph (only when it is warranted). I am always interested in learning new things, so if you've got an interest not on my list, feel free to speak up. Interests can change over time, so I think being flexible is a good thing.

 

I do have a specific "position" (for lack of a better word) for a foot/shoe slave who enjoys the intersection of foot fetishism and financial worship. I love showing off my feet and enjoy having them pampered with pedicures, shoes, and massages. Having someone focus all their energies on my feet, would be divine. Contact would be chat, pics, video, phone, Kik, Twitter, or FL.  I don't cam.  Period.

 

Speaking of online... At this time, I am strictly an online Mistress as it suits my life and helps to remove the barriers of geography. Meeting in person will only be allowed for the right one and much further down the road. With the right one, many things are possible. Until then, I'm here for online interactions only. The majority of my experiences have been real time D/s relationships, so I am not new to this by any means.

 

If you wish to start a conversation, include the word: Sunflower (otherwise the message may be ignored).

 

Visit missjeansthings.com

 for more about serving me OR if you are a foot fetishist who desires stinky socks and stockings.

 

PS. I do not respond to messages from other Dommes, because 99.9% of the time it's just a dude posing as his own Mistress in order to chat kink or involve a third party. Talk about topping from the bottom! Geez.🙄

 


10/23/2016 11:43:48 AM
A few boys with genuinely interesting profiles have contacted me this week. Pity they can't even follow the most basic of instructions.

12/19/2015 5:54:51 AM
It feels terribly impersonal to even have a website, but I no longer have any patience to wade through the dozens of daily messages and chat requests from men who are (mostly) not serious in the least.

Feel free to follow me on Twitter @missjeanswallet

and feel free to visit missjeansthings.com

for more info if you think we might be compatible for a little fin-based D/s fun.

I don't engage in pay-for-play and the only thing you can purchase from me is my socks!  (Seriously, stinky foot lovers can buy my socks on my website.)

If we click, awesome, but if we don't...best of luck to you!

7/18/2015 8:04:09 AM
Making a playlist of the best cover songs ever...send me a message with your idea/contribution.

Rules: The original has to be a great song and the remake has to be even better (or pretty darn close)!

Here's what I'm thinking so far:

Addicted to Love - Florence and the Machine (Originally by Robert Palmer)
Sweet Dreams - Marilyn Manson (Originally by The Eurythmics)
Gold Dust Woman - Hole (Originally by Fleetwood Mac)
Hurt - Johnny Cash (Originally by Nine Inch Nails)
Smooth Criminal - Alien Ant Farm (Originally by Michael Jackson)
Blue Bayou - Linda Ronstadt (Originally by Roy Orbison)

7/7/2015 7:34:03 PM
Received yet another copy and past intro message.  Ugh, seriously??  Grow up and write something real. 

And, no, you can't buy something from my wishlist if you have typos in your profile that I already told you to correct.  Yes, gentlemen, I will turn down money if I think you are an idiot. I don't want just any man, I want the right man.

Finally, I will decline chat requests from anyone I have not messaged with first.  It is basically the equivalent of screening my calls.  Thanks, gentlemen.

7/5/2015 1:20:13 PM
Tip to submissives:  If you have a cut and paste introductory message that you send, you might want to keep a list of who you've already sent that message to.  That way I won't get the same message from you on May 28th, June 26th, and July 5th.

It just makes you look even worse than the fact that you didn't read my profile in the first place.

6/29/2015 3:46:11 PM
When you write things like "I am not a financial submissive" in your profile, it makes your profile appear when I'm searching for one!  How about you decline this kind of play/lifestyle without using those key words?

Try some of these:

My finances are off limits.

I will not give you money.

I'm not looking for a FinDom.

CS doesn't include financial submission as a kink option, so the only way finsubs can be found are by using the keyword search option.  But many of you get bitchy if I look at your profile... now you know why I took a peek.

6/29/2015 3:45:57 PM

I'm bored with posting the hate mail.  Today's entry from a "sweet submissive" was just too long to bother with and it didn't feel right to paraphrase or used selected quotes.

So...I'm done with it.  :-)

PS.  Although he did make me laugh with the typos and using "here" when he really meant "hear".  Fantastically done, boy!


6/29/2015 3:43:04 PM
I deleted 6/23's journal entry, here's a repost:

Yesterday, a mature boy in Jersey sent the following:

"whore"

I almost like it for the utter simplicity.  How succinct!  He refined his thoughts down to not just a single word, but a single syllable.  I would almost say Bravo! -- Except for the fact that he is utterly and completely wrong.

Dictionary.com states:

Whore
[hawr, hohr or, often, hoo r]

noun  
 
a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

Maybe it wasn't a condemnation... maybe it was an invitation.  Since there was no capitalization, perhaps the intended question mark is simply missing.  Yeah, that's it!  He must've meant it as a
request!  Now I get it!

Since I don't engage in sexual intercourse for money, nor do I have sexual intercourse with anyone on this site, I'll have to say "Sorry, boy, but you're just shit out of luck.  But best of luck to you!" 

6/8/2015 9:42:56 PM
Here's an interesting one tonight from a Southern Tier Dom:

"Laughing. Whores with the second toe longer than the big toe tickle the shit out of me and begging for money. Put on a sweat sock on that motherfucking foot and try Craigs List...laughing."

I suppose with all that laughing, he must be a jolly old fellow for certain.




6/3/2015 9:02:35 PM
Time for a pedicure and new shade of polish... what say you?

Message me with your color choice and we'll see what garners the most votes.  Or better yet, send an Amazon e-gift card to missjeanswallet@yahoo.com

 and the color choice is all yours!

5/21/2015 8:32:16 PM
The most polite "hate mail" I've gotten so far:

A sissy remarked, "That's because financial domination is not a kink but a disease on this site. But I do appreciate that you are an upfront scammer. Thank you for that."

Hmmm... called my kink a disease.  Called me a scammer.  Well the thank you was a nice touch, I suppose.  

5/13/2015 6:43:34 PM
Today's hate mail:

"I'm building an army of so called fin-dommes that I can blacklist and you just made it on it. Now go fuck yourself and disappear from my view"

So this came from a self-proclaimed slavetoy who also boasts in his journal:
"my list of blocked users is huge (mostly ghetto "findommes" after an easy buck) ."

So the first thing I find curious is the fact that he bothered to message me at all.  We have had no prior dealings, so as a complete stranger he took it upon himself to reach out to ensure that I knew he didn't like one of the particular kinks in which I engage.

Um, okay.  Guess what?  I don't care what you think.  I have no interest in you at all.  I've read your profile and we are not looking for the same things.  So guess what?  I simply move on.  But somehow you think it is your place to message me with a filthy mouth and your unsolicited opinion.  I think someone needs to wash your mouth out with soap.

5/13/2015 6:39:13 PM
The last time I was on this site was back in the CM days.  Back then I used to get boatloads of spam and the few real men who contacted me would fawn over the fact that I was real and could string a sentence together.  But the old profile didn't mention financial domination.

Now I get hate mail.

The first few I just deleted, but now I think I'll just post them.  Because I generally find them funny.

The idea that someone thinks it is acceptable to attack me because they find one of my kinks unacceptable is ludicrous.  Would it be acceptable to attack someone who dishes out CBT? Or wears fetish clothes?  Or likes spanking?  

Part of me wants to think that they aren't really opposed to financial domination, but the fakes and scammers and camgirls who call themselves findommes.  Honestly, why would they care that I consider finances to be a powerful and necessary form of submission?  If you let me control your orgasm and force you to wear panties to church, why can't I tell you to buy me a pedicure or a pair of shoes?  And I sincerely hope that the same type of hatemail isn't also directed at the paypigs and cash cows of the world.  


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eroticnymph
 
 Age: 18
 California, California