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Pan Female Submissive, 37,  Saratoga Springs, New York
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I dont even know why I still keep this profile. So many fakes and time wasters. If you are the rare ones who are serious and not going to waste my time, then PLEASE be in the greater New York area. I'm not interested in those in any other state. I MAY consider someone from Europe but that is a VERY long shot. All other countries I am not interested in. Also, for the love of the gods, no, I'm not interested in anything even remotely related to my equestrian hobby and any puns therein. I've heard them all and they're no long funny or cute. Just to get it out of the way, I HATE being on camera. It MAY be a possibility but that is something to earn in time as well as talking on the phone. Please read on if you're still interested. Please dont just send me a friend request. Send me a message introducing yourself. I wont accept random friend requests. Only requests from those that Ive gotten to know will be accepted. If you are going to send me a message, I only respond to gentlemansladies. Vulgar messages will be ignored or may be responded to in kind. Also, I have face pictures of myself that are available to those that I call friends. If I still have youre attention, read on and thanks for stopping by.

Im horrible at talking about myself but here goes. Im 5 4, dirty blonde, blue eyes, average build, not thin but not fat either. Im an equestrian so youll catch me talking about horses a lot. I consider myself to be intelligent and can hold a conversation on a variety of topics just dont ask me about politics or most things in the news because I dont follow either. Ive got a very dry sense of humor so sometimes its hard to tell if Im serious or joking. Ive been told that Im witty and have a strong personality. I can be quiet or I can be outspoken depending on my mood. I can be strong willed but have no problem knowingbeing put in my place. I can be stubborn but only occasionally. Im half Italian so I can be hot blooded. I think thats basically me in a nutshell. If theres something in particular that you want to know that Ive left out, feel free to ask. Theres no such thing as a stupid question and Im an open book, very open minded, and dont get offended easily.

I consider myself to be naturally submissive but that doesnt mean that I let people walk over me. I ask to be respected even though I dont mind being called a slut. I want a partner that will push me. Im tougher than most people give me credit for. Things need to be interesting. Routine bores me. I thrive on unpredictability. Thats why I chose this lifestyle. So many things to try and always something new to learn. I am very sensitive to the energy of my partner. If I sense weakness, I tend to try to take over. I prefer to be submissive but can be dominant if needed.

As far as what I look for in a Dom, its simple. If you are going to call yourself a Dom, then act like one. Dont ask me so what do you want to do?. After we negotiate limits, have a plan for when we play. Dont play games with me that waste my time. Dont ignore me. I dont require a lot of attention but enough so that I know I matter to you. Dont expect me to chase you. Ive done that enough and refuse to do it. Follow through on what you saypromise. Be brutally honest. I can take it, respect it, and give it back. I like a Dom that is erotic and loving but also firm and a little sadistic.












 Submissive Female

 Saratoga Springs 

 New York

 5' 4"

 150 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant male


 Lives For:

 Travel (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding

 Collars (Beginner)

 Being Massaged (Beginner)

 Leashes (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving) (Beginner)

 Mental Bondage (Beginner)

 Orgasm Control (Beginner)

 Country Music


 Amusement Parks (Beginner)

 Bar Hopping (Beginner)

 Clubbing (Beginner)


 Camping (Beginner)

 Dancing (Beginner)

 Snorkeling (Beginner)

 Blindfolds (Beginner)

 Bondage (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)

 Sensory Play (Beginner)

 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Vibrators (Beginner)

 Cybering (Beginner)

 Puzzle Games

 Body Art (Beginner)

 Tattoos (Beginner)

 Skiing (Beginner)

 Sky Diving (Beginner)



 Coffee Shops (Beginner)

 Fine Dining (Beginner)

 Fishing (Beginner)

 Flea Markets (Beginner)

 Gambling (Beginner)

 Garage Sales (Beginner)

 Shopping (Beginner)

 Volunteerism (Beginner)


 Hiking (Beginner)

 Hunting (Beginner)

 Rollerblading (Beginner)

 Walking (Beginner)

 Begging (Beginner)

 Body Worship (Beginner)

 Breast Play (Beginner)

 Canes and Crops (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Genital Punishment (Beginner)

 Gags (Beginner)

 Oral Service (Beginner)

 Spanking (Beginner)

 Whips (Beginner)

 Arcade Games (Beginner)

 Board Games (Beginner)

 Card Games (Beginner)

 Cartoons (Beginner)

 Comedy Shows (Beginner)

 Online Chatrooms (Beginner)

 Romance Novels (Beginner)

 Science Fiction (Beginner)

 Sitcoms (Beginner)

 True Crime (Beginner)

 Web Surfing (Beginner)

 Alternative Medicine (Beginner)

 Astrology (Beginner)

 Beading (Beginner)

 Online Auctions (Beginner)

 Pottery (Beginner)

 Archaeology (Beginner)

 Astronomy (Beginner)

 Biology (Beginner)

 Nutrition (Beginner)

 Poetry (Beginner)

 Writing (Beginner)

 Polyamory (Beginner)

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Hip Hop Music


 Nineties Music

 Pop Music



 Rock Music


 Auto Racing (Beginner)

 Badminton (Beginner)

 Baseball (Beginner)

 Bowling (Beginner)

 Darts (Beginner)

 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey (Beginner)


 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling (Beginner)


 Newspapers (Beginner)

 TV News (Beginner)

 TV Sports (Beginner)





 Catholicism (Beginner)


 Basketball (Beginner)

 Football (Beginner)

 Soccer (Beginner)

 Volleyball (Beginner)

 Wrestling (Beginner)

 Curious About:

 Art Galleries



 Musical Theater


 Renaissance Faires



 Martial Arts



 Scuba Diving

 Surf Boarding


 Ultimate Frisbee

 Wind Surfing




 Corner Time



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 G-spot Service

 Local BDSM Community

 Domestic Service

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play


 Housework Service

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical fetish play


 Obedience Training

 Clothing Selection

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing


 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension Bondage

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play



 Simulation Games


 Candle Making

 Cross Stitch







 Paranormal Phenomena


 1950s Lifestyle

 Cuck Options

 Female Sovereignty

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard


 Victorian Lifestyle

 Feng Shui






 Kick Boxing



 Street Hockey





 Conservative Politics



 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics



 Political Activism

 Hard Limits:



 Foot Worship



 Sensation Play




 Horror Movies

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