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	I am Miss Heather of "Bound for Pleasure". BFP was a New England BDSM group I established in 1992 and ran for many years. Although it is no longer formally around, you will find BFP members everywhere and as they all say, "once a BFP'er always a BFP'er". So, I am here looking to reconnect with my scene friends. I am not actively looking for a submissive (no slaves please), however, one never knows what life will give you as a gift. I have begun to add to my journal here and it is there you will learn more about me. MzH

7/24/2010 5:55:45 PM

Vacation is over for another year. As always, too many work days and not enough fun days...but such is life.

Attended a local munch last evening and it was wonderful reconnecting with friends and making new ones.

I have not been as active in the Scene as I would like so to remedy this I have booked my room for the FFF coming in February of 2011. I am looking forward to 3 days of non-stop BDSM fun!

http://neleatheralliance.org/cmsms/index.php?page=fff

4/7/2010 2:21:25 PM

Life gets so busy I find it difficult to maintain conversations via e-mail here. I have had several interesting people reach out to me, but I am not able to keep the flow going which makes me unhappy.

One thing that is critical for me is a profile. If you have nothing, I am not even going to answer your e-mail.

3/22/2010 3:40:18 AM

I suppose I should be insulted but I am actually amused. I have received several e-mails from the men here congratulating me on still playing "at my age".

Now what does age have to do with it?

If they were blindfolded and in front of my whip all they would know is the glorious headspace they would visit. Talent and love for what one does is ageless.

2/20/2010 7:13:27 AM

I continue to be amazed at how little respect some submissives have for themselves. I get e-mails on a daily basis from them throwing themselves at my feet and offering themselves to me to do whatever I desire.

First, you are a submissive in the scene...you are not my submissive. This means that it is lovely you extend respect to me, but you owe me nothing!

Second, do you not care about your safety? Would you really allow some strange woman to do the things to you that you have suggested?

To protect yourself, you need to get to know a Dom/ina before entering into play. Meet in person in a safe/vanilla environment such as a local munch. Ask other munchers about the Dom/ina. Networking is THE best way to find the person you are looking for.

Be safe...play safe!

H

2/18/2010 6:39:18 PM

I love surprises! Life might have just handed me a gift!

2/16/2010 2:23:45 PM

Evolving ... everyone in the scene evolves. What you started out as in the beginning is probably very different from what you are now or what you desire. Limits change along with desire to try new things.
I loved flogging! Then I got a single tail and I was hooked! It's now my favorite toy.
Now my play is evolving again. I want to concentrate more on me than on my play partner or submissive. Actually, it's all about me now! LOL
I think a butler would be nice. Someone who is looking for me to control their mind and actions. It's not about sex but about giving over control...going against what you are and being what "I" want you to be.

2/15/2010 6:28:08 AM

Did I open a BDSM dating business and then forgot about it? What possesses people to contact me and ask me to help them find a Domme? My delete button is getting a lot of use these days.

2/14/2010 3:24:44 PM

Trust … even more important in the scene than in vanilla life. The transfer of power between the Dom and sub requires absolute trust on the subs part in order for each to fly and return safely. If there is any hint of mistrust, the sub’s mind cannot let go totally and you cannot fly high.

I entered the scene many years ago as a sub. It took me a long time to find my soul mate and our relationship was legendary. Then he broke that trust and it came to an end. I was never able to recover from that and so I evolved into a Domina so I could control what was going on and to make sure MY bond of trust with my sub would never be broken.

I have not been active in the scene lately but I continually float in and out. One cannot deny what is so inherent in their soul.

2/12/2010 7:32:58 PM

Respect... sometimes it is earned and sometimes it is demanded.

My friends respect me and I return that respect. We have earned it from each other.

If you wish to e-mail me then I demand the respect due me as Miss Heather of "Bound for Pleasure".

If all you can manage to write in your e-mail is "hi", then don't bother wasting my time.

If you write a full e-mail then speak in proper sentences using proper words! "you" NOT "u" ... "are" NOT "r". I am not some teenager you are texting!

If you want to impress me, if you want me to notice you then work at it.

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