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To clear up a misconception, I am a dominant, thought I have a mentor and we are dominant partners within the lifestyle, I do not switch with anyone.
2011...a new year and a new profile...
Real Time Only
I have been told many times that I am a glass half empty type of person; I do
not see that as a bad thing. At age thirteen, I had a life changing experience
that left me very guarded in all aspects. At age twenty three, I realized that if I was going to get anything or anywhere in life I had to do it myself. I began my journey in the 80's topping my now ex-husband. After divorcing him in the 90's and moving back home to Virginia, I found out there was actually a name for what I had been doing, and an entire community revolving around it. In the early 2000's I was lucky to find some very "real" people in the lifestyle, who answered endless questions and gave very sound advice. Some are still friends today even if they are a Cowboys fan (Go Skins)!
I had heard that most really good Dominants started out as submissives or
started their training as a submissive. I tried that but it didn't work very well.
About four years years ago I met a very experienced Master/Dominant who has
been a great teacher and mentor. I find that my beliefs, like his, are based in Old School teachings, where respect, honor, and loyalty are tantamount.
Bottom line, for me this lifestyle is about Power Exchange, Ethics and Transparency. It is NOT based on kinky sex, whether you're well hung, or have a nice set of tits. Liars, Whiners, those whose lives are filled with Drama and/or Jealousy please move on to someone who can appreciate those things.
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