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	My nature is always at work ~ a carnal orchestra of desires and bliss. A perpetual readiness to accept submission and take us to the deepest and darkest places of our minds.Being dom/sub/whatever is like being a gentleman; if you have to keep saying it then chances are you are not! The mind is the greatest sex organ: Tame it. Leash it. The body follows in harmony. Extending boundaries. Erasing the civilised conventions to attain that space where there is no skin, no outer layers, but simply raw, primal emotion...! You should:: Understand that I may take a while to get to know you first (online/phone/etc). I'm looking for quality - not quantity! Be patient & honest!!!! Be looking for something with friendship as a base. I am not worried about your experience as new initiates of this lifestyle are welcome as are people already in a relationship. Playful banter is appreciated & will be reciprocated. Random facts about me: I enjoy conversation, learning what makes people tick (& using it against them mercilessly) & believe life's too short to be taken too seriously! I'm deep, dark, insightful & a lust-filled, depraved, ravenous kink who is well educated & well read. I'm strong willed, demanding, healthy & multifaceted with a plethora of personalities (great if you're in to RP) but I know myself well & I'm comfortable in my own skin. My advice: Be yourself! The greatest gift someone can give is to accept another without judging. So, be you & rejoice in those who accept you... I'm always interested in making new friends. General Warning: PROCEED WITH CAUTION....an addictive habit that you won't want to break.

8/17/2014 5:22:56 PM

The imagination of the Dominant and submissive embraces their intelligence and understanding of each other and of “free will”

4/9/2013 11:16:09 AM

This is not about suffering ........ It is about service!
SM is not about humiliation....... But about humility!
It is not about pain ........ It is about being present!
It is not about being used ......More about being of use!
D/s is not about control .......... it's about letting go!
It is not about you .............. But about giving others!
It is not about abuse ............ It is about acceptance!
Not about proving anything ..... It is about being real...
SM is not about contempt .......... Instead it is about respect!
Not about denial ............. In fact it's about being open!
SM is not about punishment ....... It's about discipline!
SM is not about being unable to escape .. It is about being committed.
SM is not about submission ........ It is about obedience!!

2/9/2013 3:03:56 AM

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2/4/2013 5:06:20 PM

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love for your dreams for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon... I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain mine or your own without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful be realistic to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself.

If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure yours and mine and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes."

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after a night of grief and despair weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

(Oriah Mountain Dreamer)