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| I am about a year removed from a seven-year relationship with a wonderful submissive. She and I were very much in love and enjoyed a particularly wonderful commitment. Our time together was intense and enjoyable. However, commitments elsewhere took her away - but I will always remember her. Yes, it took time to disengage from that, and I was ready to accept the lonliness as a permanent part of my life. That is until a conversation with a lifestyle friend just before Christmas. His words were both inspiring and awakening. He told me about Collarme - with the appropriate words of wisdom. After giving it a great deal of thought, I decided to join this community.
I am a Dominant Man, and revel in all that entails. I accept gladly all of the responsibilities that comes with that as well. I am what one would expect from any human being - open, honest, forthright - along with the Dominant aspects - strong, powerful, caring, protective.
My developed Dominant philosophy comes from years of working and reworking, trial and error, eureka moments and utter disappointments. I find that I must be tri-faceted, engaged in mind, body and spirit. Casual relationships are just that.
What, then, do I seek?
First, someone who insists on something meaningful, long-term, and depth of passion. Few things arouse the Dominant side of me like a submissive who understands passion and its place in a healthy D/s relationship. A woman who continually strives for something more, and and opens herself to the world I seek to give to her. One who derives pleasure from something unseen. Anticipatory, unbridled and unadulterated. a sponge for the lessons that I can teach. One who turns toward the mind and hands that reach out to mold her and shape her.
It is difficult to open yourself up to change. Just ask me, I know it is. But, I also know that the pinnacle of submissiveness cannot be reached without it. I certainly cannot be the Dominant I want to be without it as well.
I have few absolutes in who I seek. I try very hard not to judge anyone, especially by anything physical - lest I be judged, of course. Intelligence and passion will trump anything. A command of the english language is necessary. The ability to write something expressive and thoughtful, if you do decide to write.
I do know some things that I enjoy and desire in a submissive woman. These superficial things are just that, The things that please me. I will not make a comprehensive list here. if you are at all curious, you may ask and I will reply. I do know that I do seek someone for a real-time, face-to-face relationship. Nothing online at all. I have my kinks and needs, again, you can ask if interested. Hint here - well-done nails and makeup are something I like very much, and you need not write of you dislike very wet, passionate kisses. A kiss conveys a thousand emotions.
If you find this interesting at all, please feel free to write and tell me that. if not, you can write and tell me that, too. After all, fair is fair.
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I was just thinking about how nice it would be to begin getting to know someone again. Learning about more than just superficial traits. Exchanging philosophies. The give and take involved.... |
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A few random observations now that I am acclimated to the community a bit more.... (Keep in mind I am only looking at submissive female profiles.) Pessimistic profiles seem to be more prevalent. But those that are more optimistic are, in general, better written, both in composition and information. I do not understand those that say nothing at all, nor those that reveal literally everything, in graphic pictorial essay form... There are several outstanding profiles, and I have read them several times just to enjoy them again and seek their true meaning... The first 2 letters I received were from submissives much too far from me. They were, however, very nice welcome notes... Finally, at least for now, I am glad I am here. So far, so good... |
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To all of those in our delicious, natural, wonderful world of BDSM, I wish you the most joyous, prosperous, incredible 2013. May it bring those of you who have someone special an incredibly exciting and fulfilling year, and may it bring those who are alone the special one they seek. May it be the year you open yourself completely, and have it returned to you a hundred-fold. May it be the year your fear of exposing your deepest, darkest desires, needs, and wants to someone vanish in the strength of a true earth-god's arms, mind, and body. |
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| Age: 19 |
| Dublin,
Ireland |
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