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Experienced Top/Dominant seeking a willing and eager submissive to explore our desires..
Welcome to my profile...
I"m a work in progress and always evolving to some extent on how I enjoy and express my kink, fetishes and involvement in the BDSM/Kink/Leather communities. ?
I crave and need all elements of the BDSM spectrum to varying degrees and am far beyond the fantasizing, wannabee stage. ?Over the years, I have had the pleasure (and pain) of exploring a myriad of new and repeated adventures, with a number of people, in a number of settings and with varying results, but all in all, it has been wonderfully freeing and satisfying. ?Some have been casual...some have been intensely cloaked with the D/s and kink...and some in the context of a loving relationship. ?
What do I need and want??
Dominance & Control....This is perhaps what I hunger the most and always seek, whether consciously or without thought. ?I am a natural dominant male and am most aroused and satisfied deep within by the erotic power exchange and being with a woman who offers her submission to me, not only by choice, but because it is part of who she is and she embraces the feeling she gets when I take it. ?For me, this is the building blocks and foundation of everything else that transpires between myself and a partner.?
Kinks & Fetishes...I am anything but vanilla, although I admit to also enjoying straight vanilla-type interactions, sex, intimacy and all of that. ?However, I am very kinky and perverted, have always been and won't be changing anytime soon (Sorry Mom). ?With that comes a variety of possibilities and experiences, whether it be things that I am very passionate about or those things I enjoy doing on an occasional basis. ?Much of the latter depends upon my specific partner, her needs, where I might like to lead her and what we are in the mood for. ? Some of my kinky passions are rope, bondage, whips, orgasm control, sensation play, spanking...to name a few. ?I enjoy a wide range and scope, whether it be mild, sensual and erotic fun with a kinky twist...all the way to full-throttle, high intensity edgeplay.
Sado-Masochism...Well, what can I say? ?The exploration and dichotomy of the pain/pleasure enigma is a very exciting and rewarding part of my sexual expression. ?I do not label myself as a Sadist per se, but of course, I do have a sadistic side and I very much enjoy playing with endorphins and the mental/emotional aspect of how pain (and sometimes fear) illicit highly increased sexual arousal in many people. ?My goal is never to intentionally harm my partner, cause her unwanted, severe or lasting pain. ? However, I do desire and will push her in such a way where we can explore how this type of play sexually arouses her and/or helps her to achieve other types of an emotional release that she may need. ? What I get out of it for myself is the adrenaline rush, the ability to exert my power and control, sexual arousal and fulfillment and being pushed myself to greater heights of exploration and discovery.?
Sexually: ?I'm kinky and I love hot, sensual, passionate, mindblowing sex. ?Although I love submissives and a woman who will submit to me sexually, I also love a wild girl who, like myself, knows what she wants and what she likes. ?I can even have a lot of fun with alpha females who are pretty dominant, because the tug of war between the sexes can be an interesting twist in and of itself. ? I don't particularly care for brutal or intensely rough sex, but I do need it moderately rough, raw, hard and wet.
Lastly, yes of course...I am an SSC player, that is... Safe - Sane - Consensual. ?Although my reputation within the community is very important to me, most important is that I have to live with myself every day, look in the mirror and sleep at night, secure in who and what I am...not only as one who enjoys his darker side, but also as a man and a human being. ?However, I must say, that in the confines of an ongoing D/s & kink relationship, I migrate over to the RACK (Risk-Aware-Consensual-Kink) philosophy, where I expect my partner to fully understand and acknowledge that what we may do is edgy, not always without risk and sometimes not exactly sane by our societal standards. ?My style, my mentality, my self-control, my knowledge and my experience allow me to do everything in my power to mitigate these risks and to gain the trust and respect of my partner as we explore some of the more physical and emotionally charged aspects of our kink. ?It is a responsibility that I take very seriously as a Dominant and Top.?
If you'd like to know more, please contact me with a respectful note and I will return with a prompt and equally respectful reply. ? Thank you for reading my profile....
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R.I.P. "Texas" LeAnn. The Dayton group will miss your smile. |
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For those of you who may be interested, the Sterling Shadow Club of Dayton, OH is celebrating their 10th anniversary with a kink-filled 2 day hotel event in Lima, OH on the weekend of April 16-16.
Scheduled activities will include a Fri and Sat night dungeon party, demos and presentations on Saturday and vendors selling their kinkwares. Tickets and rooms are still available, so visit the site below if you are looking for a great time!
http://www.sscbig10th.org/
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Lifestylers claim that one of the attractions is the open, honest and upfront way that we relate to one another. Idealistic yes, because I find that the vast majority seem to be about games, drama and dishonesty. Maybe that's merely a statement about the human race, lol, so it's true of every segment of society, very much including this one. Fortunately, nothing remains hidden for too long and a discerning eye can see the truth long before one gets sucked too deep into another's cesspool. |
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I prefer hanging out over on moreso than CM here these past couple of months. It seems that there are more real lifestylers there because it's not setup to be such a meat market. Many submissives seem to hide here...for very obvious reasons, making it tough for a real Dom/Master to exist here. I always enjoy those who come out of hiding to say hello...haha. |
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I've been gone for a few months and thought I'd put my nose back in here for a bit to see if anything has changed. Hmmm. Doesn't look like it :( But then again, all it takes is that 'one' special sub hiding in the lurks to change all of that. :) Are you out there?
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