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| IMPORTANT UPDATE: I am removing my pictures due to a VERY sensitive (and very well-paying *grin*) client. I can send you a link to my pictures and provide references.
Smart, successful, serious, sponteneous seeking sultry submissive. I am an experienced Dominant and businessman who would like to establish a special (and hopefully long, serious) connection. I've been around, can retire whenever I want, and know what I want, so want someone for keeps. Because I have everything else, a family is very appealing to me. I am a control-oriented Dominant, so a slave is more appropriate with me than a submissive, but I also mesh well with accomplished submissives leading to a "vanilla relationship with kinks". I *do* have social skills and *have* dated vanilla women (*laugh*) I have allmost zero tolerance for bs. Also, while a very good teacher (I was a professor after all!), I have high standards and have little room for incompetence. What seems to confuses people about me is that I often live near clients when they hire me. My weekends are for my pleasure. My current client is in San Antonio, so I am relocating there. I *love* DC and my relatives and childhood friends are in Philadelphia, so my general plan is to keep a winter home in Texas, Tennessee or Florida (read: no state income tax) and to spend my favorite time in DC, Philly, in travel, or wherever I find my slave/submissive. My ultimate goal is to be married, an endowed chair at a top 10 school, and a noted author. I have many publications and have a book going to publishers in June. I am a good musician, but am realistic about my skill! I'm going to start to try to update my blog here more regularly - I keep a good, vanilla blog on Yahoo 360 under 360.yahoo.com/drdaveceo
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Life is sometimes funny when our glasses are changed and we see things by other people's eyes - or sometimes more clearly. This entry is PARTICULARLY true when compared against BDSM people - as opposed to "vanilla" people. Read it in it's ENTIRETY to "get it".
I try to keep fit: I exercise, generally have a great diet, and occasionally compete in athletics. But I think of myself as - physically - slow, short, weak, uncoordinated - oh, and smelly!
Last weekend Philadelphia held its breast cancer "Walk for Hope". Now I am walking with average people. The picture enclosed is "the crowd" - I finished 45 minutes ahead of the crowd, third behind two high school students that ran the course (and, no, I walked!)
I suppose it's not so bad to be slow, short, weak, uncoordinated and smelly - compared to LeBron James - I just have to remember that we can be fast, tall, strong, coordinated and sweet smelling compared to "Joe Average!" |
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I'm getting a little sick of the pettiness of people on this site and thinking of leaving; really, dudes, just because a woman turns you down doesn't mean you need to make a "profile" to trash her on here - get a real life! SOme of the people on here are swamped with email!
Now, for the subbies, try not to be ditzy! LoL I had a second date arranged with the #1 (in popularity) sub on another site: shes received as many as 22,000 (right - twenty-two THOUSAND) emails at once. Still, CALL if you can't make it. I don't tolerate being stood up by anyone. So I've had to ditch her and and a few other submissives over irresponsibility.
Recap:
#1 - Dom's: don't be petty. You're not much of a man if you have to publicacly disparage people behind the Internet. And, no - some of them are real and I've met them.
#2 - Sub's: keep things organized. Once you know me, I'll organize your life. But in the mean time call if you can't make it.
Oh, extra points for Ozzfest tickets ;) I do need to buy tickets to San Antonio!
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As usual, life is quite hectic. Last week I went dancing and to two concert with my subbie friends - so couldn't use my tickets to the Philadelphia Orchestra and instead went to Ozzfest in San Antonio!
I still have my apartment in SA, but have taken on a client in Walnut Creek California! This is near San Francisco/Oakland. So this week has had a LOT of travel (SA -> Philly -> CA) |
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A few days to catch up on...
Thursday was interesting: I almsot wandered into a "Hollywood" Premiere! Tommy Lee Jones was in town to open his new movie (in San Antonio!) and a friend had wanted to see "La Vie de Rose" (a different movie). We probably got there 10 minutes too late to get passes to Mr. Jones' movie, but it was an interesting experience to see people AT the premier.
Last night and today will be difficult with the weather. I did get to a comedy club/piano bar by The Alamo (and The Alamo as well) but - as some people know - I bore easily. I am a better piano player than the dueling pianists on stage (or at least comparable!) so once I had my cheap drinks I was out of there! I was supposed to go dancing last night, too, but the combination of more drinking, having bad brakes on the rental car, and San Antonio's flooding seemed a bad idea!
The interesting predicament is today! For today, there is bad flooding and I had already bought my ticket for Schlitterbahn - one of the biggest waterparks in the country. Flooding + waterpark + clouds seems less fun! I had also expected to go to Austin, but my subbie friend can't make it for the big party. Soooooo I'm not sure what I will do today!
I must admit that I am disappointed with the large numbers of people that write incessantly about going out, then disappear. It reminds me of someone I dated in DC: we dated until she took a trip to California to visit a friend. Then never a call. Now we're writing every day, but it is years later and she has twins! I think I will retire, simply write and write, and not concern myself with this silliness anymore!
Tomorrow is D&D + brunch, if I can squeeze things in.
I *suppose* I have a lot of writing to do TODAY. Grrrrrr.... LoL |
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Saturday was SA S&M ...it was a great group of people, and I had a wonderful time. Then we went - tadah! - dancing!
Anyone that has known me for a long time KNOWS I love to dance. Fortunately, I had a few great "partners in crime"; I *never* go dancing alone because I don't feel comfortable (or like the prospects) of "meeting" someone in a bar. However, as usual with a partner, we were the first people on the dance floor and danced until the band took a break.
There are worse things than being in a subbie sandwhich... |
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SASM was really quite nice last night. After SASM we went to a dance club. As I warned them, I go to dance and we were the first people on the dance floor. The subbies threats were true to, one lasted until the music stopped. It has been sooooooo long since I've closed down a place! |
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I've solved my TV problem. I *almost* bought another TV (after giving a few away this year) but -er, uh, at more thna the cost of a TV - laugh!- I've gotten my laptop to act as a color TV. At least I have cable!
My new place in San Antonio is ok - jacuzzi, 2 pols, cable. I found a D&D game within walking distance and I *may* try to go without a rental car!
Last weekend was a particularly challenging commute. 3 busses at 2am (didn' sleep at all) to the train at 30th Stret to the plane in Newark. One of the busses drove the wrong way down a one-way street. 70 people on board and the guy heads the wrong way!
The bus was interesting for other reasons. I was the only Caucasia on any of the busses. I sat next to a "beer bottle" who seemed waaaay too interested in my life. I was relieved to get to the train station. If you've ever walked thu North Philly you know what I mean.
Life is getting more calm now. And I like some of the comments written on the site about me by friends and a submissive :) |
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Just got my apartmetn in San Antonio. Now I have stuff in N VA (Arlington), S MD (College Park), PA (Philadelphia) and TX (San Antonio). Whew! |
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My my! I have so much to catch up on!
On Friday I headed to NJ, near the NY border and took some great pictures ;) Unfortunately, I could not get the pictures out of my cell phone (long story) and that one has been packaged to be returned, so what a loss! And such nice, red tones in the images!
On Saturday I ran my D&D game. Sadly, at 8:30PM I found out about CompUSA's clearance sale - too late to make it down to Delaware. Read about my laptop and phone later in this. What a bummer!
Sunday I went hiking in a wonderful Pennsylvania park. In the accompanying picture you can just barely make out one of the deer I saw. I THOUGHT I had some great pictures of deer, snakes, frogs, etc., but cell phone cameras aren't the best!
That brings me today....what a day! I started a new client in Texas. Couldn't sleep last night. Set my 3:15 AM alarm wrong. So woke up at 4AM for a 5:30AM flight. Drove like a bat out of hell. Couldn't find parking,so used the (expensive) garage parking. Made my flight.
Turned my laptop on in Houston to help my nearly dead cellphone. Turned it on in San Antonio. Cell phone dead. Laptop dead. Luggage arrives - broken. Not good. Don't have my contract contacts. Don't know my hotel. Don't know any directions. Needless to say a tough day!
Going to Sprint in moments to get my phone checked out. Laptop was a false alarm - the airport had no power in its outlets! Luggage still broken. San Antonio and the client, though, are still wierd! |
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I wonder if everyone on this site gets the spammers that write saying "I want to be your slave....add me as at Yahoo"?
How many people actually fall for this?
If you want to write to me and learn about me, you can do it here. If you are real, you should have some discipline and perserverence! |
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Visiting the Phila Museum of Art yesterday I was surprised by the ethnic diversity in attendance - there must have been people from 20 or 30 ethnic groups there, including several unusual groups such as Cambodian and Hungarian.
I wish I could put images in this blog to share them!
Boathouse row was also really nice yesterday - if hot. Traffic was slow and the joggers out. Crowds were light at the restaurants on Fairmont - the caviar at Zorba's was ok, but the feta great!
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What do people think about "fast moving" relationships? I have been chatting with some of my friends on this matter because when there is chemistry things seem to move too "fast." I've noticed that either the guilt form physical play or my calling too much has been the downfall of recent relationships. It's kind of strange - even when the submissive begs and swears eternal devotion, commitment seems doomed. |
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I am no longer in Ohio full-time, but I keep this as my profile since I have a very sensitive collection of government clients. |
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I'm currently recovering from major, emergency surgery - so am able to log onto CollarMe for the first time in weeks.
As a side effect of my emergency I added another facet of becoming the ideal gentlemen - growing an inability to pas gas! |
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A Typical Subbie Moment...
As an experienced Dominant I've read all about the issues submissives face with Doms, and wanted to share a good example of what drives a responsible Dom crazy.
I have a young submissive friend. We haven't dated in quite some time. But we talk somewhat regularly. Over IM a few days ago she was saying life was great. Then, yesterday, life suddenly became awful. She had a miscarriage. However, in our chatting,
- she had failed to mention that she had become pregnant,
- she had failed to mention that she was engaged, and
- she had failed to mention that she is getting married in 3 days!
LoL People's priorities on what's important to talk about! |
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Growing a little concerned....I now have four friends that are either MD's or JD's from abroad that are having difficulty with U.S. visa issues. I was hoping to spend May and June abroad as a "business trip" - but are things getting even worse?
My last two visas (Brazil and China) were "unfun" to get and I wonder what can be done (really "with whom") to expedite these... |
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| Age: 34 |
| Aberdeen,
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