You will find me a confident gentleman, with an independence born of international travel, business experience and a realistic view of life. I am intelligent, enjoy a good conversation and have many of the usual interests including movies, music, dinning out, cooking, travel, photography, reading, writing and the company of good friends. My sense of humor is sometimes subtle, and socially I am reasonably outgoing and get along with most people. I do tend to relate well to others who share my attitudes and prefer to build a group of quality friends.

 I have some vanilla social partners but would like to find a submissive mate and am willing to wait for the right person to share this lifestyle with. So if you feel you could be a devoted mate to this Leonean male, read on.

My journey to self awakening over recent years has been assisted by two generous subs who have enabled me to explore the dominating aspects of my hidden personality and find a part of me that I find very satisfying. They have shown me that I can take control and deliver a range of tactile and mental stimulations my partners appreciate.

I am not naturally aggressive and the understanding imparted to me about dom/sub dynamics and role plays has given me, I hope, some skills that might be appreciated by a lady who desires to express aspects of their naturally submissive self.

I appreciate that devotion and submission is a gift given, through mutual communication, understanding, maturity, honesty and trust. I know I have a lot to learn but I don’t take control responsibility for granted. A large part of my satisfaction and pleasure is to fulfill my subs’ expectations, probing limits of the dark side, wrapped in a sensual, sometimes romantic, experience. I do like to learn about and understand how and why people live their lives and express themselves. I am only happy to extend activities beyond my comfort zone where I can fully appreciate and rationalize the response, so I am therefore closer to the conservative end of the BDSM spectrum which may suit you as my submissive partner as well.

My expectations are that you would be 30 – 45 years of age, reasonably attractive and of slim to medium build. While a have a penchant for shapely Reubenesque figures with larger breasts, I am not interested in significantly overweight women.  I realize none of us are perfect, and physically I have put on a few extra pounds myself lately, your submissive enthusiasm may contribute to your desirable factors. You will be intelligent and have a good understanding of the role you want to experience, can articulate your desires, and exhibit a solid intellectual and psychological stability. I have had enough recently of women preoccupied with past relationships and who still have a lot of baggage to recover from.

In public I would expect you to behave in an acceptable vanilla manner, but in private you will be my slut, my submissive in every way. You will enjoy the pain of frequent punishment when the marks of whip or strap will be a reminder of your place. Breast and nipple torture will be frequent activities also. While not expected to be naked all the time, you will be expected to expose your body for bondage and humiliation. You will be my sex object at all times, in any position, orifice, and place of my choosing. Special consideration will be shown to you if you are bi-curious, interested in watersports, and private digital photo modeling.

In response you will find me a considerate master, communicative and fair, but delivering swift and painful punishment when you are getting a bit feisty. You will enjoy evenings of movies, dinner and wine, mental stimulation followed by debauched private activities and imaginative punishments.