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patrickbon
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thunderstruk
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BBW Dominant Lady From Western Ma Looking For LOCAL Sub/Slaves.
NO MOMMY /ADULT BABY STUFF. No Switches (except as friends).
You may address Me as Milady, M'lady, Lady, Madam, Ma'am, Miss, My Lady, NOT MISTRESS, thank you very much.
I currently have one full time submissive, and am on a new quest for secondary service subs/slaves. I am interested in subs/slaves that would fulfill certain positions in service to me. Unfortunately I don’t have as much freedom/privacy as I should due to unforeseen family obligations, but I am still seeking service slave(s) or submissive(s) who are willing to work within my schedule and availability. For the right sub/slave, I would be able to enjoy the kinkier aspects in other locations (your home, or a public dungeon type place)
- Hair/Makeup/Wardrobe- I am seeking someone that is good with make up and fashion. This person would assist with wardrobe purchases, maintenance and care, laundry and valet services. This also includes shoe care.
- Personal Assistant- This person would be responsible for assisting in getting errands done, paying bills, making phone calls/appointments, help with organization and other mundane tasks.
- Maid Service-I am seeking a submissive that will clean my home: mop the floor, dust, clean windows, vacuum, occasionally, some of the housekeeping can be done with kink attributes (sissy outfits, CFnm, etc) but not always.
I have been involved in the lifestyle for about 30 years off and on. I am very accepting of tg/ts/cd but not into forced femme.
My favorite pastimes with subs are CBT, orgasm control, and chastity. Caning, paddling, flogging, spanking are also very enjoyable to Me. I love using My sub to de-stress. I am also learning more about rope, suspension and am interested in exploring the art of shibari or kinbaku-bi.
In the vanilla world, I love to play volleyball, ride bikes, bowl 10 pin, read, do puzzles and more. I may be willing to share that with the right subs/slaves.
BULK MAIL: DOMS, SWITCHES, UNDER 35; Non-USA
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For prospective candidates, please know I am looking for a service sub as a secondary. I am involved in LTR with a current submissive. This submissive will be aware of any secondary I may take on. |
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Wow! How quickly things can change! I am currently re-considering My former sub as a candidate and allowing him to serve Me and prove to Me his worthiness. After all the time that has gone by, I wasnt sure I would even be willing to contemplate this, nevermind allow it. But as we have had some wonderful conversations and Oour time apart has allowed us to grow and explore Oour natures, I see wonderful things in the future! |
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Ladies Tea tomorrow! My first! |
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Well as I continue on this journey, the search for the right candidate(s), it feels like in many ways, I am all over the map.
My basic desire is this: I want a submissive partner, lifelong hopefully. A partner willing to blend vanilla and kink, who will follow My lead but not be an automaton. I am not searching for recreational partners. I am not seeking a financial submissive. I do want a submissive who is employed or retired and not on a shoestring budget so that we can enjoy activities and adventures together.
Life with Me would be pretty much a normal life with plenty of kinky benefits.
I have started to get involved with the scene a bit in an attempt to find like-minded people. In the past, I have not been one to want to play publicly. Who knows, meeting the people I have recently, that might change. But at the moment, it is not on My "must have" list.
So what is on My "must have" list? well some of that is spelled out in the main profile. Local/accessible, available (single and not attached to someone else), kinky, but I also desire a partner that will court Me, will want to attend to Me, to show Me what he is capable of, who will learn to trust Me, make Me laugh, engage Me mentally and physically, who wants to explore with Me AND who wants to serve Me.
more to come...
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Thinking of attending a FemmeDomme Tea @ the Society in Hartford coming up in February. |
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WMPE casual munch Jan 2 HuKeLau |
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I saw a guy in a costume with a hood like the one in the pic I just uploaded and I thought it was sooooo awesome. I think all My subs should wear this. :) |
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NOTE TO ALL INQUIRERS: Do Not Address Me as Mistress. Thank you. |
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Today I went to the FDNE (FemDomme New England) Munch in Winsdor. Met a great bunch of people and had an awesome time. Thinking of becoming more involved in the future. |
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Someday I am gonna get: I dont have much "fun wear" so I am building Myself a wish list.These are the things I hope to acquire:
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Tips to potential candidates:
- If you find that the Lady you meet is not the Lady you can serve, it is best to say so as soon as possible.
- If you dont plan on serving, then dont agree to serve.
- Instead of dropping off the face of the earth, just be honest...
- If you are scared, instead of running, tell the Lady you are not ready. She may decide to say good bye at that time, but at least you are being honorable by admitting your fear rather than misleading her.
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It was nice to finally meet someone authentic. Such a rarity. :)
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mmmmm having My feet massaged at a coffee shop.... |
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Wishing I had a true trustworthy devoted slave to massage My feet, lotion them, and then worship them for hours. |
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I DO NOT LIKE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS! If you are not financially independent enough to travel to Me on a moments notice, provide your own lodgings, and still be able to treat Me like your Goddess, what is the point?
Getting to know Me and/or serving Me entails far more than just being able to chat or talk on the phone and an occasional visit on vacations.
If you want to serve Me, if you even want to be considered as a candidate, you better be willing to go the distance.
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Hoping to find someone to qualify as an eventual house hubby. . . |
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Accepting Introductions:
If you would like to be considered as a candidate for meeting and getting to know Me, I suggest the following:
- Send a polite letter of introduction.
- Refrain from explicit language and inquiries about what I will do to you.
- If you are from out of state, be sure that you have the means to get to know Me.
- Be prepared for Me to take My time getting to know you. Nothing is instantaneous, especially over the internet.
- If you change your mind, have the courtesy to let Me know.
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CLARIFYING WHAT WORKS FOR ME
I am amazed at the number of candidates that wish to meet Me and are disappointed that I wont "Domme" them at our first meeting. I am looking for a true relationship. that means we have got to get to know one another. Don't waste My time or yours trying to manipulate Me into playing into your fantasy.
I want a relationship where My slave will fit into My vanilla life as well as the D/s life. That means, meeting family and friends and having social interactions as a couple. If that is not your goal, please don't ask Me, you already have your answer. Although I have had what I call playmates, I am NOT looking for that now.
If you cannot handle passing the vanilla test, the D/s stuff will not matter.
In addition, although I am looking for eventual 24/7, I am not looking for immediate 24/7.
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| Age: 23 |
| York,
Alabama |
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