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i am looking for RT local, but also would consider some form of online training. i am married, and will not insult Your intelligence by implying that i have some kind of open relationship that allows this. i realize this means most of You just stopped reading.
i am an intelligent, reserved man who longs to serve a dominant, superior woman. i am kind, sensitive, thoughtful and clean and show excellent attention to detail in everything i do. i believe that women can rule men easily if they choose. Knowing what i know about women and men it surprises me how relatively few women decide to do so. A strong woman who knows how to push my buttons can turn me into Her bitch with little effort.
She just has to act as if i am beneath Her and have no power, and VOILA, i am Her puppet!
i am really a pussy - women fascinate the hell out of me, but also scare me once i start thinking about the power (over me) that is THEIRS for the taking. i have realized i need to serve a dominant woman relatively late in life, but it has always been there in the background.
Am i serious? Well, i am a platinum member over at FDS and have graduated "subby U", which may mean something to You.
i have been to some pro-dommes, but realized that is just play-acting for the most part - i always feel like i am really the one with the power since i am the CLIENT, and i FEEL like the client. That's not right, and has never FELT right. i suppose there probably are pros who don't fall into that category, but i have not met one yet.
i will not say i am without limits, but barriers are meant to be broken, crashed through, aren't they? i feel the right dominant woman for me will want to control me physically, verbally and mentally. Emasculate me. i am the LEAF in Your MAELSTROM, the CORNFLAKE swirling down Your DRAIN. Please use me to suit the whims that cross Your mind, or scratch the ITCH that is nagging You. You will and SHOULD do with me whatever You want. i am not expecting any woman to cater to me. i would LOVE to find a woman smarter than me - so smart in fact that She can easily toy with me.
Communication is very important to me, but i always expect it to be on Your terms. Tell me to shut my pie-hole and it is shut. i will be very careful not to offend You or step out of line. If i do, You will only have to tell me once, whether it's a verbal command or some form of corporal punishment rebuke. Please teach me how to properly serve You. If i ever try to "top You from the bottom", it is SO over... if i don't throw myself out, shove me out the door and slam it behind me. i think that is one of the worst offenses possible.
my interests are listed as clearly as possible to the left. i have no experience with strap-on/anal play, so i list it under 'curious', but honestly the thought excites me intensely.
Respectfully, mikey
9/23/2011 10:00:01 AM
Astounds me that so many guys seem to be looking for "findommes". Honestly, don't we ALL get enough financial domination from The State? Just photoshop a picture of Obama in drag with 6" stilettos and a navel piercing... or G.W. Bush if that floats your boat. They are the best findommes you could ever hope to find!
1/10/2011 10:49:31 PM

Shouldn't a "goddess" at least be smart enough to figure out how to spell-check her profile???? :(

11/18/2010 6:31:03 AM

Even though I have yet to find the right domme for me, even though this site does have a lot of fakes, I still feel very lucky. There are so many Dominant Women on this site that I feel deep admiration and respect for, even awe. Beautiful, strong Women who seem to know Themselves very well, understand Their feminine power, and know how to put, and keep, a man (boy?) in his proper place. It's a source of warmth (and I won't lie: often a source of arousal) to read Their words, get to know Their philosphies and feel Their strength come through in Their profiles and journal entries. One day I hope to find one who will call me Hers. I believe I will...

9/13/2010 6:00:42 AM
"I have the DICK, so I make the RULES!" That's the slogan I saw printed on a kid's t-shirt while at the grocery store yesterday. Very LOUD - bold, 2" white and red letters on a black shirt, with a 50's-style graphic of a man yelling at his cowering wife. I say 'kid' but the wearer was probably 17 - 20 yrs old. I suppose a dick WOULD grant its owner power like that if, say, it led members of the opposite sex to make complete fools of themselves, spending ridiculous amounts of money and time scheming to get access to it, doing virtual backflips for it... but WAIT, that's not a DICK, it's a PUSSY that has that kind of power. So I guess it's pretty obvious where the real power lies, isn't it? What power did a dick ever give its owner? The power to write his name in the snow? No need to even mention how vulnerable a man's exposed genitals make him to a capable woman who wants to control him physically. Whether it's to CREATE a shirt like that or just to WEAR one... takes a pretty confused guy! But now I want to reveal some of my own ignorance. Maybe a domme can enlighten me. Why are there so few women who understand they have power over men, and are willing to TAKE it?
9/11/2010 10:32:45 AM
>sigh< Soooooo many S-Cam Girls working this site. Just met another one. "Just join this cam site to see me on cam, but you have to click my special link to do so, and then enter all your credit card info and click "order". But don't worry, it's totally free - you won't be charged. Ummmm, yeah right. I may be a submissive male, but I'm not THAT stupid.
8/18/2010 8:17:58 PM
There sure seem to be a lot of 18 and 19 year old girls opening CM accounts as dominants lately. Most of them claim to be 'very experienced' as dommes. I suppose it's possible, but I don't understand how a girl that young can have that much experience. I think it takes some real maturity to be a proper domme. I'd also say that, from the percentage of them who list 'financial domination' as their chief interest, that this might be America's #1 growth industry right now! I see a profile like that and immediately think: can't make it on your own now that Mom & Dad kicked you out, and you don't have the brains or work ethic to get a real job? Ooooh, IMPRESSIVE! Dominate me, oh woman-of-the-world!
7/25/2010 10:41:33 AM
I am always amazed at the number of dommes who never learned proper grammar or spelling in school. Typos, fine - we all make those. But if you haven't mastered the basic lessons a 10 year old child is expected to learn, how do you expect to control an intelligent man, and psychologically toy with him? I realize many dommes will take exception to my claim that there are "intelligent" men, and I will concede that you're probably right - but many of us are at least smart enough to WRITE clearly and properly. But too many dominant ladies embarrass themselves in their profiles and journals... at least use spell- and grammar-check! And again: I'm not talking about typos, but things like your/you're, to/too mix-ups and just confusing sentences. User named "YourNotWorthy" is asking slaves to "message me with you're Yahoo ID"... REALLY? Back to the 4th grade with YOU, mistress!
7/23/2010 12:30:53 AM
I will be going to see "Salt" this weekend. I cannot imagine much that is sexier than a woman as hot as Angelina Jolie kicking guys' asses (and balls?) for two hours! She has a very domme-y vibe about her.
7/18/2010 6:26:53 PM
The more I poke around on social networking sites, the more I worry that the Internet is hopeless. Makes me want to drown my laptop in the bathtub. It's getting so bad I don't know what or who(m) to believe anymore. There's a girl whose real name is Brianna Garcia. Very attractive girl - she has so many clones on YouTube, MySpace and many many other sites that I wonder if SHE even knows who she is anymore, poor girl. BY THE WAY, there is at least one "Brianna Garcia" fake here on CM. I almost got taken by her/him/it a couple weeks ago. BEWARE.