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My Goddess is one of the few that takes online domming seriously. She truly enslaves guys. It is joyously wicked and inescapably sexy.
She also happens to be the most beautiful creature in the universe. |
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My owner - a young very beautiful findomme - has asked me to look for some test subjects that is up for a fun challenge.
No tributes needed - just send me your mailaddress and she will enroll you in her School for Slaves. |
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Male sub? Do you dream about being truly enslaved by a beautiful young woman?
Join my owners school for slaves. It's great fun. And it will change your life.
Drop me a line. |
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If you are a submissive guy that never really found your place in the world then drop me a line and I'll introduce you to someone who will change your life forever. |
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My Goddess (a young beautiful findomme) is trying out a new approach. She has started a school for potential slaves where she will condition, train and braiwash you into true and complete enslavement.
Instead of saying: Get out of here, you timewasters, to those that do not tribute her - she will draw them in, make them fall hopelessly, helplessly, madly in love with her.
If you are a sub that's up for a challenge drop me a line. Then I will introduce you to her.
But be warned that while this is great fun and incredibly sexy it's also for real. It's not fetish play and you will end up a slave living to serve her. |
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Half the posts from dommes here are of the type: 'Some stupid fuck wasted my time. Stop wasting my time, wankers!'
Seriously. Who are these dommes talking to? What do they hope to gain with these updates? Nobody gives a f... if somebody wasted your time - and whining about it makes you look like a loser. |
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It's the math that bugs me the most. With this many 'dominant' women trying to make their way you should think that one - just one - would be smart enough. I realise that empire building is not for everyone. I know that young women that pose as dommes are not at the top of the class in general. But still - there ought to be just one... |
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Empire building 101:
I'm going to build a ressource for The Goddess with a complete plan for building the first Domme Empire. I'll also build a community website so that everything is ready when finally She will come.
Everything will be public until a young beauty claims it. It will take some time though - maybe 6 months before it's ready. |
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Empire building 101:
The more matter of fact and straight forward you are - the bigger the chances for long term success:
Hi, I'm xxx and during the coming months I will train and condition you to become my loyal servant and worshipper.
By watching this introduction you have taken the first step on a neverending journey that will help you fulfill your potential. You will become happier, richer and healthier than ever before, and you will learn love so deep and profound that it will change the very core of your soul. There will be times when fear will haunt you and your ego will fight back. But together we will prevail. |
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Empire building 101:
If you want an empire you need patience.
There's a fun psychlogical experiment where a child is given a poece of candy and told that is she can wait ten minutes without eating it she will get more candy.
Today's dommes would fail that test badly. They go for the $20 in front of them every time - and it just doesn't scale.
You don't want your sub's money. You want his/her love and devotion. |
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Empire building 101:
You need to make a free video EVERY day and release it on Youtube, Vimeo etc |
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For the life of me I can't figure this out: There are many, many beautiful women that will degrade themselves for pennies. But there isn't one single dominant woman in the known universe that has seriously tried to build a femdom empire. There a millions of submissives just waiting to be led - but earning $5 a minute on Niteflirt is the loftiest ambition for the 'dommes' currently out there. Are they stupid? Lazy? Or a combination of the above? Well. One day a woman will emerge that will understand. I hope. In the meantime I will describe in detail a possible plan for budding empire builders. It involves working. Videos. Taking advice. Marketing. Much more. |
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I wish that the nomenclature of D/s and BDSM were clearer. It would make it so much easier for us all.
A guy who pays a woman to whip him is not a slave.
A woman who entertain men by fulfilling their erotic fantasies for money is not a domme.
There's nothing wrong with the above - I just wish it was called something else.
The term 'domme' should mean a woman that uses her erotic power to dominate, seduce and manipulate people into doing what she wants them to do.
The term 'slave' should mean someone who is owned by a domme. |
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Found another beautiful domme with a journal consistinc mostly of posts like this: 'Xxx user is a worthless prick that wasted my time.'
I simply cannot get into my head why dommes are making posts like that. It is beyond stupid.
Anyone with just a tiny bit of marketing knowledge will tell you the number one rule: Showcase your successes not you failures.
Noone loves a loser. And a whining 'domme' who gets tricked by stupid trolls is just that: A loser.
The only thing a beautiful girl needs to do to succeed is to acknowledge that she doesn't know everything and that she needs help to grow her empire. There are plenty of highly trained professional businessmen like me who want nothing better than help out - if the girls were smart enough to listen. Sigh. |
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I would love to hear from other subs who want to contribute in creating an empire for the first true dominant Goddess.
We need to find the Goddess first though ... |
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The 10 percent rule of Goddessdom.
10 percent of those that find you will take any notice at all.
10 percent of those that take notion will be potential subs. 10 percent of the potential subs will be potential worshippers. 10 percent of the potential worshippers will be worshippers.
You need to reach out to a lot of people to reach the 1.000 worshippers that will make you prosper! |
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Here's the plan:
1) Organize
Noone makes it on her own. If you want to be the first true Goddess you need to enlist everyone that can be of any help to you.
You need to put your fans and followers to work. |
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Found another insanely beautiful young girl who sells her time to male fetishists.
I.Just.Dont.Get.It
Selling your time will never make you rich. It doesn't scale.
The first girl to smarten up will win this game... |
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Kind of a job offer:
If you are young, beautiful, dominant (or willing to give it a try), ambitious, not afraid to show your face on Youtube and willing to take advice - I can make you rich and famous.
You will earn nothing or very little the first few months and you have to work 2 hours every day.
I will assemble a small group of professionals that will help you create an empire. We will build your website, write your scripts, market you, be your secretaries - in short do all the work necessary to help you succeed. And we will do it for free - just to put a smile on your face.
Contact me if you are interested - I'll tell you more. |
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Been looking since the birth of the internet and still haven't found a truly dominant woman who uses her erotic power to seduce, manipulate and dominate people into giving her what she wants (money, power, sex).
I've found plenty of women who cater to mens fetishes... |
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The first beautiful girl to utilize 'free' as a tool to build a femdom sect will get insanely rich and famous. Why oh why are NOONE interested. |
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PrincessSky89 might just be the only honest dominant woman here. |
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Are you a sub with special talents? Do you build websites? do you create marketing campaigns? Do you edit video? Are you a writer? Do you know a lot about psychology? Do you know the ins and outs of Facebook, Twitter, Youtube...?
Mail me: beautygauger@gmail.com and let's team up to create the worlds first true domme Goddess. |
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Want to make a million as a findomme?
Are you beautiful, dominant and not afraid that your grandmother finds out how you paid for the Porsche?
Are you willing to work 2 to 4 hours a day every day all year round?
Do you have enough money to get by the first few difficult months?
Are you willing to take advice from people that know about marketing, social media, content production and psychology?
Mail me: beautygauger@gmail.com
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An advice to all dommes: Watch Polina Lipinas videos on youtube and take notes.
She's got so many things going for her - and unlike most in the bdsm-community she truly understands what being dominant is all about - that it's not about fetish at all.
I wish she would be more seductive and less a 'free will'-advocate. But to her credit she does think that the natural order of things is for men to serve women.
She's completely open about her thoughts and beliefs - not afraid to be 'exposed' because with her what you see is what you get.
She doesn'thave a'real man' boyfriend - she falls in love with slaves - or knights as she often calls us - because to her devotion and submission adds to the appeal of the guy.
There are still so very few of her kind out there - but I hope more will follow. And I hope one day soon a young beautiful goddess will build a findom empire using some of her techniques.
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At some point one girl who's not ashamed of what she is and who is as smart as she is beautiful will hit the scene. And findomming will never be the same.
The girls out there today all lack one or more of what it takes: drive, beauty, work ethics, intelligence, ambition. And many are not even dominant at all.
Most are - sorry - lazy and stupid. A few have the whole package except that they fear exposure or at least doesn't want to become famous for domming.
I would love to help that girl build an empire. |
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Dommes please: Stop whining.
We do not care if you have spent an hour with a timewaster - it just makes you look dumb.
We guys get enough whining from the wimen that surroinds in our everyday life. A domme should be larger than that. That's the whole point in calling yourselves ptincess, queen or goddess. I wonder what goddess would complain that loserboy88 didn't pay the 25$ he promised.
Jesus. Grow a brain. |
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One girl's 'real man' is the other girl's coming slave.
All men can be trained. |
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'Sugardaddy' is - after 'session' - the most unsexy word in the dictionary then perhaps comes 'fetish'.
The list includes words like 'cuckold', 'real man', 'blackmail', 'switch', 'loser'.
All words that detracts from the value of the domme. How can you be a loser for serving a beautiful woman? How can you be cuckoldet by a woman completely out of - not just your's but any man's league. Why would she ever need to blackmail you when you are willing to die for her. How can anyone imagine that a 'real man' is all it takes to win her over. |
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'Sugardaddy' is - after 'session' - the most unsexy word in the dictionary then perhaps comes 'fetish'.
The list includes words like 'cuckold', 'real man', 'blackmail', 'switch', 'loser'.
All words that detracts from the value of the domme. How can you be a loser for serving a beautiful woman? How can you be cuckoldet by a woman completely out of - not just your's but any man's league. Why would she ever need to blackmail you when you are willing to die for her. How can anyone imagine that a 'real man' is all it takes to win her over. |
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Dear dommes.
We are not losers for wanting to serve you. We are winners. |
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"I'll block timewasters" is something many dommes are writing - though often the use more blunt language.
That's like a shopkeeper setting up signs saying "I'll throw you out if you're not buying".
Now - why, I wonder - do you seldom see signs like that?
I wish all findommes would take a marketing 101 course. |
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Could findomming scale to a level where it could make a princess rich.
I think so. Only the girls beautiful enough to pull it off are often too young to be smart enough to do it.
Maybe the reason why they are findomming in the first place is that they are too lazy to grab any of the many opportunities life offers young beautiful women. To make a lot of money you need to work hard. You also need luck - but the luck you needed you had when your genes were spliced. |
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A whore smacks him because he paid for it.
A kind lover smacks him because he likes it.
A sadist smacks him because she likes it.
A domme doesn't smack him - unless he misbehaves. Then she smacks him so hard that he will never do it again. |
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Dear Findommes,
Please stop whining and complaining about lying, cheating losers.
If you want to be treated like a queen - talk like a queen.
Noone bows to a whiner. |
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Dear domme,
Complaining about timewasters is stupid on so many levels that I don't know where to begin.
Please smarten up.
Mike |
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'Session' is the most unsexy word in the dictionary. |
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A true domme choses. She is not chosen. |
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'Switch' means 'confused sub'.
A sheep that thinks she's a lion is still a sheep. |
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Kicking someone in the balls because he likes it is not my definition of domming.
It's so strange how 99 percent of bdsm is about the slaves pleasure. A true domme might use other people's sexual weaknesses to control them - but that's something else entirely. I sometimes see older 'dommes' complain about the egomaniac young girls that just use their beauty to get some quick cash out of subs without caring about them. But isn't that what being dominant is all about? Using others for your benefit and amusement. |
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Even though I know that it's not possible for me to serve someone I'm often drawn to this site. Not that I've found many women that is worth serving here. Most are fakes or they are not dominant at all or a combination of the above.
What are the tell tale signs that a 'domme' is not really dominant:
1) Lack of confidence
She thinks she needs to cater to men's fetishes.
2) Non-sub boyfriend
If you are dominant you turn your lovers into subs.
3) Shop owner
Words like 'my services include' or 'the fetishes I like' are not words of a domme.
4) Dislike of true power exchange
The only true online power exchange is the exchange of money for nothing. You don't 'control' someone by ordering them to masturbate or not masturbate
5) Anger and frustration with illoyal subs
A domme demands, she doesn't whine
I no of one true domme here. Her name is princesssky89.
She's the real deal and if I could serve her I would.
But I can't even figure out a way to pay her the smallest tribute. |
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I wrestled a woman once. It was the single most satisfying experience in my life.
I wonder how many girls are aware that with some training they can learn to dominate much bigger guys physically.
The woman I wrestled was much smaller than me yet she had absolutely no problems handling me. For her it was like wrestling a child. She could litterally do what she wanted with me - I was helpless. And it felt so good.... |
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The Domme Challenge 1/10:
Next time you have an argument with someone stop, hush him/her smile and ask them to suck it up for you.
Are you dominant? Complete the Domme Challenge to prove it. |
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A True Domme doesn't advertise. She picks, preys and catches.
When you can enslave anyone why settle for the random sub that begs to be your's. |
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Princess Sky (PrincessSky89) might be a True Domme. She just might. |
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Findom is probably the closest thing to true domming that you can imagine in an online setting I guess.
It's so funny to me when some'dommes' badtalk findom stating that these young opportunist girls don't care about their subs and that true domming requires the domme to work hard to get to know the likes and dislikes of their subs. Wtf?! Domming is not about the subs fetishes. It's about dominating
Tributing might be the cleanest form of power exchange online.
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The True Domme doesn't do 'sessions'.
The True Domme doesn't care if you are sub or not.
The True Domme doesn't have a boyfriend who is 'a real man'.
The True Domme is propably not on Collarme.com.
The True Domme picks her victims freely.
The True Domme doesn't sell anything.
The True Domme is probably just fantasy.
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Sometimes I wonder if there are any truly dominant women on collarme.com. Hell sometimes I wonder if such a creature exists in the known universe.
It's obvious that the majority of 'dommes' here are 'just' selling services. There's a huge market. Many fetishes to cater to.
But being dominant doesn't have anything to do with fetish.
Being dominant means to impose your will on other people. And ordering guys to masturbate (or not masturbate) hardly fits the bill: You are my slave! You are totally in my power! Now smell my socks and masturbate!?! Wtf?! Is that power?
I would love if being a domme meant that you find pleasure in controlling people - in using other people.
But I think that very few if any women do that.
If there were female dommes there would probably also be very beautiful female dommes. They would be immensely powerful - and we would read about them in the news, watch them on reality shows... But so far the stories of real life domming are as few and as plausible as the stories on alien intelligent life in the Universe. |
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Sometimes I wonder if there really is such a thing as a truly dominant woman. It's like the search for intelligent life in the universe. For how long can we search for signs before reaching the conclusion that there are non. |
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Read a mistress profile: I cater for all your desires with ease.
It's profiles like that that spoils all the fun for me. Yes, as long as society is as it is, dommes cannot truly domme - but at the very least we can try to not shatter the illusion. |
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Officially OWNED. By the worlds most beautiful woman. Bliss. |
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I might have found someone to serve, but I hardly dare believe it. She's simply the most beautiful woman on earth.
So I keep my fingers crossed that I don't screw this up somehow. |
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So many beautiful young students out here could benifit from keeping an online slave or two to help them with their studies.
I for one would love to be used like that.
I wish that one day I'll be taken by a girl that knows how to use my skills. They are worth so much more than what little money I would be able to tribute. The funny thing is that in my daily professionel life people pay me lots of money to build them web sites and to head big web projects. But I've neer met a worthy domme that wanted to use my skills.
Not much sense for business out there. Most dommes would rather earn a $ a minute on Niteflirt than build an empire by using slaves to actually work for them.
Phonesex doesn't scale - it's tedious and stupid and in my eyes it doesn't have anything to do with being dominant. |
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I read a very thoughtful well written profile the other day - forgot to add her to my favorites and don't remember her name - sadly.
Anyway - one thing she wrote puzzled me - and I have a feeling that it's something that is very deeply rooted in most women and the main reason why beautiful women do not rule the world after all.
She wrote that she would never initiate contact with a sub. She felt that doing that was below her and that it was the subs - the men - that should vow her, not the other way around.
That's so strange to me - as a man (even a sub one at that). To me being dominant among other things means that if you see something you want you reach out and take it. You don't want to only chose from those that actively seek you out - why would you narrow yourself in such a way.
A beautiful woman can make almost any man bend over backwards for her - why not use that power.... |
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We all know that most people will bend over in any direction to help a beautiful woman. I wonder why so few beauties use this fact openly. It's so strange to me. Of course most beautiful women are aware of the effect of their presence and I'm sure they enjoy the special treatment that they get. But some must want ... well ... to show off? It just never happens. You never see a beautiful woman make demands of people in public. Now if guys had the same kind of power they would use and abuse it every day.
I realize that most women don't have the same competitive drive and don't feel the need to belittle people - but SOME should. I've only ever come across one woman who did it - or at least she existed online - but now she's gone.
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Wish that we could somehow distinguish between dominance and BDSM/fetish-play. Dominance to me is when a woman imposes her will on someone. But most 'dommes' are just catering to mens fetishes. Thats fine - nothing wrong with that. The problem is how to find the true dommes among the rest. How to find the woman that will make you do what she wants you to do - not ask you what you want her to make you do. |
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If somedomme out there wants to set herself up as a hypnodomme Im able to help with setting up a site, writing inductions, editing recordings, promoting - basically the shit.
You have to be smart and dominant - not a fake - for it to work. |
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I could be a good web slave for the right woman . setting up websites.. stuff like that... Wish someone would just take me... |
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It never seizes to amaze me that some 'dommes' think they can make people tribute them without video validating.
There are a trillion men posing as women here. Probably more fakes than real profiles. |
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Thinking about starting a blog on the things I personally find hot - since it's so difficult to find it elsewhere:
Truly dominant women
Truly, artfully cruel women
Seductive, manipulative women
Powerful women
BDSM and everything surrounding it including this site is just so tired and corny. Fetish-play is silly.
The whole online scene is dominated by fakes and phonies and the mechanics is turned upside down with subs shopping around for satisfaction.
It would be good with a haven. A place where truths could be told.
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I understand that not ALL people find true domination sexy. But it's still strange to me that among the trillions of dommes online it's impossible to find a single beautiful woman that is in fact dominant.
On the other hand - since I couldn't serve her well anyway it might be for the best. |
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The only truly dominant girl I've 'met' was Sophia. The Sophia.
She blew my mind.
Now she's gone sadly. |
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Why do all 'dommes' wait for slaves to stop by and buy.
Real dommes do not sell anything - they take what they want, when they want it. |
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If there's a young beautiful goddess out there in need of someone to help build her an empire - I might be Your man...
I'll be able to work for you a little most days and a lot some days.
I can build websites, write scripts, edit videos and MP3's - stuff like that.
I would prefer to work for someone who really sees herself as superior. Someone who doesn't mind that others know that she is keeping slaves.
But I'll probably settle for less - as long as you can cam verify. |
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Jesus. This time I thought the girl was real. aprilrose_14 wrote to me more than once, talked about Skype and what not.
Then the same old routine on Yahoo - trying to get me to sign up to some shitty cam-site. I think it's the fifth time this happens.
Girls: We WANT to be scammed by you. You don't have to jump through loops and wholes to get out money and devotion.
Guys: Stay the fuck away. How stupid do you think we are? |
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Sick of this shit.
There ARE no real dommes out there - except maybe Sophia, who went away for good...
Gonna kill off this profile and nurture whats warm and sweet and good and sexy.
Bye to you all... |
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Some scientists believe that if there were other intelligent lifeforms in the Universe we would have heard from (some of) them by now.
I'm sometimes wondering: If truly dominant beautiful women existed wouldn't we have heard from them by now?
One single beautiful domme that avtively collected instead of just setting up a shop could wipe the slate at places like this. Yet the only contacts subs are getting are from male scammers. |
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Isn't there a single beautiful, dominant woman in the world that will let me help her get rich.
I can build the site, I can write the scripts and texts, I can find the slaves - all you have to do is smile and collect. |
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Fake, fake, fat, fake, fat, fat, fake, fat AND fake, fake, fake, fat |
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A million dommes waiting for customers. A trillion subs waiting to be taken. |
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Been looking for Sophia. The Sophia.
But Sophia is gone for good.
So sad.
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I'm willing and able to build an online empire for a truly dominant girl.
She needs to be pretty and young - and willing to put a little effort into it.
I've been looking a long time for such a girl - will probably never find one I'm afraid. |
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In my darkest moments I doubt that there is such a thing as a truly dominant woman. I've probably never met one - certainly not in real life and modt probably not online.
The dommes I have encountered could be described as opportunists or shop owners or nurses and nannies or what have you - but never as dominant in the sense that they truly enjoy exerting their will on others and that the feel they have the right to do so.
Sometimes is like a joke:
You are my slave. I command you to masturbate... WTF... |
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So many fake profiles, so little time... |
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Wish someone would create a cam verification service for dommes so that the 90 percent fake profiles could be ignored when searching. Its bloody annoying.
As a sub you have to ask up front for verification - which almost always leads to the 'domme' getting angry. A bad start. |
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