Im a person that made a habit out of ignoring common sense and experience whats really possible in life. I love to try and see new things in every imaginable area. Thats the reason why I already did things such as skydiving, bungee jumping and diving and well, thats also the reason why Im here. After having regular sex for hundreds of times it was time to try something new and surprise, I liked it way better than usual sex. By now I realized that I always found it sexually attractive to be submissive and concluded that BDSM has to be a part of my future relationships.
After working for a few months in Shanghai Ive recently moved to Hong Kong, but im originally from Germany. I already lived several months in other different cultures and as always Im having a great time. My dream is to find a flexible job such as starting my own business, travel around the world and share this experience with a long term partner.
BDSM
My previous bdsm experience is limited to one long-term relationship, that involved me being occasionally submissive. It was kind of the worst case scenario, where I was topping her from the bottom while she was trying to meet my expectations and doing me a favor, in absence of actually enjoying it. I absolutely hated the way we did it, but at that time I wasnt aware of any solutions.
We broke up for completely different reasons, so now I am in a position where I can look for someone who actually enjoys dominating men. I started reading books, such as "Uniquely Rika", and realized about my previous mistakes. So by "someone who actually enjoys dominating men" I no longer mean someone that ticks of my wishlist, but rather just a strong women that likes to be dominant in the bedroom in general. Everything else will be up to her.
So in summary I am looking for a clever, adventurous, growth-oriented women that likes dominating men. Very hard thing to find. I am aware of that and also of the fact that there are way more submissive men than dominant women (at least on the internet), but I am still not willing to make compromises on this one. Rather than just looking and hoping I work everyday on myself to become an outstanding person that deserves this kind of woman. For me, finding this person is the most important thing in my life.
I dont know when I find "the one", but until I do I am also willing to enjoy myself with playpartners since living in abstinence sucks ;)
11/29/2011 5:59:10 PM
Some dommes are just acting ridicolous. If you are a joker, dont message me in the first place. Thanks.
