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BondageGuyInCT
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~Online Friends Only~
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I am here to read, nothing more.
Yes married and going to stay that way. Don't judge…
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The old saying goes like this, if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything. Be kind, don't judge, and most of all, treat others as you would like to be treated. |
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A Dominant seeks a submissive slave. Again, so many here who have little experience. Or perhaps he does not know what he wants? I am never shocked by the postings on this site. |
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If you contact me, be respectful. If you nothing nice to say, then don't say anything. |
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Listening to the radio the other day I heard something interesting. The radio show was talking about the first few minutes speaking to someone we've just met. Here is what stuck in my head...in the first 5-10 minutes most people will tell 3 lies about themselves. Of course we all want to present ourselves to have the perfect life and all that goes with it. Well, I say this because I have recently experienced the "first few conversations", and deception in those first 5-10 minutes.
Can't we act our age and not our shoe size! |
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For those who plan to make contact. Friends and conversation are always welcome. Contacting me, "thinking" , I will change my mind, probably won't happen.
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People come into our lives for a reason….and then they leave, for a reason. Disappointments are for our own good as I have been told. As I reflect my most current disappointment, respect of others feelings is what's missing in this world. Many only think of themselves……
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Time passes so quickly that we rarely notice. It's been many years since serving, probably nearly 7 years. Maybe it's time to give it a go again….. |
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My profile clearly states, "friends only". Does anyone read anymore? Better yet, does anyone understand this? Here to read only, contact me to chat.
Be Safe always...... |
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A tribute is an interesting word, often used by female Dominant on this site. Why is it that Dominant men don't ask for a "tribute"? Do "tribute" really equate to extortion? Some interesting thoughts..... |
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Interesting how there on many on this site who are 25 and under who's claim is being a Dominant or submissive. How can a person under 25 have experience with such a delicate life? To those under 20, well, how is that possible??? |
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D/s, it's about the mind, soul and the body. And yes, in that order. As it is said, when the mind is captured the body will follow. D/s is similar to Yoga, Yoga stimulates the mind, body and soul. What a beautiful thing....... |
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Where do the rude people come from? It's the holiday season, isn't everyone cheery this time of the year?! When a person is rude to a perfect stranger, I can't imagine a one on one meeting!
You want to email me with an attitude, keep it movin'!
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Do you feel in the corners of your mind, there is something missing....feel the yearning, but don't know what it is? Feeling like that on a daily basis can truly divert the day the thoughts other than daily tasks. Trust me, i feel it daily. |
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There are some strange people on this website. One has to wonder what they are truly after, or what they expect to gain. Why would an individual create a name so close to mine, then claim i am male? i scratch my head and throw my hands up to this one! For those that know me, i have been on CM for approximately three years or more, with this name. Read the dates of past profiles to see this as being true.
I was born a female! Oh, and by the way, my toes are not that fat! HaHaHa! |
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If You are curious, ask..... or remain curious. |
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Is there an epidemic of lack of trust? With out trust, what do we have? Why do we deeply hurt those that we love? Sometimes, we can love someone but cannot be with them.
i have seen love, felt love, had love, been loved, but without trust, there is NOTHING.... we only live once. |
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People
ask, What is a Daddy Dom. Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and
for most a Dominant. His choice is to be a Daddy Dom, this does not
mean incest (as has been said in the past by ignorant people) rather a
Daddy Dom is One who cares for, nuture s, shapes, and molds his baby girl
into the image He thinks she should become. He sees in her someone who
can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He often times believes
more in her, than she believes in herself.
His
love for his baby girl goes without question. He loves her as much for
who she is, as for what she will become with His guidance. she is
...... His prized possession. a Daddy's eyes will light up when she
comes into a room and take great pride in her success's. After all, He
helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of His heart and
has greatest power to hurt Him.
This
love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel
pride in his lil girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the
outside world and still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect
for the gift she has given Him and takes great pains to increase it’s
value. It is extremely important to Him to know she can be with any man
and she chooses to be with Him.
He
knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, His
discipline is more important than in some other D/s relationships. In
order for the lilgirl to really trust, she must know He means what He
says. If His lil girl is going to be the best she can possibly be He
must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and His knowledge of
her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.
If
He does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing.
If His submissive finds that she can manipulate Him out of punishing
her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes
impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be
possessed by someone you do not respect.
This
takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her, and
to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her
confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out
into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in His arms.
And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be
disciplined.
A
Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to His
submissive...acceptance. She is safe in His arms because He knows her,
everything about her, and He still loves her. When she goes to Him she
knows that this Man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it
doesn’t matter. To Him she is and always will be beautiful.
A
Daddy Dom and a Sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many
Daddy Dom `s embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their
submissive` s masochism. This balance is necessary to many li lgirls
because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an
incredibly fulfilling relationship.
I
think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the
role of Male authority figure in the submissive` s life and using their
power to enrich that life. Daddy` s lil girl verbalizes that feeling, and
adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants
crave.
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A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult
little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive' s
best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal
desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can
be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be
able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he
does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than
her, but he will always do what's best for her.
He helps her set and
reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her
improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her !
He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better
person in general.
He becomes many things in
her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND? a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!
He
wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the
cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! SO ? it is up to him
to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to
comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she
becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom
listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or
childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help
her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her
"Knight in Shining Armor".
The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams,
desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is
bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him.
He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no
matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.
There
is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as
she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as
much as she does herself.
He will cuddle her and show her the
tenderness she craves when she needs it., when she feels unsure of
herself he will whisper encouraging words for her. When she feels ugly
he will reassure her how beautiful she is to him ... when she is scared
he will be her safety net, her medium against the world if need be. She
is his pride and joy ? his main comfort in life ? his reason for
living. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way he cares for
her, he is the only one for her, her Daddy !
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People come into our lives for a reason.... |
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Immature love says: "I love you because I need you." Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."
Erich Fromm
Words to live by..... |
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Change is supposed to be good? Isn't it? Sometimes i wonder.... |
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The dreamer who finds his way thru the moonlinght sees the dawn before the rest of the world. |
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Remember, when the mind is captured the body follows.... |
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Nothing can bring You peace but Yourself.
::Emerson:: |
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Dominant men are interesting creatures, they have a certain unique quality, part of it is the Dominance they carry, and part is the mystique. That is what can lead a woman to a particular Dominant. Yet, that a Dominant male, as smart as He is, think that a He can lead a woman to Him, make her submit, and assume that she trusts Him. Without knowing Him? It's not submit first trust later..... |
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Happy New Year's!
A new year, new beginnings... |
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Who is anyone to judge reasoning for things others do? Or how one's life is lived. I've yet to meet a perfect person. If we do not want to be judged, then do not judge anyone. |
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Happy Holidays to everyone. Remember to forgive, forget, to love, make new friends and dream. It's your soul that you must nurture....it's the love that you take with you. |
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Remember to forgive, there may come a day that You need to be forgiven. |
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It has been said that every disappointment in this life is for our own good. I'd have to say there is truth to that statement. Care to comment? |
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Amazing how many fake people are on this sight. One day here, the next day gone, what's up with that??? Makes me wonder if anyone is real..... |
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| Age: 40 |
| Richmond,
Kentucky |
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