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I believe a relationship is an evolution,,Ds or otherwise. I am an honest, loyal, down to earth submissive male. Sound of mind and body, with a good sense of humour. I am educated, single, no children, one dog named charlie. Currently I own a big rig and drive around the country over the road. I have had many occupations in the past including stage actor, social worker, manager, bar owner, farm hand, photographer to name a few. I am searching for a Dominant Woman who is interested in a long term relationship. I have experience as submissive, but have not found the right Woman as of yet. My goal is to find a Woman who is not only into the lifestyle, but also one who is my lover and best friend. The relationship that I seek will be both vanilla and Ds.

I know the reality of a Ds relationship is quite different than the fantasy, especially one that is 247. I know that my position will always be subordinate to Her regardless of circumstance. Even though I may be allowed to express an opinion, in the end it is always for Her to have the final say. I consider Domination to be a wonderful gift, and a Woman who is willing to provide that in a relationship should always be respected, and something never to be taken for granted. Part of the process has to involve learning Her ways, Her moods, and how to best serve Her. Knowing that She has taken on the responsibility of being in charge and is willing to make decisions means to me that She deserves not only obedience, loyalty, and devotion, but that it also means always doing my best to keep Her in Her comfort zone. It involves not only being able to follow instructions, and rules, but also anticipating Her needs, wants, and desires. Sometimes She may wish to stand there with a crop in Her hand while I wash the dishes, making sure they are being done properly (in a Ds play kind of way),,and sometimes She will may just want those dishes washed correctly without having to worry about it.

In a 247 Ds relationship there is a difference between play and everyday life. For example, an OTK king or paddling can be playful, but if She finds something Ive done or said unacceptable, then it can be administered as a punishment in a severe way. Since im not really into pain in terms of being a masochist, physical punishment can be very effective in getting the result She desires. Another example it might be erotic to have to stand in the corner for 10 minutes as playful discipline,,but an infraction of the rules, or inappropriate behavior that is more serious might result in having to stand in the corner for an hour or longer depending on the severity of the infraction, and what She considers appropriate.

I mentioned anticipating Her moods, I think I can explain this in a little more detail. If we both work, say Monday thru Friday, and on Friday we are both off for the weekend. She may be in a good mood on Friday afternoon, in which case She may take a comment I make in a light hearted fashion, or She may be less severe in disciplining for a minor infraction of Her rules, etc,,,but the same occurrence on Monday might result in a more serious punishment. Not having Her morning coffee ready on a Friday morning may be less annoying than not having it ready on time on Monday morning. It may be that something has occurred during the day that has caused Her to be in a bad mood,,,i would need to be able to pick up on that, and anticipate the best course of action (or inaction), not only because of a fear of punishment, but because it is my responsibility to be supportive and to try and find ways that will help Her feel better about things if I can,,if I cant then it is a failure on my part (at least thats how I would view that situation). It sort of like the old clich ,,,pleasing Her is my greatest reward, disappointing Her my worst punishment. If I didnt help Her obtain a better and more cheerful frame of mind,,i would feel I disappointed both Her and myself.

In terms of Ds and vanilla are concerned in a 247 relationship,,it is important for me to always remember that my behavior is dependent on what She desires, and expects. Obviously the dynamic is quite different when we are out in public, with co-workers, friends, family, etc, than it is when we are with other people involved in the Ds lifestyle. I have to remember how to behave correctly and according to how She desires,,but regardless never forgetting my place.

As far as limits are concerned,,,i have the usual ones, no children, no animals, etc,,,but otherwise it would be for Her to set boundaries and parameters. As the relationship grows and the foundations of trust and loyalty are strengthened then She may want to push my limits or set new ones for me,,,for example I really am not into strapons, but if this is something She enjoys or wants to try,,then once that trust is there,,i would certainly do my best to make it as satisfying an experience for Her as possible. And as always, if She enjoys something and is pleased, there would be no greater reward for me. In terms of others involvement,,that can be a very complex matter. Basically, I am monogamous, and am pretty much only interested in being with one Woman, and would be very content with it always being like that. I guess its a matter of degrees when it comes to others. It may be a situation where we are at a Ds gathering or with another FemDom couple,,and She may enjoy watching me receive a whipping from another Dominant Woman,,or by the other Dominants submissive, or have me whip him,,,In terms of being a cuckold or doing something sexual with another person,,for me, that would be very difficult,,i am not gay, bi, or even bi curious,,,,however, I do love being humiliated. And it is about Her pleasure and desires,,,but again,,,it would depend on the dynamic,,,and more importantly on trust, and there being a strong and rock solid relationship.

My need to submit to a Woman, and to be completely controlled by Her in indelible, and goes to the core of my being as a person and as a man. My greatest desire is to surrender complete to a Womans will. im not interested in vanilla relationships at all, im not a Dom, a switch, or try to top from the bottom. I have no interest in Ds play as a part time thing, no interest in professional sessions, or anything like that..I dont want to try and find a vanilla Woman, and coax Her into Dominating me,,at best it would probably end up in occasional play,,and not last long. What I am searching for is a Woman who has an innate desire to be in control, who is grounded in being Dominant, and who has the confidence and the strength to be the one making decisions. A Woman who has expectations of devotion, loyalty, sincerity, and obedience from a man, and at least on some level respects his submission to Her. She is a Woman who feels the great joy of having a man who is completely devoted to Her, who listens to Her, respects Her, and whose greatest pleasure it is to please Her. Not just in Ds play, or a scene, but on a day to day basis. She is someone who not only wants him to submit to Her and obey Her, but to be able to talk with Her, have an interesting conversation, and understands Her. I am seeking a Woman who wants to do things like go out to dinner, to a movie, the museum, see a play,,etc as well as stay home and watch tv, or play a board game..things like going for a hike, swimming, or go for a mountain bike ride.

Once, I find the right Woman, as I mentioned earlier, within a year, I will sell this truck, and settle down,,i have a college degree, and can get a professional job, or other kind of work,,i will have enough money, that I could start a small business (ive done it before successfully),,that kind of decision with be based on the situation,,,but since I will be settling down with a Dominant Woman, She will of course have the ultimate say in this if She wishes, as it will be for Her that I am m

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1/19/2015 11:43:34 AM
I just found out this website was back online. I am still searching for a Female led, LTR. To update, I have paid off my big rig, and am very much interested in settling down.

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jassie0
 
 Age: 25
 Las Vegas, Nevada