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Hetero Male Dominant, 47,  Muskegon, Michigan
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Greetings, and Welcome!

Please ponder the following concept

Knowledge Not shared ...IS wasted!
I believe knowledge and life are best savored when shared and benifiting our Brothers,Sisters and community.

To this end, some of my endevors have included (but are not limited to)

Host of the Muskegon Munch

Exchange student to West Germany with Youth For Understanding

Twice studied in France while an undergraduate student

Teaching self-defense to women and children since 1991

Providing quality Life-style portraiture since 1990

Life-style Pansexual friendly residential property owner since 1980

Honored to serve as President and Vice President of the Board of Directors of GRALE

Mentored males, females and trans individuals per their life-style self-identification

Owner and Operator of San Shin Lifestyle Bed Breakfast with locations operated in Grand Rapids and Holland and now in Muskegon

Brought presenters to the community at personal expense

Hosted andor Presented numerous free demos and workshops for the community.

I am a RT Dominant male ... not a mantle I wear -just who I am.

I am entirely comfortable with who and what I am,and have NO tendencies to switch. As I believe communication is the very foundation of any relationship - and indispensable within a BDSM, Ds or Ms relationship - I ask that you Please forgive this extended introduction

The terms of Sadist and Masochist are so heavily laden with over a century of social stigma and bigotry that I chosen to no longer use them.To not only disperse that societal sinkhole before it surfaces, but to more accurately describe what I and my counterpart(s) have explored as a central aspect of how we chose to live - I have coined the term Intensive Sensual Stimulation.

This term can be used interchangeably to refer to the effects upon either the giver or the receiver within the adult consensual dynamic.

I have been in real world Ds or Ms relationships (some long term, some shorter) for my entire adult life (yep, that has been a while). I have traveled many long, rough and bumpy roads to arrive here. Too often without any to share the march - much less to light the way - yet I remain on the path ... hopefully to assist and ease the way of self-discovery for others.

I am known to be well skilled in a broad range of Vanilla and Life-style abilities, highly competent, self-motivated and with a focus to complete any task I begin. A quick (if sometimes biting) wit, a love of intellectual discourse, constant creativity, a broad sense of humor, endless curiosity,compassion for others, an enduring interest in Asian (particularly Japanese)culture, a love of language (I speak French, German, some Russian ... oh, and English - kinda), a wonderfully wicked expressiveness in play,and a strong work ethic are a few of my traits. While I find no joy per se to cook, I do enjoy eating well and sharing a meal with others. So far,I have never had a single guest decline what I sit before them at my table.

Although I live for the Life-style, it is not the entirety of my life.

Additional outlets for my creativity include (but not limited to) are

Photography ...

I am an accomplished Portrait, Nude, Erotic, Commercial,Nature and Wedding photographer as well as Fetish Photographer. Providing quality Life-style inspired portraiture (not exactly an Olen Mills specialty, after all ...) and Fetish images to members of the community has been an honor since 1990.

I am currently considering new clients as well.

Home Remodeling Repair ...

An organic out-growth of my 30 year long Pan Life-style Friendly rental property business has been on going pro bono and at cost repairs for those who can not afford repairs even in the best of times.

While my Dominant nature emanates from within myself (it is my very nature - and not reliant upon a play space, skills with toys, protocols, fetish wear or play parties to either validate or affirm who and what I am), I enjoy all aspects of The Life-style and recognize that they are available to be savored by, yet not to define me. I am, however, active within the BDSM and DsMs community. I host the Muskegon, Mi Munch and present a wide variety of classes and workshops at demos and parties where ever invited.

Socially, I am equally unflappable in a biker bar as I am gracious in black tie and tails.

This is not to say I am proud of everything I have done throughout my life, and while I prefer to learn from the mistakes others, I do accept responsibility for what I have done and use my own mistakes as a basis for self-examination and thereafter for self-improvement.

I am always interested in meeting new people, both vanilla and within the lifestyle for friendship and the sharing of thoughts, ideas, experience and skills. So ... If you would like to make a new friend I would be happy to correspond.

I have also been known to negotiate non-sexual scenes with female and male bottoms or to assist other Tops.That said, if there is an interest in one or more of the skills listed in my profile, I am open to discussion.

I look forward to corresponding with interested individuals at any time.













 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 185 lbs






 Lives For:

 Movies (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Being Massaged (Expert)

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Munches (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Shibari (Expert)

 Spanking you (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)

 Photography (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)


 Antique Shows (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Garage Sales (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Martial Arts (Expert)

 Walking (Expert)


 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 You wearing my collar (Expert)

 Corsetry (Expert)

 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Domestic Service

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)


 Rituals (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play (Expert)

 You wearing stockings

 Cartoons (Expert)

 Science Fiction

 Art Collecting


 Online Auctions (Expert)





 Flea Markets (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires






 Corner Time

 Fire Play (Expert)



 Placing you on a leash (Expert)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Modern Primitivism

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play (Expert)

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Body Art

 Candle Making (Beginner)

 Cooking (Expert)


 Painting (Expert)











 1950s Lifestyle


 Victorian Lifestyle


 Construction Expert

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