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| Currently in the process of thinking about what it is that I want to say here. Will post a better profile "soon." For now ....
• I have roughly 30 years of D/s experience and EVERY intimate relationship that I've ever had has had a healthy D/s aspect.
• I've been with my current sub for almost 5-years (May 2010-present). We have an open relationship (which means that I can play with anyone that I want, no questions asked; she can also play with others but needs permission). We're also polyamorous so a long-term relationship with someone else is an option if we connect at that level.
• On some level, anyone that I get involved with will also be involved with my girl; even if it's just via email. My preference is for the women in my life to be friends but it's okay if they aren't as long as they are friendly with each other (or at least don't hate each other).
• Given the choice between lots of kink with a little sex or lots of sex with a little kink, I'd take the former before the latter EVERY SINGLE TIME. My preference is for lots of both but "good kink" is harder to find than good sex so .... it's a no-brainer that that's where my priority lies.
• I prefer brunettes and redheads but will never rule anyone out based on their hair color or ethnicity. Attraction is important but, to me, connection is more so.
• Intelligence and a willingness to "suffer for me" are the 2 greatest turn-ons I know of.
• Suffering isn't based on the amount of pain; it's based on what I'm doing being unpleasant enough that you want me to stop but you not asking me to stop because you know that I'm enjoying what I'm doing and you want to make me happy (with you, with your performance, etc.).
• Masochists are cool but also a lot of work. I certainly don't mind the work though :)
Final thought (until I write the "better" profile .....
No matter what you think I want or how much you think you don't match that criteria ... odds are you're wrong - unless we've had an actual conversation about it. I like to say that there is much I desire but less I require and that is a very, VERY true statement. As long as you're willing to kneel before me, are okay with my having a primary that isn't you, are into at least of a few of the things that I like, and think that you can give me the CONNECTION that I seek .... we can have a conversation. Where it goes from there is up to the two of us together.
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| Age: 19 |
| Tacoma,
Washington |
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