I am married, so a long term romantic relationship will NOT be in our future. If you cannot form a proper sentence, with proper spelling and punctuation, please DO NOT message me. Just forget my profile all together. Nothing drives me crazier than trying to figure out what it is you are trying to say. I will consider that a HUGE waste of my time. I believe in sentences that start with a capital letter, and ending with the appropriate punctuation mark. If you are confused on how this works, please go to this site, ( http://www.sentencemaster.ca/howtowritesentences2.html ) and try again. I’m not so much new to the lifestyle, but new to this part of it. I am definitely not a sub, and very much a Domme at heart. I am not the cruel stereotype. I’m also not here to act out your favorite strap-on porn fantasy. If you saw it on Xhampster, it is not very likely going to happen with me. I’ve seen the videos, they’re entertaining, but not all that realistic in the real D/s world. Be realistic in your expectations with anyone that you pursue. Anyone I choose must understand that I will not be available 24/7. I am not asking anyone to relocate, and if you want an on-line experience with me, I will not always be available to appear on a cam. I will do my best to be available, but it is YOUR job to keep me interested. Asking permission to jerk off will not get my attention either. I am big on writing assignments, especially in the beginning. The writings are my way to get to know you better, and to see if we are a good match. I will not toy with you if I don’t see a future for us. For me, this is a learning experience. I am always open to an experienced sub that is willing to help me develop as a Domme. I am not too good to admit that learning new things scary, but I always enjoy every moment. I don’t have much experience in a LD relationship, so if you are seeking one, you must possess patience. One line messages will be passed up, as will anything that doesn’t show a good idea of who you are. I want to see pictures, so blank profiles will be passed as well. Don’t tell me how great you are, that drives me nuts, especially when you can’t spell. If you are a sub and old enough to be my father, move on. It creeps me out. However, as friends I’m open. I’m open to talk with other Dom/mes as well. I love to hear ideas and see how others work out their dynamics. As I said before, always open to learn.
If you've made it this far, and intend on sending me a message, please send one that will catch my eye. Messages that only say "hi" and "too bad you live so far" don't do anything for me. I consider then a waste of time. If I have more than one message to respond to, I will chose the one that I find more appealing and delete the others. If you are serious, than please send a message that demonstrates that. I also don't appreciate being sent generic messages. I have received a few that were sent to several others in hopes to get one to respond. I find this insulting. If you write me, please make the effort to personalize your message to reflect you and what you are seeking. SEND ME SOMETHING WORTH RESPONDING TO!