I must say, I LOVE rimming. It is diry, erotic and very pleasurable.. I LOVE IT!!!!!

I see domination games as a practice of self actualization.

The illusion of gaining control is not a product of a sick mind no matter how futile it is.

We are weak beings who wander in the cosmos not knowing our purpose or faith, all we know is that we are expendable. 

And during this chaos I think Domination games are a poetic way of defining our existence in this world. We seek pleasure, we suffer, we abuse and be abused and when it all comes to an end it is just a game we played which seems lasted less than an hour or two.

BDSM marriage,

I am not really looking for a D/S marriage and here's why.

During D/S or in any other kind of relationship I see it as an exchange of affection. It is a trade where both parties bring something to the table. For a slave it is the attention of the mistress and desires that are full filled by  the mistresses needs and satisfaction you bring to her. For the mistress it is similar she gives her attention and effort to gain satisfaction.

During a short period It works wonderfully but It would be very difficult to say that for both parties that this level of satisfaction and fulfilment will be achieved because common day problems and issues are much more complicated in a mental level.

In the bedroom or dungeon parties do not bring family, work and other outside sources that may have deep psychological roots. It is pure passion and desire that's what makes it wonderful, pure and exciting for me. But for a period of 30-60 years It would be difficult to be honest as a slave even while serving the mistress/wife. Plus roles may have to change during the vanilla which would complicate things even further.

My ideal mistress/ wife relationship would be like an equal marriage with loving partners who likes to get kinky in the bedroom.

Prove me wrong! I am single .. LOL 

I don't know whether I should be proud or ashamed that I love oral worship this much.

Since it is part of sex and intimate(a little far from Objectification

) It seems as if it is not really a part of BDSM.

My last mistress enjoyed my service a lot (she was oral worship oriented) and since I dont pick and choose (just submit to what ever pleases her) I want to believe that it is not something to be ashamed of.Although shallow, I like to think it is only on oral servitude I can give my mistress pleasure because it is not only mental pleasure but also physical pleasure that is involved in the process.

Anyway I am crazy about oral servitude, I live for deep rimming!!! I cant express how much I love it. My mistress used to  ask me to worship her orally for hours to make it more enjoyable for her and less for me but the moments she would let me rim her were the moments that I got revived.

By the way if anyone is reading this, please take the time to say hello. I really like this site and I just hope there are people who are still using it.

Cheers!

Ok update.

I had a wonderful mistress but a lousy job which prevented me from holding my on my promises for meetings. 3 strikes and I am out :'(

Now I am free but I don't have a mistress anymore. Lame!

I believe the reason why there are so many fakes in this site is because even those people who seem passionate of the practices of BDSM they still see them as taboo.
Just like sex , people who cant get any develop an artificial obsession to it and screw up its meaning and purpose in their minds  making it perverse, more or less than what it really is.

BDSM is a sexual act.
If you are ashamed or afraid of having sex with a stranger, you will be afraid or ashamed to have any kind of sexual relation with some one you meet online. You may lie for the trill and it is not a big deal really, it is just annoying for the "real/normal" people.

I was the same until I one day I made up my courage to meet see a mistress. My first mistress was a professional, I tested my self and found out that it was more than a fantasy I really enjoyed it. Eventually I was blessed with a "real" mistress and saw that I was happy to serve her needs and likes as well.

Since there is no slavery  as it were in the old days, BDSM will always be as a mutual agreement between you and your mistress, master,or slave where you share and quench each other's thirst. There is really noting wrong with it.

 If you really get full satisfaction and feel complete you can make it a regular practice. If you have time and you feel like it you can try making it a part of your Identity and fully live your fantasy. 
It is not something that can ruin your life if you don't go extreme like for all other things in life.

>   If you want sex and see this site as a tool, well then you are a pathetic tool yourself and you don't know anything about BDSM.

>   If you just fantasizes BDSM and have no intention of participating but you act real because you are afraid you wont be taken seriously then quit now! because Sooner or later people will find out about your little fantasy and you will be in a spot where you obviously don't want to be in.

>   If BDSM is more than a fantasy but you are afraid to do anything about it, well that is not healthy.Because it will build up.

I am looking for a real mistress, if you are there I would love to hear from you.

I am in the hands of my magnificent mistress. She teaches me the fine art of oral Worship with such grace. I can lick her for hours , and so thats what I am doing. She is perfect in everyway.

I just had a personal discovery. It is a simple fact with a naive philosophy but again it is enlightening.
 I realized that I was living with past, present and the future!
 I had regrets and lots of sadness, anger tied up to my neck pulling me backwards.
I have current issues and troubles like at work, with friends ect..
And last but not least I have all the dreams and expectations that keep on troubling my mind to achieve or to feel sorry for those that I cant seem to achieve in the short run.

I realised that although I am living in "today" I am also caring/baring yesterday and future!!!

With this in mind I released my troubles. The issues I have today are not as hard as worrying about being a millionaire or bringing back a lost loved one.
 Now I feel at peace.

Thanks For reading

The road to salvation is never easy. We have to suppress our inner demons and silence our ego in order to achieve peace.The wisdom of the universe does not always reveal to us thus making it hard for us to know how to fix our problems and heal our souls.

Once you suppress the dogma of the dictating community, you can try and confront your needs and urges to see "IF" you want it and then to find out "why" you need it.

I am looking for a mistress to show me if and why and become my whole and only.

The lack of interest from local mistresses no longer makes me feel bad.
I now see that there are a number of mistresses in the world who shares my passion and understands me.
I am grateful to my mistress for her kind mail and inspiring words.

What can I do but to wait my turn for mistress to find me? I am borned to serve as she is born to be served. It is our nature and destiny to unite.

I am very,I mean VERY oral though I am afraid to confess.

I adore woman's body.I like the taste and the power which this act gives to women who enjoy being serviced.
I particularly enjoy ass worship because in my little male slave mind, I love to think it is a service not many men likes to apply and find it very stimulating when it is demanded . I wouldnt mind hurting my tongue by giving long periods of oral service not only because i like eating but because it is a kind of submission which my mistress physically enjoys.

I have seen mistresses that prohibit the slave to worship his mistress orally and believe it shouldn't be in involved in the BDSM.
I fail to see why it is such a taboo in BDSM? It is a kind of "Submission" which can be both physically and mentally satisfying to the one who is being worshiped.

Please correct me if you believe I am wrong.

Life is a bitter mistress, it tames us all. We are bound to it by death, we suffer to no end.
How I love worshiping my seductive mistress.