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| I am a successful and intelligent man, fully in control of my life. Well educated, well read and deeply knowledgeable in the lifestyle. Broad interests, open mind, powerful imagination.
Your fantasies will matter a great deal to me and they will come to life. But I'll be in control. Always expanding the boundaries and testing the depths. But always, always, safe, sane and consensual.
Never married. Now ready for a serious long-term monogamous relationship with the right girl. I am looking for the relationship that would spice up both of our lives by letting us openly be who we really are. At the same time, you must be trying to enhance your life by living out the spicy fantasies, not running away from the life you already have.
Again, I am searching for a real-life long-term relationship. Leg irons, collars, heavy chains and rings may stir desire and may drive us mad. As does the intricate and rigid protocol. That's good. And they will certainly have their place, as often on your knees, in vulnerable nakedness, you meekly hold a thick cruel single-tail in presentation to you master. As every muscle flexes up in biting ropes or rigid mental bondage. Or as you balance on your bare tiptoes holding a heavy silver tray. Or as you kiss the hand that left the welts, so, so beautiful and so painful.
But powerful as my imagination is, I have tremendous self-control and firm sense of reality. I clearly distinguish fantasies from real life and do understand that some of them are just unpractical or dangerous for living out in the long term. And I will not endanger you. We do not live in ancient Rome or medieval Spain. And you will NOT live naked, branded, hooded, on ice-cold stone dungeon floor, with hands behind the back, on bread and water. Such fantasies, as tasty as they are, are simply that -- dark mental treats for rainy days together. We will have our vanilla life as well. A good vanilla life. A life of travel, of adventures and of love, built on eternal bonds of trust and mutual respect. Whatever form that mutual respect may take).
We may or may not build a rigid border between vanilla and the lifestyle. Regardless, we will have clear open communication, always. Your safeword will be sacred.
Also, if these things matter, I am of Russian - Jewish heritage. Spiritual and knowledge-thirsty. I cannot post a picture here due to my work and life. But I would gladly share one as we establish contact.
I'm seeking for the spark between us. Bright, sudden spark as the positives and negatives of the electric circuit meet. We'll take things slowly at first to build up trust. And then, let's see what fires flare up between us, and, perhaps, light up the darkness of the dungeons.
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