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MerkLover1

Hiya. I have been a dom for many years but have only just felt the need to join this site. Because most of my time is taken up at home with my wife.
Over a period of time I have developed my own unique way of dominating a sub. This involves coming online and lying to her. I create profiles and talk about trust but what I don't tell you in these profiles is that I am married and have nothing much to offer other than a few grubby minutes here and there.
I am totally comfortable with how I do it and will not compromise my beliefs for anyone. I am totally comfortable with lying to you, with cheating on my wife, and I am not going to be honest about my situation and how many women I am lying to for anybody.
My main priorities are to build MUTUAL respect and trust and to have fun doing it. That means my main priority is that you have respect and trust for me and so don't ask me why I can't spend the night or question why I come and go as I do, because I don't want you to know I am married. I will not be returning the respect and trust by being honest here, and open that I am married, but I think pretending its mutual and putting it in capitals should fool you shouldn't it?
I will deliver pleasure pain at any level I will not just be lying to you, but I lie to my wife as well and cheat on all the women I meet.
I refuse to humiliate a sub. Obviously that's a bit of a lie because in not being honest with you in this profile and yet rabbit, rabbit, rabbit on about being honest and trust blah blah blah, I am already humiliating you.
I find it totally contradictory to my role as mentor, guide and protector of my girl. and liar, that is probably the most important of my characteristics that you need to understand.
Why would I want to humiliate a girl who is cherished, valued and loved ? Well its because I am a grotesque run of the mill married man who hangs around crawling around the internet at night while his wife is in bed, and will go to any lengths for some dirty talk so I can toss myself off before bed.
I much prefer to help in her personal development, to find herself as a person and of course to find the peace of mind that only subs seem able to achieve when they hand over their mind, body and soul, to their master. Well that place particularly stupid women find, when they realise they are as stupid as my wife and I've been lying and cheating on you all. That very stupid place they get to when they realise they've been had and I'm laughing convincing myself that I am completely different to every married man on here.
I prefer a sub to be intelligent and to have her own opinions Obviously if you were really intelligent you'd have your own opinion which would be too leave me. I'm fortunate my wife is rather stupid as well so she also stays.
Your views will be valued and listened too but my decision will be final in all matters I will always continue lying to you.
I realise that my style of domination will not be to everyone's taste, but it as served me well for many years and like I said before I refuse to change I realise that not every woman likes to be with a married man cheating on his wife and lying to her, but I've been happy being a sociopath and leading life just for my own selfish needs so far, so I won't be changing.

5/11/2016 6:53:11 PM
Is it only me that finds profiles that have the location as UK irrritating and unhelpfull.
I guess it is, because the rest of you find me being married but not being honest about it even though I've written a profile stressing the value of honesty much more irritating.
Surely users can realise that any relationship ........and especially a d/s one is much more difficult if the people involved are at different ends of the country.
If you are married, this is a great inconvenience to me.  I want to know you live close enough to me that I can get home to my wife for dinner, but far enough away she won't meet you.  I only have a small window of opportunity to find someone so I don't want to waste my time talking to someone who doesn't meet the distance criteria, I and all married men have to adhere to.
So I imagine most people try to find a match from close by and thus seek out the local ones first .  
but of course if people are single distance doesn't matter so much, you can travel down the spend the weekend with them, so now I understand why you don't need to put the location in your profile, not putting it in actually helps weed out sad married men like me.
If a profile says UK  you then spend wasted time to find your prospective partner lives on the shetland Isles
I don't know why I am talking about prospective partners, probably to try and fool you, obviously as I am married I am nobodies prospective partner except my sad pathetic wife who puts up with me and my ridiculous behaviour because she's desperate.
 
BSB67
 
 Age: 27
  Kentucky