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Master seeks service-oriented, female for real-life, long-term relationship.
45yo Master, authoritarian, controlling, strict and firm yet fair, nurturing, with high demands, expectations, and sadistic mental streak seeks service-oriented (not just sex) female, late 20’s to mid/late 40’s, a few lbs over is OK, non-smoker, no drugs, non to minimal drinker for real-life, long-term relationship. Vanilla life is also important.
A relationship is much more than the sum of its parts.
Broad sense of humor required. May include, but not limited to:
- Word games & puzzles
- BDSM
- Life in general
- The world around us
- Myself
- Yourself
- Puns and other wordplay
I will instruct, lead and guide you to be the best you can be.
Can you hold an intelligent conversation for more than five minutes?
Are you also interested in a Vanilla life?
Are you a fan of the original Law & Order episodes, is Ordinary People an important movie or book to you, and did you enjoy Life of Brian? If yes, on any or all of the above we will most likely get along well.
Please, do not respond if:
You have dependents at home.
You do not believe that open, honest, and direct communication is necessary in any relationship
You do not like, or are allergic to, cats
You are just playing games on this site with no serious intent on developing a real-life relationship of the type I seek.
If you have got this far, thank you for reading my profile and I look forward to hearing from you soon.
- MentalMasterPlus & Gabriella (my cat)
PICS AVAILABLE WITH MESSAGE EXCHANGE
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If you do something your Master doesn't approve of he will use something on you that you don't like. That is punishment. This is a motivator for you to not do it again. If you are disciplined with something you like you are more likely to repeat the behavior your Master doesn't approve of. That isn't punishment, it's positive reinforcement. On your profile, what you don't like is at least as important as what you like. |
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Sorry I've been away for a while. The world of work (plus some travel to the East Coast) has kept me away from my computer. I'm looking forward to resuming my search. Please note that my profile is only a starting off point. I'm looking for something deeper. |
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Pics will be provided to individuals who request them once it is determined they will no longer be used for negative and abusive purposes. |
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Chat does not seem to work on my system. Sorry, but have to resort to messaging back and forth for the moment. |
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If you like puns and other forms of wordplay then we already have plenty of common. |
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Here's the challenge: Someone who is not playing games, fits the criteria of my profile, and there's good chemistry between us. |
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Please remember that I have a cat so subs and slaves with cat allergies would not be appropriate. Let me also emphasize no children (or adolescents) living at home. Thank you |
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It appears that many subs don't understand that punishment (or discipline is not supposed to be something she enjoys. In fact, it is supposed to be something she doesn't like. Otherwise, how is she supposed to learn not to repeat what she did that led to the punishment. |
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A few words on HYPNOSIS from a mentally-oriented Master who is also a mental health professional. Most of what laypeople think hypnosis is all about is a total crock. Swirling lights and swinging pocketwatches that you read about and see in movies is totally made up. So is (and this is the most important part) making people do what they don't want to do. All of this makes for great drama, but it is a total crock. The power of suggestion under the right circumstances can have incredible power and strength, but there is no way that any of this can force someone to do what they don't want to do. |
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I've finally updated my profile. I wish I could format it to be more compact, but I've done my best without smushing it into one mass paragraph. |
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Is there anyone out there who is for real? All of the game playing is not appreciated. |
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FYI - AreYouWeary is also myself, but caters to a very much overlapping, and yet different type of sub. Questions? Feel free to ask |
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Fake profiles and playing games are great ways to avoid getting involved in real life. Real life is growth and real life is scarey, but real life is well worth the risks. There is no such thing as failure, only mistakes. Mistakes are how we learn. If we fail to learn, we fail to grow. So let's all go out and make some mistakes, fall flat on our faces, and grow as people. |
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A special THANK YOU goes out to all who are courteous and friendly enough to respond to messages, whether or not they think we are a match. It tells me that there still are some decent and civilized people on this site |
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If you're here to play games, mess with people's heads, and/or you are not here to find a real relationship, stay away from me. I'm not the one for you. I can tell who you are from 10 miles away and the net doesn't hide you any better. |
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I, as a person (and Master) am aware that you female subs and slaves are "overwhelmed" by the number of emails you receive on this site (actually, on any personals approach be it BDSM, Vanilla, or just plain newspaper has an approximate proportion of 10 responses to female ads to every 1 response to a male), but this is no reason to be discourteous! If a male (Dom / Master / or otherwise) has the courtesy to take the time to write you a thoughtful note showing interest in you, isn't it at least courteous for you to send a simple "Thank you for taking the time and interest in me, but I don't think we would do well together"? There, I've even written a note that you can copy. Is that so difficult?
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If you don't even take the time or interest to write something intelligent on your profile, or really can't be bothered to complete the profile lists, why should anyone take the time and energy to bother with you? |
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OK folks, starting today (and hopefully all along) we're going to play a game. I know it's a very difficult game, but if you really want to accomplish something and not just play fake then the game can be very rewarding. The game is called Let's be Honest, Let's be Real. I have already gone first, so it shouldn't be so hard for others to continue. |
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Regardless of what others may imagine, all have hard limits, and this includes Masters and slaves. There are certain things that a Master is not comfortable doing, just like any other human being. If you are a slave and don't believe that you have limits, would you jump off a cliff if your Master told you to? All have hard limits and those may be discovered along the way, just as we learn more about what we do and do not like doing. That is called growth and growth is a major part of life. If a sub or slave cannot accept and respect that a Master may also have limits, as well as things he may and may not enjoy doing, then I am NOT the Master for you! |
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If there is a problem with any of the three following conditions, then we wouldn't do well together: 1) Allergies or dislike of cats 2) You are not looking for a longterm relationshiip where the emotional and relationship side is just as important as the play. 3) You are allergic to being honest and upfront. |
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People have asked my why I use the pseudonym MentalMasterPlus. It has been suggested that it sounds snobbish and conceited. Let me take this time to clarify the name and dispel the myth. First word: Mental. I am a mental health professional who believes that 99 percent of what takes place in a BDSM relationship occurs between the ears. Second word: Master. That's what I am in a BDSM relationship. I prefer this term over Dom. Third word: Plus. There is plenty more than just the mental that takes place within a BDSM (i.e. physical) and I enjoy doing plenty of that also. I hope that this clarifies things for those who have been inquisitive enough to ask and to mellow out those who are negatively judgmental. |
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| Age: 25 |
| Los angeles,
California |
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