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Memnon

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Memnon is a screen name. My given name is Mark, and my name to many, many people is Dragon, and to some it is Lord Dragon. Call me by any of these.
Although not the only source for my choice of screen name, Memnon of Rhodes was a man I do not mind a connection with. Had he not died unexpectedly (perhaps poisoned), he would have taken down that upstart punk Alexander.
********************************************************************* Are you a submissive or slave who desires to serve as part of a poly household? I am Dragon, Lord of Dragon's Rest, and I invite you to read the following period-styled notice and respond via Message. It is long, but I wanted to be thorough and forthcoming. NOTICE:
Lord Dragon (aka Memnon on FL) and Lady Dana (no FL) are establishing a neo-Edwardian household at Dragon's Rest. Female submissives are sought for a number of positions including those more traditionally held by men. These positions include but are not limited to:
*Housekeeper
*Valet
*Housemaid/Lady's Maid
*Cook
*Groundskeeper/Gardner
*Mechanic / Jane-of-all-trades Dragon's Rest is a smallish country house in Catoosa County, Georgia. Assistance will be expected with various projects focusing on maintenance and improvement as well, with the goal of preparing the property for sale so that the household may move to a more spacious estate. The house is home to several cats, so allergic subs might want to think twice, as the cats are family. Interviews by appointment. References requested. No agencies. This is an unpaid D/s arrangement. Sexual elements of service to be negotiated during the interview process. Sexual elements are not mandatory, this can be a service-only arrangement, Declining to participate in that aspect is not a bar to service if other skills are sufficient. Changing you mind in either direction is OK. Really. This is a poly household. It is not expected that you dedicate yourself entirely to our service, though such a gift is certainly appealing. We just require that your other relationships not interfere with your service, and that you not bring your other relations to Dragon's Rest without prior permission, even if you live on-site. Some on-site lodging is available. Arrangements open to negotiation. Meals while on-site included. Upon reaching agreement, the service contract is for 6 months' service and can be terminated at any time by either party. (Frankly, ANY of this can be terminated at ANY time by either party. But you should already know that. This is not a legally binding contract.) Upon satisfactory completion, the option to enter a deeper and more personal level of service as a bond-servant may be extended. Bond-service lasts for a year and a day. Upon satisfactory completion of Bond-service, the opportunity to swear a binding oath of fealty to the Household and become a vassal may be given (M/s dynamic, feudal style). Such oath is considered to be lifelong and comes with both additional privileges and responsibilities. Honestly, those who enter our lives enter our hearts, and once there they are always there. While our household is based on Edwardian principles, modern realities are recognized and embraced. Technology is our friend. (Usually.) This is a Magickal household. Weird and amazing (usually amusing, too) things happen fairly frequently. We are not dark and cruel masters. We try not to take ourselves too seriously. We want our household to be filled with love and laughter. Inevitably, close association with our "help" will form close ties of friendship. This is not to say that rules will not be strictly enforced, but we are rational and reasonable under most conditions. Sincere questions are welcome, as are politely-put ideas on ways to do things better. As Lord of the Manor (such as it is), I take the well-being of my "girls" very seriously and will do all I can to see you grow to meet your full potential. My household is a sanctuary in which you shall be safe. I am very protective of my own. Also, your achievements will glorify my household, and I want my subs to be strong, smart, vibrant, and healthy. I want to have subs that other people look up to.
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ABOUT ME:
My most recent quiz results has me as"Experimental" *Experimental - 89% *Sadist - 75% *Dominant - 75% *Switch - 57% *Exhibitionist / Voyeur - 50% *Masochist - 50% *Bondage - 29% *Submissive - 29% *Vanilla - 25% *Degradation - 4% *I'm an unabashed geek, but I don't write code. I'm a technical writer. I translate Programmer and Engineer into User.
*I believe in many improbable things before, during, and after breakfast.
*I pun; the English language is my playground.
*I am a panentheist, but I play well with others, especially Buddhists and Neo-Pagans.
*Sometimes I think I might know something about magick, and other times I am sure I do not know anything.
*The Way that can be discussed is not the true Way.
*My dick may only be on the large side of average but my brain is hung like a horse.
*I am not enlightened, but I have experienced Kensho. The memory sustains me, but I have difficulty sustaining the memory.
*I am not what one would call a "fan" of anything, but I enjoy many things quite a lot. Favorites are science fiction, fantasy, adventure, and historical movies, games, and books.
*I am a bibliophile.
*I sometimes speak in movie quotes. The Princess Bride, Circle of Iron, and Star Wars IV-VI provide a lot of material.
*I fidget.
*I have been called an endless font of worthless knowledge. I excel at trivia except for sports and pop culture.
*I consider myself a gentleman, and try to behave as one, though I am far from perfect at it.
*I have very high-functioning Asperger's Syndrome. This means my perspective on reality is different. It makes me an interesting conversationalist.
*I'm not originally from the South, and I don't fit in with the real good ol' boys at all. However, I have lived here since middle school, so I have a lot of the customs and idiosyncrasies.
*I'm a hugger.
*I've lost 70 pounds in the last 2 years, and am continuing to work toward health.
*I am very sentimental, and may actually get maudlin a few times a year.
*I have a BFA degree in painting. Oils. I am happiest when I'm being creative.
*I often use obscure and archaic language. I prefer "Alas" to "I'm sorry" when expressing sympathy, for example.
*I am learning rope-work and rigging. It;is a craft unto itself. I am touch-allergic to the residue from cigarette smoke. I get little blisters. If you smoke and you smell like it at all, forgive me if I go wash my hand after shaking yours. I'm a married man, and an incredibly lucky one at that. From even before the beginning of our married life in March of 1996, she knew I was polyamorous by nature, and while she chooses to remain monogamous to me, (really, her choice, I never said she had to be), she's quite fine with the idea of me having relationships of all kinds with other women. You can get that in writing from her if you don't believe me (several have!).. After 16+ years of false starts and disappointments (mostly just horrible luck where illnesses or relocations have gotten in the way), the Poly Gods have recently smiled upon me and brought some wonderful people into my life. I am a firm believer in the power of AND. Love is not a limited commodity. Time and energy, alas, are. After years of being cleverly disguised as vanilla, I am very glad to be able to throw off the disguise and explore all the delights of the kinky side of the Force. I admit that my experience is still limited. There is a learning curve to everything. I'm not one of these guys who goes "hey, I'm a Dom, that means I know it all because my way is the way it will be". I know that there is much to learn, and that ANY healthy relationship is based on mutual respect. I want to be a good, safe, and skilled Dom, and I know that there will ALWAYS be something more to learn. I have a nurturing (and protective) streak a mile wide, which may make me more of a "Daddy Dom" than anything else, but I'm not entirely comfortable with the incestuous tone of that. I pride myself on taking care of "my girls", and am supportive of their goals, desires, and other relationships. I want strong, healthy, happy, successful subs, and will do everything I can to help them. I do have a dark side that can come out and play with a willing sub. Where it goes is up to negotiation. My creative mind can come up with some exquisite an innovative things. And, as Dr. Furter said, "a mental mind-fuck can be nice". However, I do have some hard limits:
*The only bodily products I want to see/feel/smell/taste are sweat, cum, and saliva. No scat, or piss, and blood would take special circumstances and precautions.
*I am uncomfortable with the concept of play-rape even when it's completely planned out consensually.
*I'm not into humiliation or degradation. I want healthy, happy, strong, successful, self-confident subs, and will work hard to get bring them to that state.
*I will try very hard to avoid permanent damage, physical or psychological. Safety first. Well, that's about it for now. I'm sure I'll modify this list as I continue to explore the wonderful world of and BDSM. Be seeing you. "'Cause there's a monster under my bed, whispering in my ear
There's an angel with her hand on my head, she say I got nothin' to fear,
But there's a darkness livin' deep in my soul, still got a purpose to serve..."
ADangerousBeauty
 
 Age: 30
 Springfield, Illinois