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Hi
I have always been the Dominant in relationships, being a Naturally Alpha Male. I consider myself more fluid now, hoping to establish a long term committed relationship that will be more Organic in nature. I can reply with a pic.
Ultimately I am seeking a partner where the titles are less important than the connection. That connection would be based on mutual respect, trust, loyalty, honesty and integrity. I am looking for my true soul-mate. Where there are NO secrets or deceptions. Where there would be mutual respect to ALLOW the other person to decide how they feel about any given thing or situation, rather than have that decision made for them, without even being consulted. Both ways.
I.e. no lies, deceptions or manipulations. Haha
At 57 (good condition), I have had in some ways TOO MUCH life experience and now need nurturing of the soul rather than the ego. I want a co-conspirator in life that NEEDS the same.
But I am talking about a very deep level. I am recently single after a 10 year relationship with a girl 22 yrs my junior. Lockdown breakup.
I Do love to be that mentor, protector, provider and care giver that a Daddy type Dom offers, but reciprocation of commitment and obligation and actual participation in the relationship is also of paramount importance. Without, or minimal substances.
Within the confines of this relationship nothing would be left undiscussed with no topic taboo and open minded conversation would certainly leave no stone unturned as far as opportunities to explore virtually anything that WE decide upon.
I would like to build a long term relationship with someone that understands, a look, brush of a cheek, a hug or appropriately placed kiss can be even more powerful than the most elaborate of sex scenes (at times, haha).
A relationship should be about BOTH partners growing and evolving together, drawing on each others strengths and nurturing andor supporting their weaknesses.
I am a true humanitarian, and unfortunately this gets mistaken for weakness by some. I give ALL of me, and I need someone that can give ALL of them, now. I am sick of one way traffic.
I have soo much more to say but If you have read this far, maybe we can chat and see where things go from there.
All my Best,
J
Looking4mypet
 
 Age: 20
 Memphis, Tennessee