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Ok I am married and have no desire to change that just am looking for stuff to replace what I am missing, in a nutshell my husband is pretty passive and doesnt have a drive to do anything other then getting happy and off to sleep. BORINGGGG.

No I do not want to relocate and will not relocate and will never ask anyone to or want anyone to.

Ok lets see, things I want:

1. Honesty
2. Truthfulness
3. Long term
4. Dependability
5. Trusting
6. COMMUNICATION
7. COMMUNICATION
8. Oh yeah, COMMUNICATION
9. A Desire to help me learn
10. A desire to to want to help me to learn.

I am sure there is more but have to think of all of them first.

I am not into a relationship with switches, sorry guys, im just not that dominant, unless its in the working world then watch out.

I am submissive, but I am not stupid, a doormat, and willing to let you treat me like crap just because you are dominant.

I love to talk and joke, and sometimes to much and if that happens just let me know, I can and will back down.

Pictures: hmmm not until we have talked a bit at least. Sorry, I dont like to feel I am passing out pics for collectors.

yes I can hold a conversation but please make sure you participate, its hard doing it one sided. I dont do chats on here in the chat mode becuase I have to much on my screen as a rule to devote to that one area.

I will talk to anyone about anything.

Not looking for an online relationship thanks.

6/28/2009 5:47:54 PM
Ok not getting this part......Why must someone call me names or try to control me in the first two sentences, I mean Ok, ummm lets think about this, lets take some time to see if its what we both want first then proceed with the rest.
6/27/2009 9:52:56 PM
I was just wondering, why it is that someone asks you, so what do you hope to get from the relationship? hmmmm well I dont know but that question just always amazes me for some reason.
6/26/2009 10:59:29 AM
Ok so, heres my thoughts and they could be write and they could be wrong, of course I have been known to be wrong before but I "try" not to let it happen to much. :)

Ok lets see, being a submissive doesnt make us stupid, it makes is have a high desire to learn and please the other person.  Being new doesnt mean its bad either, kind of like that diamond in the rough bit I think. 

If you have an interest and you dont communicate for a couple of days, yes, we start to think the non interest is there and will move on so to speak.  Why do we do that, hmmmmm well it could be because you didnt communicate what you have going on and when you will be back or it could be that if you are doing this now with gaps of a couple days, then will you do that when you are actually involved with us?

So maybe when someone gets interested they should keep the lines of communication open???  Might be worth a try. 
ladyredass
 
 Age: 24
  California