I admit that I am new to the world of BDSM, but I have been having fantasies about it for as long as I can remember.

I am seeking someone who wishes to enter this world with me, one step at a time. I do NOT want a quick one-time fling, a human sex toy, or anything like that, but an honest friendship as a basis for exploring ourselves and each other. I'm not just interested in "play time". Respect is a key word.

I believe it's a neccecity to explore each other with words before any other way. Let's talk things through and ask & answer a load of questions first before anything else.

I'm mainly looking for someone who feels the same way as I do. I'm not just looking for people with experience, who can teach me, but I'm also looking for other newbies so we can share fantasies and navigate this mysterious world together.

I'm not looking for a bride; I already have a sweet, open-minded, intelligent girl. We have an open relationship based on love and respect, with the freedom to explore passions we don't share in other places. So don't expect me to give you all of my heart; it's taken. What I have to give is purely based on friendship and this craving I (and hopefully you) have.

I also wan to learn Japanese. If you see an interesting way for you to help me: let me know. In real life, I teach science, so I can do likewise for you. I can also help you to learn Dutch, if you're interested in that.

If you have any questions, feel free to drop me a line.

Kind regards!