I am a very experienced Dom... and all that. I am looking for a female sub... and all that. I'm actually looking for someone with whom to explore and enjoy some very specific types of play that I have come to specialize in. I expect at least an ongoing friendship on some level with anyone I play with. More than that is possible if the chemistry is right between us, but I won't predict that here. Let's get together based on our shared interests and take it from there.

Medical play, physical examinations, stirrups & speculums, deep probing and prodding, intense breast exams with cupping (suction). Shaving and enemas possible if wanted.

Needle play, play piercing. Can be part of a medical scene or separate. Can lead to the most amazing subspace highs.

Electrical play, violet wand, TENS unit and more sophisticated devices producing a tremendous variety of sensations running the gamut from pleasure to pain, and that intriguing edge right between the two.

I don't need someone to be interested in all of these things, but I would have very little common ground with anyone who isn't interested in at least some of them. I am happy to act as teacher/mentor with couples and other Doms/Dommes who would like to learn more about these techniques. For those concerned with marital status, I am married. My wife is also active in the BDSM scene and we usually play separately in an open relationship.