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I'm Andrew, friends call me AJ despite the fact that my middle name does not start with J. Born in CO, raised in CA, I still prefer the mountains to the beach.
Bullet points!:
- My dog's name is Franklin, unless I'm pissed at him then it's FRANK at the top of my lungs. He's probably cooler than your dog.
- I believe that actions speak louder than words.
- I believe in agreeing to disagree, but that doesn't mean I'll forfeit my opinions.
- I think punctuality is a sign of respect.
- I have one tattoo.
- I read. A lot. I usually have 3-4 books going at once.
- I'm always looking for new music (aQuarius recOrds shout out.)
- Netflix is awesome.
- I read Popular Science and Engadget religiously.
- Anime is cool. Some of it anyway.
- Large crowds and drunk people are definitely my kryptonite. A little buzzed, no problem; falling down, screaming, sloppy drunk, less so. (In the suggested spellings for kryptonite, Firefox includes peritonitis. Not quite.)
- I don't drink but its just a personal choice, I have no problem with anyone else who wants to. The caveat above applies for pot as well. Legality aside, I consider them to be virtually identical, though I'm definitely more open to the smoking then I am drinking.
- I love working with animals. Even though it can be terribly sad sometimes, its the most rewarding job I have ever had.
- I am trustworthy, considerate, and fiercely loyal.
- And despite all this, I am actually fun to be around. Once you get to know me, you will laugh when you're with me. Guaranteed.
- I have a dry/sardonic/morbid sense of humor, but I also love silly plays on words.
- I do my best to laugh as much as possible at as much of life as possible, especially at myself. I took myself very seriously for a very long time. No more.
- I'm so adjective I verb nouns.
Men that look upon my outside, perusing onely my condition, and fortunes, do erre in my altitude; for I am above Atlas his shoulders.
As for what I am looking for as far as kink is concerned, I'm not really the dressing up in leather, going to parades type. If you are more power to you, it's just not me. I don't define myself by my kink, it's just another interest of mine, albeit one that can be a bit tricky to bring up. Basically, I'm looking for a long-term relationship, i.e. someone who shares my non-kinky interests, has a similar sense of humor etc. but who is also interested in exploring what BDSM has to offer. Whether it's a 24/7 TPE relationship or more vanilla with just bedroom bondage, I'm open to either possibility, but monogamy is non-negotiable. I'm coming to define myself as a DaddyDom, despite the apparent stigma this carries in some peoples minds. Submission is a precious gift and should be treated as such. D/s relationships, for me at least, need to founded on mutual respect and friendship, just like vanilla relationships.
Stop, elaborate and listen:
reading: robert anton wilson, thomas pynchon, pd ouspensky, kurt vonnegut, douglas adams, rudy rucker, charles fort
music: slim cessna's auto club, nomeansno, clutch, buke and gass, venetian snares, king crimson, sleigh bells, salem, alva noto, steve reich
movies: pretty much anything with zombies, cheesy mainstream action movies, some pretentious art-house stuff, Monty Python, the alien series, the die hard trilogy
whew, purple prose much. sheesh.
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