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*note: I am not a fan of the chat program in here. That means I will not respond to any chat requests done through here. If you wish to chat, send me an email, and we'll see what we can come up with. I used to have yahoo, but they got stupid so now I am looking for a different chat program, but I will not do anything that depends on a cam. I really do not care about your surprise dick showings.*
I am not inexperienced, but I would like more experience- then again, who does not want more real time experience? So, no.... I do not need anyone to "train me." Thank you, but no. Seriously. Just, no. I have a very active imagination, and a slight evil streak that needs an outlet >wink<. Until I get more real time with a specific sub under my belt, I cannot promise what I will do to... errr... with my sub, only what I am curious about at the moment. And I am curious... S&M (floggers, paddles, canes, clamps, figging, plugs, didloes, zippers, etc. I rather like the impact play side of life), bondage, "light" CBT, and anal explorings (ie: penetration, but for the S&M factor, not your need to get your rocks off). I may also be interested in learning other aspects to see if I like them or not, such as denial, forced orgasms, etc. I may also be willing to entertain the possibility of a female sub toy to torture.
Also, it needs to be clearly said that I am not asking for financial service. What you do with your money is your business. However, I am on a tight budget and there are a few 'toys' I would appreciate some assistance in getting... after a time together, of course.
I also need to state that I am looking for a longer term type relationship. Part-time, but part time over a long time, if that makes sense. It takes time to get to know someone. So no one-nighters. I seem to be getting enough invitations for those as is.

And for those who actually read profiles instead of merely jumping to the end where everyone says "if you have read this far, mention >this<", please mention that you have seen my cleverly hidden middle of the profile message that states it is cleverly hidden >wink<. And now please continue to read. Some rather important details are coming up...

I am 5'6" with long auburn curly hair (sometimes more red, sometimes more brown, all depends on my mood- LOL!), and auburn eyes. I am an extremely busty "voluptuous" woman; ie: very non-annorexic curves are me. I am also very married to a vanilla man who DOES know of my activities, but will never join in. With that in mind, please be sure any significant other in your life also knows about your activities unless you can give me a damned good reason why I should risk your S.O. finding out and coming after me with a 12 gauge.

I wish a sub with a brain and a backbone. A bit of spice is much better than someone who simply lays down for anything and everything I deal out with no comment and no energy. "Willing but almost reluctant" in some things would be ideal, I suppose. At the same time, malleability and desire to serve is needed, too. Nothing like asking for everything, eh? "Sensual" desires are more than fine, and I would like that feel as well, but if all you are wanting is to get laid, you will bore me, so please spare us both that waste of time, if that is your goal. Sex is easy to find, and as I am married, I do not need you for that.
Be fit (meaning no open-heart surgeons on stand-by). Be close to my age: no more than 10 yrs younger or about 5 older, but those are guidelines and not a law (but I am more willing to go younger than I am to go older). Disease free is a must, however. Even without sex, diseases are a danger I do not care to court.
(remember the middle of the profile secret message up above? I changed my mind. Do NOT mention >this<. Instead, tell which is cooler, polylaterals or hexagons, and why. Or don't, but then you destroy any chance you might have had. Seriously... I will- at best- think you are simply a sub who will always refuse to follow orders. what is the point of that?)

Also, bonus points to anyone who has bothered to read this whole mess.

I know I have not filled out the lists to the left there, but that is because I am not comfortable listing what I love, like, tolerate, and am curious about. Since those tend to adjust to who I am with, based on his reactions to things, I prefer to negotiate and rely on my own imagination and desires at the time. I have the basics I wish up above, and I will work from there. For more "specifics", simply ask me specific questions.
(here's a little hint... When you tell me that I have a nice profile, or that you loved reading my profile, did not follow the instructions i left above, and then ask me if I am single and seek a live-in 24/7 slave, I will know you are a liar... Not a good way to start)

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3/9/2018 4:40:28 PM
As some of you know, hubby and I went back into the hospital when he had another small heart attack. He needs a bypass surgery, but then he had another mini stroke, so the surgery has to wait. We are home again, but will be going in again in about 4 weeks. I HOPE nothing happens before then, anyway. 
For the gods' sake, get your A1C levels checked! You do not have to be obese or old to have your body torn up by type 2 Diabetes... 

2/11/2018 1:09:58 PM
The past couple weeks have been a rough one for me. My husband was an undiagnosed diabetic (severe) and ended up having a stroke and a heart attack. Just spent two weeks in the hospital with him, but we are home now. He IS doing so much better than we had any hope for, and looks like he will recover to almost 100% in time. 
So be patient, I'll get to your emails as I can. Thank you.


1/19/2018 4:38:07 PM
Ok... I appreciate all the tons of "I can relocate to you" silliness, but no. If you want to live in Texas, then move to Texas and get a job and THEN talk to me about real time sessions. Everyone and their dog knows that "will relocate" without that simply means "I want you to be financially responsible for me." If you do not like FinDoms, do not try to sucker me into your "finsub" ploy. I will not do it.

12/5/2017 9:04:45 PM
No, I have not dropped off the planet, again. This last weekend I was admitted through the ER into the hospital for emergency gallbladder surgery. Not fun. But, I'm alive, so it could be worse! lol

7/27/2017 9:37:47 AM
People are funny... Why ask a question if you do not really want to know the answer? I will always be truthful, but some do not want truth...
Today's gem: 
"What are you doing right now MIstress Catt?"
me- "Watching crochet videos. There's a neat little blanket I have never made>"
"Huh? Shouldn't you be getting pampered or getting eaten out by you slave?"
me- "No. I am watching a crochet video."
"I don't believe you..."

So advice for the day, do not ask me what I am doing- or do not ask me ANYTHING- without letting me know exactly, word for word, what you want the answer to be. 
That way I know when to ignore you- LOL!

6/26/2017 5:54:38 PM
Guess whose birthday it is next week! That's right, MINE!! 
No, I do not want anything. I just like saying "It's my Birthday!" LOL!


5/27/2017 9:32:37 AM
I do not understand some people.... If I say no, I mean no. I do not mean "harrass me until I change my mind" or "find a way to work around me and my wants" or even "ignore me". I do not care about your dick pics, so stop sending them to me (that includes the one lady with her crotch shots, as well). I know what a penis looks like. Instead, show me that you have character and intelligence. Show me you are fun to know, and that you are not a waste of time. THAT is the way to get my attention.

(p.s.- I am not talking about those with explicit profile pics. Those I can choose to look at or not. Sending me unwanted pictures of your bits in a message? Just stop. If you do not have permission, do not do it)

5/7/2017 3:06:13 PM
Since reading is a lost art for you subs, let me point out that in my previous entry, I said that if you matched ME... I am getting very tired of all you who did not now coming back demanding that I set you up with my friend(s). If you did not match me before, you will not now, and that means you will not learn who my friend is(are).  
So, no. Just... no. 

3/6/2017 9:36:28 AM
For those out there that matched up with me well, but that did need sex in some form to continue, I might be able to consider you again. I have one friend for sure, possibly a second, that would be interested in using you for that service. Nothing more. I am still the Dominant, I am still the one in charge. Getting to be with one of them is also HIGHLY iffy. Probably will never happen at all, so you better be more interested in serving me than in being "loaned out", because you would likely be disappointed. These are just vanilla friends looking for something uncomplicated, and this idea is becoming more complicated by the moment. 
Also, you would have to match not only me, but her tastes, as well. So pictures are a must, now. 


12/26/2016 12:05:57 PM
Ok.... I "think" I have skype set up. We'll see if I like it. I miss yahoo chat... 
And no. I still do not do cam work. I do not care one bit to watch you jack off, nor will I show you my boobs or anything stupid like that. Do not ask. This is for instant chat purposes only. 

7/17/2016 10:21:59 AM
Hello, all. Just wanted to let you know that yes, I am alive. I dropped off grid this time due to an infection on my spine. Serious enough, and fast developing enough that a 3 am ER trip happened, and if you know me well, you know me aversion to such measures so that is an indication as to how bad things got. 
After a forever of healing, being ill, and then not over-doing things while I was "better yet still delicate", I think I am back. July is a busy work month, and I have a LOT of time to catch up on, but I will be checking in a bit more now.
Thank you for your patience, and you know which of you I missed while I was away. Looking forward to getting back in touch!


6/12/2015 8:52:48 AM
I have no idea what is wrong with this site, but I cannot seem to access any of the pages well. I will go to catch up on emails, and I click on one to read, and have to wait several minutes for it to load, then wait several minutes for my response to go out, etc. It is quite annoying, and has been going on for a couple weeks now. No other webpage I visit does that. 
If It keeps up, I might just make a special email address outside of here just for communicating through.... 

3/9/2015 5:17:18 PM
And figging for the win!

11/14/2013 10:09:48 AM

Firstly, my apologies to everyone whom I had been emailing with on a regular basis. Life got rather weird for a while, and I simply did not log into this site, so I am woefully behind on my emails. So behind that I should be locked up for neglect- LOL!

Secondly, no. I am not sick, or injured, or laying in a hospital somewhere in a coma. Nor do I have a steady sub now so was ignoring everyone else. I would never do that latter. I find that behaviour rude. When I find the one that I want, I will NOT go and ignore everyone. 

So again, my apologies. And I will endeavor to do better in logging into here >hugs<

 


5/4/2013 8:07:48 AM

Ok... SO it is Saturday, right? It IS Saturday, yes? Really? My day to lay in bed until late with my pillow over my head pretending that life does not exist? Then why the HELL are there workmen on my roof OVER MY ROOM at 8-f*ckin-am working LOUDLY on my house??!!!!!!! 
The Catt is not pleased.....


11/17/2012 8:02:19 AM

Just to catch everyone up some (ugh... I hate treating this site like a Facebook site, but oh well... I am getting tired of having to go through saying these things over and over. A couple of them hurt too much...)

 

Firstly, yes, the pneumonia is basically healed up. Sick as I was and for as long, the doc said do not fret too much over continuing to fight weakness and such. It might take up to a couple years to get it all back. Yuck, but oh well. I am stubborn enough that it will NOT take me that long- LOL!

 

Second, my grandmother died a few weeks ago. Yes, we were very close.

 

Third, my middle dog had to be put to sleep last week. She apparently had cancer, we did not know, and she started bleeding out inside one night and there was no way she would have survived surgery. 

 

Lastly, and on a happier note, I have a new kitty to play with the now one year old puppy. He is a pure black kitty- NOT what I was looking for, but the personality was too perfect! He is 3.6 pounds, and 8 to 10 weeks old. a pound kitty, so we do not know much about him. We are now debating names here. Trying to stay away from stereotypical ones, however...


10/18/2012 4:06:47 PM

>sigh<

Yes. I do have very long hair. Yes, it is very thick. Yes, it is naturally curly. No, you may not cut it, or trim it, or choose what color you want it to be. No, there is nothing you can say or bribe me with that will change my mind.

Also, changing your profile name and such just so you can try the same tired routine really does not fool anyone.... 


7/25/2012 8:00:17 AM

To all who have been keeping up and asking after my health all this time, thank you! I am actually getting over this pneumonia thing! Yay! Been too dmned sick for too damned long... yuck.

Just a word of advice: If you have a cough that lasts more than one week, do NOT assume that "Surely NOW it is close to being over..." and just go to the doctor. Trust me... Sometimes it does not go away. Instead, it can get worse.

Yuck.


7/17/2012 8:17:33 AM

Hello all! I would like to ask any surgically trans people (of both directions, but especially female to male) to email me if they have time. I have a young female relative who is claiming that she is going to go trans when she grows up, and her mom is trying desperately to figure it all out. I hope to be able to pick some brains and get some insight to maybe help out, ya know?

Not looking to Domme, own, or otherwise play any of these respondants, so no pressure. Just simple chit chat about that particular 'choice' in life.

Thank you!


7/5/2012 9:56:50 AM

Thank you to everyone who wished me a Happy Birthday! I had a nice day!

 


7/4/2012 11:27:16 AM

It's my birthday today!!!! Happy Birthday to ME! Wheee!


6/21/2012 5:35:56 PM

It's getting so close to my birthday! This year, I don't think I'll have a party. Just a relaxing time at my sister's pool and watching movies and getting drunk!

Sounds like a great way to turn 43 to me!


3/3/2012 9:33:44 AM

I have a bit of a pet peave... Subs who claim to have no desires or wants of their own. "Anything you wish, Mistress" as an answer to the question of "what do you seek" is plain out and out b.s.

ALL humans have wants and desires. Trying to pretend that one does not only means that one is just trying to get a Domme into a position where he can try to start topping from the bottom and make Her into what he wants.

Yes, some subs are just too shy to be able to verbalize what it is they want, so they are merely hoping that the Domme will "guess", or something and that they will magically fall into the situation they desire. Speaking as a Domme, that is terribly unfair and disrespectful of me and my time. I list what I seek, and what I am unsure about. You can do the same. If you are completely unsure, do a little research. It is not that hard to separate what is purest fanatsy from what is truly possible.

Just be honest so it can be seen upfront if there is any kind of match or not. If not, no harm done, and no time wasted.


2/24/2012 7:18:05 AM

Looking forward to the next footnight party! Feb 29th at Iniquity. I love meeting and hanging out with all the neat people who go!


11/27/2011 6:17:27 PM

Got a new puppy today! The real kind with fur, a tail and pees on the carpet- LOL! She is 8 weeks old, and so cute!


11/12/2011 9:42:10 AM

Ugh... FINALLY starting to get over this creeping crud b.s.! Now that October is done, maybe I can start finding some time to breathe- and play- again!


10/19/2011 5:26:32 PM

Guess what? Footnight is next Wednesday, Oct 26th! I will be there checking everyone's names at the front desk, and we will have some new tootsies parading about. If foot fetish things strike yer fancy, you might like checking it out... www.footnight.com


4/16/2011 9:00:56 PM

Again... Thank you for wishing to chat with me, but the chat program in here hates my computer, so I will not accept a chat request. Email me, and ask for my yahoo id, and maybe we can chat there.


11/20/2010 10:31:22 AM

It's official! I am a business owner! I have the DBA, the license numbers, the insurances, etc etc etc. Yay for me!


11/11/2010 2:58:50 PM

Okay... okay.... For those who know about the window falling on me Monday, this is for you. For those who do not... well, you can read, too- LOL!

Yes, My kitchen window slipped out of its track with a gust of wind Monday.
Yes, it fell on me.
Yes, I got cut up.
No, it's not serious. In fact, in a couple weeks, there should be no evidence of the whole thing except for the glass I am sure I will STILL be finding in my kitchen.

Anyone know a sure-fire way to find all the shattered glass in a room? Other than walking about barefoot, that is... LOL!


9/10/2010 12:56:50 PM
Well, Halloween is almost here, and that is my big show of the year, so I have to state that I probably will not "play" anytime before Novembner as I do not have a set sub at this time. However, interviewing and meeting for coffee is still possible.

7/2/2010 9:06:53 AM
It's my Birthday in just a couple of days!! Yea me!!!

3/10/2010 11:02:20 AM
What am I after? Good one... Unfortunately, what I wish is a tad "nebulous"... I wish to watch my sub struggle with himself. I wish to have a sub who does not necessarily crave the "actions" I wish to perform, yet will struggle with himself to get past that in order to please me. It is that struggle I wish to watch. I wish to be the Lab master with Her rat in a maze. If having a dildo slowly inserted will make you burn with shame- and at the same time desire- then you might qualify as that rat. Same thing with bondage, and corproal punishment, and CBT, etc etc etc.
Oh! and look up "figging". At my hands, it WILL happen.

2/18/2010 9:30:25 AM
I think I need to make something clear... While I style myself a "switch", I seriously doubt I will ever switch with one person. I am a switch because I can go Domme or sub (although concentrating more on Domme at the moment).
I have seen how switching inside a single pairing can too easily become more of a "keeping score" exercize rather than experiencing the sensations I am here to experience.
In other words, it is so not necessary to apologize to me for not being a switch yourself- LOL! I am more than fine with anyone who is "purely" one or the other >wink<

12/24/2008 4:32:19 PM
Merry Politically Correct Seasonal Greetings, E/everyone!!!

12/11/2007 8:02:01 AM
I just do not know... When someone looks at your profile and does not drop a note your way, does that mean you two are not a match? Or do they come back and look time and time again hoping that you will be the one to start up communications? Let's just clear it up now.... If you wish to chat with me, email me. Otherwise, you might be waiting a bit longer than you would like >wink<.

9/13/2007 8:44:10 AM
Oi! Sorry for the disappearing act, but I accidentally let the magic smoke out of my computer... I am back now, tho, so feel free to let me know how much you missed me >wink<

8/9/2007 8:11:28 PM
Howdy all. I would just like to clarify something: I am looking for a loyal (to me as a Domme, I will not deny you the right to date a nice vanilla girl >wink<) part-time sub. Someone who has a nice vanilla life, but just sometimes needs a little release that a sadistic and devious Domme can provide. So if you are wanting someone to move in with and serve day and night, I'm sorry, but I am not your Lady.

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 Age: 44
 Windsong,, Montana