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***I am involved in a committed relationship with NuevaVida***
Updated... After 5 years, My baby girl and I have succeeded in moving our relationship to the next level.
We are now under one roof, and enjoying our life together in the Sacramento area.
We are looking forward to our new beginnings together, with My baby girl serving, Me, and us loving each other.
MoH
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After a 2016 that sucked, I'm looking to get us back to basics of our BDSM life.
Looking to make new kinky friends and possibly a local (Sacramento area) bi, female play partner. you should be open to being topped by a woman, and switches are welcome as well.
Looking forward to the possibilities.
Happy New Year !
MoH
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Sade Saturday night at the Oracle, Oakland Ca.
What a show, and plenty of eye candy for Me.. and us between shows.
Thank you, baby girl !
XOXO
Daddy |
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Celebrating two years... Was a great reason for a Cigar :)
Happy Anniversary baby girl !
XOXO
MoH |
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It's been a while since I made an entry here, as I have been enjoying My baby girl slave so much.
That being said, I think its time for some reflection, and thoughts of the past year and half.
As things have developed either by My own hand, or naturally (as much has been the case) we have blended into a couple that has defined our D/s as more mental than that of just 'play'. That's not to say that we have not had any play, but our fulfillment REALLY comes from knowing our place, that I am in charge, yet am merciful to her needs, even in the vanilla world. With that has come many a talks about where our mind set is, with explanations, expectations, discussing fears, and to calm old ghostly memories.
Patience has been a major factor in making sure that she understands that this is not just a game and that she would not be tossed aside after use. Building trust is a major ingredient in having a successful BDSM relationship, and that comes with patience. D/s (M/s) is NOT about who has the biggest whip or about total humilitation or beating the submissive down, its about creating your desires in the submissive to be of one mind with the Dom, and there you can find the beauty of D/s that is considered tabboo, but yet is so 'normal'.
A key reason we have been able to sustain this relationship is because we have much in common outside our interest of BDSM, and that has given us the balance that has made this so special.
I recently told her that (directed mostly about the so called 'hot' vanilla women out there) if only those women knew how to submit and treat her Man the way she does, in all ways including domestic that there would be some happy women out there. Thus, that is why those so called 'hot' women would have nothing on her because of her natural submissive beauty.
They would offer Me nothing in the sense of fulfillment.
As we have developed there has been some learning curve struggles on both parts, and discipline has been used, as well as checking Myself to stay consistent, and honest with each other.
For Me its been some very interesting waters to be in a relationship like this where our 'natural' personalities takes over and allows us to be who we are, in being comfortable knowing that I have her whole mind, body and heart, and I am in control of Myself knowing that I have and WANT to be responsible for her well being, and suffering as it were.
When she is a happy baby girl slave, she serves Me better in however I choose to use her. Bottom line !!
In thinking about how she is growing everyday as My 'ying to My Yang', I cannot say anything but good things about how she handle herself around Me.
Moving forward, we will soon create a couples profile and welcome comments, thoughts from others on relationship subjects, or to just making/being friends, etc..
This journey with you My baby girl slave, is one that we will continue to enjoy, develop and create wonderful memories.
XOXO
MoH, aka Daddy |
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Wow !! The journey is going very well, and the mutual desires seem to mesh perfectly.
I am loving this relationship that is being created.
Also to add to the excitement is that I have now relocated back to the East Bay, and I am now closer to My daughter. |
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UPDATE: Currently investing My time on one who has My interest. We have connected on many levels, that I am going to focus My attention on her as My priority. Hopefully this connection will indeed lead to a new life.
Best wishes to all. |
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Well its been a while since I've done this...
So here go's. I received these thoughts today.
"While seeking revenge, dig two graves...
One for yourself".
"Time you enjoyed wasting, was NOT wasted".
The BEST way to predict your future is -
To create it !
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A somber week indeed...
I was not the perfect son growing up, but I am a better Man and father because of you.
R.I.P. Dad.
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Marin County Fair -
Up at 8 am Sunday.
$14.00 dollar admission.
Over 10 hours of walking in the sun and fun with My daughter.
Two great concerts - Los Lobos and Elvin Bishop.
Autographed CD of Los Lobos.
Home at midnight.
Priceless !
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If you think you are submissive in nature and want to embrace the type of communication, manners and respect that make D/s and BDSM relationships flourish, but you can't be bothered to return a respectful e-mail in a reasonable time frame with a polite, thanks for writing but I am not interested, trust Me when I say, your karma will probably catch up to you with the man who does capture your interest. Common courtesy to those who treat you well with a respectful note, should be returned with the same behavior.
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DEATH CAB FOR CUTIE
How I wish you could see the potential,
the potential of you and me.
It's like a book elegantly bound but,
in a language that you can't read.
Just yet.
You gotta spend some time, Love.
You gotta spend some time with me.
And I know that you'll find, love
I will possess your heart.
You gotta spend some time, Love.
You gotta spend some time with me.
And I know that you'll find, love
I will possess your heart.
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You'll be given love
You'll be taken care of
You'll be given love
You have to trust it
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Wishing a sincere Happy Mother's Day to all the mom's (and practicing mom's) here on CM...
May you experience that special moment of appreciation from yours on "your" day.
I also want to add a kind remembrance that "Motherhood is NOT a biological event, but a perpetual behavior". Being a mother is often a un-rewarding task, but you are counted on for unconditional love and nourishment, so always remember the BIG picture.
Thank you. |
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The key to a strong relationship, is taking the time to build a strong foundation...We stand or fall depending on what we have built. |
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YOU DON'T KNOW ME
Eddy Arnold & CIndy Walker
You give your hand to me and then you say hello
And I can hardly speak - my heart is beating so
And anyone can tell you think you know me well
You don't know me.
Now if you don't know the one who longs at you each night
And longs to kiss your lips and longs to hold you tight
You know I am just a friend
That's all I've ever been.
You don't know me.
(refrain)
I never knew the art of making love
'til my heart yearned with love you
If rain and shine let my chance go by
The chance you might have loved me too
You give your hand to me and then you say good-bye.
I watched you walk away beside some lucky guy.
To never, never know the one who loves you so.
'cause you don't know me.
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For clarity..
Docile to Me is a behavior...
- a submissive or slave should always be willing to learn, and be taught to serve, to be obedient at the right time, for the right circumstance.
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I am not a big religious Man, but My last journal entry and this one have some interesting truth's to them.
"Watch ye therefore, for ye know not
when the Master of the House cometh". Mark 13:35 |
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Blessed is the peacemaker, for He can truly be called a child of God. |
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In order to make an informed decision as to whether there is chemistry, we should realize that we are likely never going to find one who can be everything each of us desires at the very start of any relationship. Thus we should understand that we are not so much as settling, but more as learning about each other and working through any differences to see what we each truly desire, which will promote the development of the relationship. |
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A good Dom will try to build up his submissive or slave. A good Dom
will care for his submissive or slave and want the best for her. A
good Dom will offer his guidance in a caring way. A good Dom will lead
by his example and actions. A good Dom will be honest and truthful not
destructive and abusive. A good Dom will provide proper discipline
which is balanced with loving care for his submissive or slave. A good
Dom will have his submissive or slave best interest at all times. A
good Dom will protect his submissive or slave.
A good way to start a D/s or M/s
relationship is to become friends first. The more you get to know about
someone the better. I insist on several meetings in public before
engaging in any form of intimate play.
If you are uncomfortable, simply walk away. Listen to you own thoughts
and feelings. A submissive or slave does not equal a doormat or
pushover for anyone to abuse.
Actions speak louder than words. Attitude is a measure of someone's true character. |
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A song I heard the other night on the drive home that basicly is Me:"Simple Man" by Lynyrd Skynyrd
Another song I heard (a one hit wonder) by the New Radicals rang true: "You get what you give"
A song about remaining true to who you are and not being "a fake". So very true.
Lastly, this one sounded very interesting.
You don't know what love is
You do as you're told
Just as a child at ten might act
But you're far too old
You're not hopeless or helpless
And I hate to sound cold
But you don't know what love is...
You just do as you're told
I can see your man
Cant help but win
Any problems that may arise
But in his mind there can be no sin
If you never criticize
You just keep on repeating
All those empty "I love you's"
Until you say you deserve better
I'm gonna lay right into you
You don't know what love is
You just do as you're told
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"To be completely woman, you need a Master....and in Him, someone you can look up to and respect....a compass for your life. If you dethrone Him, it is no wonder you are discontented. And discontented women are not loved for very long."
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| Age: 31 |
| Bothell,
Washington |
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