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Straight Male, 49, 6'3" 190#s, short dark hair, blue eyes. Located in Northeast Ohio. Professional, Masters level education, with my own small business. I've been active in the lifestyle for 12 years. I've owned a number of slaves/subs, one slave for 5.5 years, others for 1-2 years. I never switch or bottom.
I was married to my wife for 18 years before she was too vanilla for me. I have two kids on a part time basis.
I am poly and open to slaves, subs, switches and newbies for dungeon play or more. I need a connection before anything more than casual play in a public dungeon happens. I like teaching and training newbies as well as playing with veterans. You do not however, have to fit a certain slot or definition. Everyone is on their own journey.
I've been called an Evil Sadistic Bastard and at times I am. I don't do brats. I don't like to use physical pain as a punishment. It's either as a reward or just because I want to. I am very edgey, sometimes sensual, always sexual, and always just me.
My tastes are very eclectic. There isn't much I haven't tried or don't like. Rope, Whips, Bondage, Suspension, Fire, Electric, Medical, Needles, Impact, Resistance, Anal, Fisting, Face Slapping, Punching and much much more -- it's all good.
You can often find me doing Fire Play at Ohio SMART as well as in Pittsburgh or Columbus at various Kinky gatherings. I am often a guest at the local Swing Club and have set as many as 30 swingers on fire in a night. I also do Fire Flogging if the venue and weather co-operate. Time permitting, I'm always open to sacrificing a few new virgins to the Fire Gods!
I don't look or act my age. I own a crotch rocket because I'm not old enough or fat enough to own a Harley. I like to snowmobile in the winter and I ride it like a 500 lb. motocross bike, rather than a volvo going 25 mph down a side street. I've gone 170 mph down the front straight at Pocono Raceway. In otherwords I like speed!!!
I enjoy travel. I've traveled to 44 of the 50 states, Canada, the Caribbean, France, Portugal, Monaco, and Israel. I'd go back to any of them again. Austrailia is really high on my list of future destinations.
I'm just as comfortable being on the go, as I am at home watching TIVO while crushing your nipple. I like the Cleveland Teams, swimming, hot tubs, sex, massages (getting), movies, board and card games, playing or watching most sports, Nascar and much more.
I have my life in order. Do you? I'm not looking to fix someone else's life for them. You have to master your own life before you can Master someone else's. Likewise as a sub/slave you have to have control of your life, before you can give that control to someone else.
I have more experience than many, but less than some. I'm always learning more.
Who are you? What do you seek?
Tom
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I ran Ohio SMART in Cleveland for 5.5 years before stepping down. I teach classes around the country on Fire Play, Rope and more.
I have been doing Fire Flogging for the last 4 years.
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