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Pan Male Dominant, 54,  Massachusetts
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I try to be upfront from get go so First off I just turned 54 so definitely not a physical god bit of a belly from yrs of beer etc, but I am working on it. I am about 5 ft 5 240 muscular still tats and long hair ex military/biker guy.
I am a blue collar guy not materialistic when comes to processions except my slaves (wink)
I am a guy that loves to scene even at home but not everyday, sometimes want to just cuddle watch movies etc, & with the knowledge that at the drop of a hat I can change the whole day.
I am NOT a hung guy very average cut cock But will make sure that now and then my slaves get that SUPER HUNG cock, but she must be loyal to Master's collar and remember any use I allow anyone else of my property is just sex.

I have 3 limits: Scat play just nasty
Medical & Blood unsafe to life and health if someone has no experience
Kids of course
I am old fashion DOM I found this life when it was more than just kinky sex it was about commitment honor and respect for each other and representing a Dominant always 100%. Example when W/we go to an event you will dress to impress revealing sexy that make Dom's and Domme's Mouth water, you would walk slightly to my left, and slightly behind. Every and anytime I stop to speak with someone I know you will kneel your knees Directly in line with Master's heels, head lowered, hands behind the back and remain silent unless spoken too.
I live by what I call TnT's slave Modes:

Full Slave: means I make all decisions even if and when you use the bathroom eat drink etc.
Relaxed Slave: means you have more freedoms to a point you should still be respectful of your Master and collar, you
can make some chocies on own like wanting a drink but be respectful enough to say something Like ""Master your slave is gonna get a drink does Master need something?"""

Free Mode: these are days your more like just a vanilla Girlfriend.

I allow a slave 3 Hard limits and 1 soft limit the soft she must be willing to try before saying she can not do it(and not just one try)
if she swears she can not then she can request it to be a hard limit BUT she has to move a previously hard to soft.

I share my property with men and women even small groups when it pleases me I expect her to live up to her commitment at ALL times. Now I understand your not gonna answer Master questions say in Walmart ""yes My Master"" but a yes Sir would do.

Example of keeping your commitment from my past.
For my dads birthday many years back Myself a female slave I owned and some friends took my dad to a real nice restaurant for dinner some drinks etc. When the waitress came to take the dinner order, my slave desired a long island ice tea but right in public she tapped my shoulder and said ""my I get a long island tea Sir"" blew my dads mind cause he has no idea about our lifestyle but our friends who also were both subs understood.

BUT MY Strongest BELIEF is that it has to be pleasurable and agreeable to both parties the Dom and the sub.
I am seeking those that live this lifestyle cause deep inside is a desire to serve to please and a knowledge that the vanilla life is not in the cards for them.

Age is not as important as the commitment and desire to find something real and long term building to a dedicated relationship.











 Dominant Male


 5' 5"

 240 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 You wearing my collar

 Placing you on a leash

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control




 Horseback Riding


 Anal Play

 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship


 Breast Play


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Hair Pulling



 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing

 Spanking you

 You wearing stockings


 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard



 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping











 Canes and Crops




 Being Massaged


 Masks on Partner


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Sensory Play

 Speech Restrictions


 Wax Play



 Amusement Parks

 Flea Markets

 Musical Theater







 Corner Time

 Massage (Giving)

 Sensation Play

 Curious About:

 Fine Dining


 Martial Arts

 Scuba Diving



 Electrical Play

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play


 Suspension Bondage





 Art Galleries

 Skate Boarding

 Surf Boarding

 Clothing Selection


 Going to the Opera

 Renaissance Faires


 Hard Limits:


 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism


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Journal Entries:
1/25/2018 4:45:02 AM
I have said it before and kinda let it drop cause to be honest.....just have not allowed Myself act in My normal ways.........See normally the protector, mentor old guard, or maybe some may even say just the old man in me would normally when seeing  someone has suffered a loss or a injury I reach out and just extend thoughts some may even say prayers just let that person know People understand and some can even just be someone you chat with to ease or forget for a few.......BUT TIME and time again here on this site that simple not looking to own or anything email gets """"DELETED UNREAD"""". Profile never view so the person is _______ let you fill in the blank with your words.

As said just stopped being who I am more or less kept to people I consider friends, or that reach out to Me, but today something about one profile hit me in a way not many have lately, a sub looking for a Mistress but her words kinda showed a hesitation as to if this is really the lifestyle for her so I reached out knowing I am not of course a Domme and even stated in first few sentences yes I know you seek a Mistress and I am male but, and then just tried to give her a little uplifting and courage to at least honestly chat with any woman that does reach out.

LO AND BEHOLD yep you guessed it DELETED UNREAD.....back in my early days My Mentor would have punished his sub for being so disrespectful not only that on the human side it is just in my words wrong.......and the truth of the matter now that I think about it she maybe right this lifestyle is not for her. I know there are more Old Timers like myself out there that remember back in the days protocals, respect honor the back bone of the'd go to as event and a well trained sub could in the most beautiful way perform a service of drinks to their Owner and His or Her friends. SOMEHOW someway we need to get that back or the lifestyle W/we all loved will be lost to being nothing more than physical interactions no meaning to the Collars and Master/Mistresses Code Decree or the pledge of a true submissive. 

11/30/2017 3:39:54 PM
SO Been a while since I put anything in this part of My profile but this was just to good to let others see.........I work third shift so mostly check my emails at night well today I find this in my email (ALL I CAN FIGURE IS SOMEONE DOES NOT EITHER KNOW HOW TO READ OR JUST DOES NOT READ before emailing)



11/30/17 1:24 PM  
  Hello I am Goddess Scarlett . I am looking for a sub who wants to serve Me, are you willing to serve Me? and I am looking for devoted and obedient slave who is fit enough and ready to serve and to be humiliated as my slave. If you are a vanilla, i am willing to train and open your world in the BDSM lifestyle. You can email me at gmail at or on hangouts,

9/13/2017 5:38:48 PM
Okay seriously now?????

What is it with all these so called subs and mostly female subs or slaves claiming they are still living with thier Master or Mistress, but they wish to release them to a new Owner once their contract is paid off or they are sent money for releasing them and then of course i need money to relocate to you my new Owner....................................................

Can W/we all say SCAM----------Look I had a woman submit to me several years back she was from the entire other coast of Our country we were together for almost 4 yrs when due to family issues back home made it nessecary for her to return to Washington,,,,IT WAS MY duty and responsibility as her Master to get her where she needed to be.......PERIOD!

That is Old School ways of this lifestyle when Honor and respect were the backbone of the life, so anyone that has anything about my owner is willing to sell me out of my service to them CAN just pass by My profile without even contacting me.

8/12/2017 10:42:22 AM
OKAY now I am having issues with the dam web site so far I have counted 48 times I have done the sites dam Captcha Verification BS and today the site has required it again of me at least 10 times tried to email a few today and even after the verification check the emails never go out THANK YOU admin personal of collarspace another fine job NOT. so if anyone I was able to at least send friends request too wish to correspond and learn more about TnT you can see if you  have better luck sending out messages maybe we can connect that way

8/4/2017 2:53:53 AM
ARE W/we actually suppose to take these BS profiles that the admin is letting get by??????

I am a slave that is currently collared but my Master/Mistress is definitely willing to allow me to be bought out.....................................Scammer written all over it I hope that not too many have fallen into the black hole of such a profile

7/3/2017 5:47:54 AM
Maybe it is as they say crying over spilled milk BUT wanna know what PISSES this Dom off?

Answer having a emailed Message to a submissive or even a fellow Dominant DELETED UNREAD seriously to this Dom that found the lifestyle way back in the early 80's when the very back bone of the lifestyle was founded on TWO VERY IMPORTANT words those being Honor and Respect........

What is Honorable or Respectable about deleting a message or even a friend request UNREAD and not having the guts or courtesy of sending back a message after reading what was sent to you and saying, "thank you Sir for the email or the request but after reading your words or looking over your profile i see no real connection or even common interests."

That is how it would have been handled back in the old days when this lifestyle was more than just some pretty or handsome young ppl looking to show off thier bodies or play games online for thier personal pleasures Dam I miss the Old days when a collar ment more than just some piece of jewelry to be put on and taken off like a velcro strap.
Or when even if you did not agree with someone you made your point or view with respect for the other persons feeling thoughts even if you did not like that person.

How can W/we all get back to those days before it all became about the physical side of life or the personal needs to show off, or to try to always be the one thats right.

Okay SOAP BOX rant over feel free to tell Me what you think on this subject if you wish

6/23/2017 2:34:31 AM
Wow SERIOUSLY????????

Sent an message to a young lady here and told her that I enjoyed her words on her profile and was intrigued with her.
Response was:::::::::::::: Can I meet requirements for her to come to me
I had a feeliing but decided to ask anyway so sent back Requirements?

This is what I got back:::::
I am with a Mistress right now, you 'will' need to pay her five hundred dollars for my release so that I may go to your home for a  lifetime service.

Dam I miss the days when I first found this lifestyle when a commitment was one of honor respect not just kinky sex or a way to try to get money from ppl,,,,Are those days gone forever?

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