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DoMeSlowlySir
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This profile is private information. I do not consent to it's being used without my consent in any way shape or form.
I am a dominant male, tall, strong, very smart, retired military officer. I am seeking a submissive woman. I've had one master slave relationship. It was my best relationship. I broke if off because I could not trust her. I see now that the failing was in me, I should have done more to build her trust and taken it as a challenge to take someone who was a pathological liar and make her into the best that she could be. Unfortunately that has passed. I am looking forward to finding someone new. I'm not into polyamorous relationships--not that it doesn't have a certain appeal. I'd like to try a three way with two women, someday, but the reality is I have only time for one woman, and my life is complicated enough--no need to be greedy.
I am basically an easy going person, but I'm at my best in a crisis. I've been commended for being the only cool head in a crisis. I am unflappable in a stressful situation. I am protective of the weak, defiant against injustice, intolerant of the stupid, and kind to most. I like to get things done, make things happen. I'm a do'er, and sometimes that comes across as cold. If you saw me with my dog, you would know I am a kind soul. An update, I am not 57 and 230 lbs. I gained a year and lost some weight as Oct 2013.
Sexually, I am a dominant male. I appreciate it when a sub woman can help me with whatever I'm doing, and prefers to be with me, and an active part of my life--not someone who seeks to draw me in other directions, or who wants control. I lean towards being a Master, but cannot claim much experience in that area. I like to paddle a woman who is slow to obey for fun and in role playing, or if necessary for discipline. I have not been active in any local groups. If you are the sort that thinks this is essential to being a good master, then I'd be happy to discipline you and it won't be pleasant. I like subs but find submissives are less interesting than slaves. A sub is really not surrendering control to her master. I tell you what to do, and you do it, instantly without argument.
My trip as a Master was a mutual decision with my partner. I told her I felt like going in that direction and she readily agreed. Fireworks exploded after that. It was the best relationship of my life. It became clear that this brought sex and our relationship to a fever pitch. Once there, I can never be satisfied with anything less.
I need a D/S or better a M/s, or O/p relationship. Nothing else works for me. A woman that does not submit becomes a turn off and I lose interest. Women need one thing. They want to know their man will be there for her, and are willing to give a man what he needs.
M/s relationships are strong because each partner gets their needs fulfilled. The trouble arises because such a relationship does not occur overnight and in my experience the woman can be overly dependent and unspoken expections get violated.
As a military officer, I am used to giving orders and seeing them obeyed promptly. Promptly means right now. It is part of who I am to accomplish much. I lead well, and yet I need a follower, who can also offer suggestions. I will listen if it makes sense. You can be part of the process. What is important is success and progress. Stand in my way and i will push you aside. Help and you will be part of the team. A good sub or slave looks after my(our) interests and is an intimate form of partnership. A good leader listens and takes in ideas from everywhere to be a good decision maker. Do I listen? Yes. Then I decide, not you.
Nor am I cruel or petty. I simply like to be in charge and not have to worry about arguments". I like to use a bit of force if necessary. Hair pulling, slaps, and I love to use my riding crop. I'm interested in using all sorts of restraints. I'm good with rope and want to expand on that.
I've decided to take my pictures down for privacy reasons.
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I am not married. I am a dominant male. And I appreciate education. I have a masters degree and nearly two of those. And monogamous also. So those are the basics. I'm living in Connecticut. I am very smart, top 1% according to MENSA. I like to plan for the future and can't do that with an argumentative partner. I don't make stupid decisions. I need a partner that can recognize that I am the boss, that I do a good job of it and that we both benefit from that. Aside from that, being Dominant and Masterful, is a turn on for me, so it also means great sex. A woman that is dominant is a turn off for most men. |
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| Age: 24 |
| Lansing,
Michigan |
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