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If yr looking at my profile thank you I do own a slave and we are looking to add to our family if interested get back to me lets chat and get to know one another .
What is a Daddy Dom
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
Just what is a Daddy Dom? Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dom. He chooses the subcategory of “Daddy” within the lifestyle of dominance and submission (D/s). Let’s get one thing out of the way right at the beginning. A Daddy Dom does not promote incest or pedophilia as the kink may be misunderstood by ignorant people. Rather, in this specific subcategory, the dynamic is set up for the male dominant to be called “Daddy”, and the female submissive (sub) to be called “girl”, “little girl”, or “babygirl”, etc. Rarely is she called “daughter”, as this evokes too many parallels to incest, which Daddies and their girls detest. And while some Doms and some subs may have been victims of family violence, incest, or other abuse, Daddy Doms and their girls are not overrepresented in these categories any more than the general population.
The following are some of the fundamental characteristics, and indeed needs, that all Daddy dominants seem to share universally:
Her Number One Fan, the Daddy usually believes in his girl more than she herself does, and often uses the wisdom of his age to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become. A Daddy’s eyes light up when his girl enters the room. He is proud of her and praises her for not just for what she accomplishes, but for what she attempts, and for who she is. He accepts her for who she is, flaws and all. And he knows all her flaws because he is also her
ultimate Confidant, allowing her to bare her soul to him beyond all others. She may have many different relationships and types of friends in her life. But Daddy will be her “umbrella confidant”. The one with whom she can talk about absolutely anything and trust that what she tells Daddy stays with Daddy. He is the one from whom she withholds nothing. The one who doesn’t mind if she needs to call and talk at 3am.
He is the Protector of his girl against real or perceived threats, dangers, and bad people. Sometimes a little girl just needs to curl up in Daddy’s arms and smile at some of his bluster, and sometimes the Daddy may have to act on his protective instincts. Pity the person who messes with a Daddy’s girl.
Her Teacher and mentor shows her new things that come from a longer and possibly wider set of life experiences. Daddy likes to take his girl to places she has never been, feed her foods she has never eaten, and do activities she has never enjoyed before. He is never so happy as when he can look in her eyes and know he has given her something she has never had before. This also translates into sexual adventurism for some Daddy/girl couples. He symbolically deflowers her on a regular basis, whether that be sexual or just in exposure to new life adventures.
He wants to be her Guide and advisor. As the girl makes her way in the world, Daddy wants to be there to answer her questions, calm her fears, make her insecurities go away, and give her sound advice based on his years of experience.
Anchor. The Daddy dom is an unyielding, unmovable anchor in the storm. No matter what happens in the girl’s life, she knows her Daddy will be right there where he has always been, and she can hold onto that even if she is blinded by her own tears. Daddies know the storm will pass, and she will be safe, but she needs something to hold onto that will not move.
Disciplinarian. When the girl acts badly, she expects to be disciplined or punished for the infraction. Most Daddy dominants find it occasionally difficult to keep this up, especially as the affection for their girl grows. They would love nothing more than to spoil their girls, but they realize this is the path to ruin. One a girl begins to believe she can manipulate Daddy, she no longer sees him as her dominant, unyielding anchor. A girl needs the stability and protection of a man who is more dominant than she is. To demonstrate that characteristic, Daddies must sometimes be excessively strict and rigid, more so than they would in normal relationships. The act of disciplining the girl may be used as part of a sadomasochistic activity.
In addition to these practically mandatory characteristics, some couples add their own sadism and masochism to the mix, and may use the concept of the wolf or lion and little lamb to describe the way in which the Daddy simultaneously protects his little girl from the world, and yet wants to dominate and devour her sexually. As a sadist, he may create the very tears that he will later kiss away. Sounds sweet, and yet terrifying, if you are not accustomed to the world of sadomasochism in which these participants operate. But to a Daddy and his girl who are into BDSM, this is the most perfect of scenarios they can imagine to act out their fetish.
Daddies come in many flavors, just as their girls do. Some Daddies may have polyamorous girls who have male and female lovers, and Daddy may be that one person outside the polyamory “family” who does not judge her. A Daddy and his girl might not have a sexual relationship at all. Since this is typically a D/s construct, there is usually a sexual component, but as can be seen from the above list of characteristics, sex is not the largest factor or the motivating force in this type of relationship. A Daddy may have more than one girl, may be married and have a girl, too, or may have other types of combinations. But it is rare for a girl to have more than one Daddy.
It is said that “a Top is for tonight, a Dominant is for as long as she is submissive, a Master is there until she is no longer a slave, but a Daddy is forever”. Daddy may have to give his girl away to a husband. He may eventually run out of things to teach his little girl. She may ultimately not need his sage advice and his experience any more. Hopefully he will be too old by then to have to deal with it, because when there is nothing left to teach, no need for a confidant, no discipline needing to be meted out, when his little girl no longer needs her Daddy, that’s when he will die inside. The need that Daddy has for his girl is every bit as potent as the need she has for her Daddy.
A Daddy usually knows he is one. He doesn’t have to be convinced of it, or taught how to be a Daddy. He may only need to have his innate Daddy characteristics pointed out to him. It might happen in the throes of a sexual activity when she exclaims “Daddy” for the first time, and the light goes on. Similarly, the little girl usually knows she needs a Daddy without having to be taught how to be his little girl. Once they identify themselves as Daddy / Little Girl, the draw is more powerful than many other forms of attraction, because it is rooted in deep-seated and old emotions that may not have any other outlet.
Girls in this lifestyle do not act like little girls in their normal work lives. They do not bring teddy bears to work. Indeed many are older women who are very assertive and successful in the business world, but need this special place to get nurturing and comfort lacking in their careers. A Daddy might not necessarily act parental or fatherly in his normal work life either. For some it may be role playing, for some it is a secret lifestyle, and other couples delight in the joys of unabashedly practicing the Daddy/girl dynamic in public. In any case, it evokes deep-seated needs and emotions for both parties, and is a very powerful dynamic.
While some of these characteristics could easily be applied to any good male-female relationship, there are some that require something quite different than the “50/50 partnership” that is so often touted as the most healthy. This is not 50/50. This is a Dominant/submissive relationship, and all the characteristics should be viewed through the lens of D/s.
And while many of the characteristics could also be easily applied to any good D/s or Master/slave relationship, there are some characteristics that are decided different. Not all Masters consider themselves their slave’s number one fan or her umbrella confidant. Teacher, guide, and anchor are not necessarily roles that a Master is required to adopt.
This is nowhere near a complete treatise on Daddy/girl relationships. It does not address the possibility that parent-child ego states (Transactional Analysis) are the preferred communication mode. It does not address the “play space” created by the Daddy for the girl to enjoy feeling “little”, or many other aspects that make D/g different from other D/s, M/s and similar dynamics. But this deion of Daddy Dom characteristics will hopefully be useful as a baseline explanation of what makes a Daddy tick.
-Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived or died of cancer-
As the Master to my sub/slave I know that she gives herself to me in mind, body, soul and spirit and does so of her own volition. In me she has placed confidence, reliance, faith, hope, and dependence. I will endeavor to ensure my sub/slave’s needs and desires are learned, and her limits are respected at all times. I understand that the gift of submission is priceless and will cherish it always. Through my actions I will demonstrate that I am in complete control of myself thus allowing me impress upon my sub/slave the need to relinquish any control she may subconsciously retain in order to facilitate our erotic power exchange. I accept responsibility for all aspects of my sub/slave's life, ensuring that each decision I make in her regard is the best for her body, spirit and soul. Never will I place my sub/slave in jeopardy, nor will I compromise the trust she has placed in me. In order to bring my sub/slave to new heights and understanding, I will work to achieve a vast knowledge of all aspects of the lifestyle, thus allowing me to be the teacher that she so richly deserves. I will honor, defend and guard my sub/slave at all times showing that my love for her will provide a safe harbor in times of adversity. In times of distress and hardship, I will shed the role of Master and provide for my sub/slave, a supportive partner and confidante. While often unrelenting and strict, bringing my sub/slave to tears, I will always kiss away the tears that are shed showing my sub/slave that while stern, my heart belongs to her. I vow never to lift a hand to my sub/slave in anger. When punishment is needed it shall always delivered with a tender and discerning hand and for a valid reason. I pledge to my sub/slave, patience and understanding, tolerance and steadfastness allowing us to grow and nurture the bond we have established so that it may withstand the test of time. Above all else, I will wear the title of Master with great honor.
When a submissive needs her Master protections , it doesn't make her weak but in fact makes her very strong , she lets go of the illusions that the world had been forcing on her mind and how she should never give such power to any person because it will make her weak . She let go of all that and seeks the place where she feels safe the most , where her mind put its guards down and lets go of the fears that haunted her , she found in her Master embrace what she been lacking of her whole life ... the satisfaction of feeling the strongest and at the same moment you expose your weakness within his arms. the simple laying down of her head to his chest and listening to his heartbeats that tells her that no matter how hard the life can be , how deep the problems can get , how fragile she may feel , how disappointed she is.. He will always be there to catch her fall and protect her against everything and everyone that wishes to put her down or ruin the amazing submissive she became and she believes him because she saw how much he guided , disciplined , loved , cared , held her tight and kept his faith on her when everyone else gave up on her. Don't feel it is a bad thing to show your Master how much you need his embrace and protection because you will be amazed how much he want to be your protector and your rock when the world crumble. to feel safe and protected by your Master is not one side emotion because he need that faith you show in him and within it he also feel strong and pleased . anyone may use whips and floggers for many reasons but when you are held tight and protected against any harm and your well being is preserved as a submissive and human being is where Domination truly shine
A submissive's Bill of Rights
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You have the right to be treated with respect. Not only do you have this right, you have the right to demand it. Being submissive does not make you a doormat or less of a person than anyone else. The word "submissive" describes your nature and in no way diminishes you as a human being. You have the right to respect yourself as well.
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You have the right to be proud of what you are. Being a submissive is nothing that should ever bring you shame or feelings of reproach. Your submissive nature is a gift and should always be a source of pride and happiness.
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You have the right to feel safe. Being a submissive should not make you feel afraid, insecure or threatened. Submission is not about living on the edge or flirting with fear. In any situation you should feel safe or there can never be true surrender.
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You have the right to your emotions and feelings. Your emotions and feelings come from you and they are just as valid as anyone else's. You have a right to them. Those feelings, whether positive or negative, make you who you are and suppressing them will only bring unhappiness later.
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You have the right to express your negative feelings. Being submissive does not make you an object that no longer has negative thoughts or concerns.Your concerns are real and you have every right to express them. If something doesn't feel right, bothers you, makes you feel bad or you just plain don't like something, say so. Failing to express your negative feelings could give the mistaken impression that you are pleased or satisfied with something that is not pleasurable or agreeable.
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You have the right to say NO. Being submissive does not take away your right to have dislikes or negative feelings about things. If something is happening or about to happen that you feel strongly opposed to, it's your duty to speak up. Remember, failing to communicate the word NO is the same as saying YES.
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You have the right to expect happiness in life. Being submissive is not tantamount to being miserable, suffering or a life of despair. Your submission should bring you joy, peace and fulfillment. If it doesn't, then something is wrong.
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You have the right to have input in a relationship. You are an active partner in any relationship you enter and have every right to contribute to it. You are submissive, not passive. A relationship that doesn't include your needs, thoughts, hopes and desires is not one you should be in to begin with. This applies to friendships, partnerships and D/s relationships.
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You have the right to belong. Being submissive greatly involves the feeling of belonging. Many submissives have expressed that it was in discovering their submissive nature that they felt as through they "belonged" for the first time in their lives. You belong to the lifestyle and will eventually belong to the One. It's in that relationship you should find the final fulfillment of "belonging" at last.
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You have the right to be loved and to love. Anyone who tells you that love doesn't fit into a D/s relationship has never experienced the fulfillment of all it truly can be. Submissives are by nature loving and needing of love and have every right to expect this to be a part of their lives. It takes love to bring your submission into full bloom, so don't settle for less.
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You have the right to be healthy. Health involves your physical, mental and emotional well-being. Any relationship, D/s or otherwise, that causes you to suffer physically, mentally or emotionally, beyond your limits, is abuse. There is no place for abusive behavior in a D/s relationship and it's up to you to make sure those lines are not crossed. Being a submissive does not give anyone the right to harm or injure you in any way. The D/s community will stand behind you if you should encounter such a situation but you are the one who has to make them aware before they can help.
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You have the right to practice safe sex. Not only is this a right, it's a duty to yourself and others you may come into contact with at a later date. Sexually transmitted diseases have reached epidemic proportions and must be a concern to any sexually active person. Safe Sex is something you have the right to insist upon and protecting yourself should never be discouraged by anyone who really has your best interests at heart.
--Author Unknown
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50 REASONS TO SPANK YR SUB/SLAVE
The lovemaking afterward is often sensational
Romantic spanking opens lines of communications
There’s a community of spankos to provide support and advice
Adult spanking is the most common of all kinks
It can strengthen your relationship
Just picture those beautiful globes over your lap...
She's eager for this, really!
Compared to childbirth, the pain of a spanking is trivial
This is not punishment, think instead about spanking as foreplay
Spanking builds trust between partners
It's really OK to hit a woman, but only if she enjoys it
This isn't weird or unusual, it's just another kind of sex
You can be the strong, decisive man of her fantasies
What's not to like?
Do the initials B. J. hold any significance?
Many couples include erotic spanking in their lovemaking
Her dream can be your pleasure
It's something fun you can do together
You could make it a game
Spankings can relax her
If you don’t believe me, ask any other dedicated spanko
Role play spankings are great fun
If something doesn’t work, you don’t have to repeat it
It isn’t about the pain, it’s about a shared experience
This opens an exciting new chapter in your relationship
Spankings promote greater physical and emotional intimacy
Your willingness to try demonstrates your love for her
It's wonderful to feel completely in love again
With a safeword, she can tell you before things go truly wrong
She's your lover - It's OK if your fingers wander southward
The process of experimentation allows a couple to grow together
It’s with you she wants to share this secret
Spankings don’t have to be serious – You can laugh and joke
Most women’s bottoms are well padded - real damage is unlikely
Consensual spanking is not abuse
Spanking is a huge turn-on for her – That can only be good for you!
She won’t think that you’re mean if you’re doing as she asked
You could get her to dress up for her spanking
With a few simple rules, adult spankings are safe and fun
Women are tougher than you think
You can be her hero!
You'll love how her skin grows warm and pink
Hugs and kisses
It’s wonderful to spoon after a spanking
Make her smile – tease her about future spankings
You can start small and simple
She'll adore you all the more for listening to her needs
Haven't you always wanted to threaten to "tan her hide?"
It’s fun to collect and test various spanking implements
If she didn't agree, she wouldn't have shown you this list |
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Fun Facts
| Average Depth of a Vagina: between 3 to 6 inches.Largest Vagina: the female blue whale with a normal length of 6 to 8 feet.Largest Human Vagina: belonged to a woman who was 7'8" tall.Smallest Vagina: 2 or 3 centimeters - surgery is required for correction.Longest Clitoris: recorded at 4½ inches long and 1½ inches diameter.Longest Labia Minora: some African tribes enlarge their labia to 7 inches in length.Largest Buttocks: Hottentot tribe have buttocks that each can be two or three feet.Largest Breasts: 44-pounds breasts measuring 33 inches in circumference.Most Breasts: In 1886 a french woman was recorded with ten individual breasts.Most Orgasms: 134 in one hour for a woman - 16 for a man.Longest Recorded Orgasm: 43-seconds with 25 consecutive contractions.Longest Recorded Pubic Hair: 28" (71.12 cm) long..What Do Doctors Know! According The Solitary Vice, a book for doctors that came out in the 1890s, women who masturbate tend to eat a lot of foods containing mustard and vinegar. ..Bad Middle Ages! Women were discouraged from having orgasms during the Middle Ages because it was thought that orgasms made women less capable of getting pregnant. .Inventors Corner! The modern IUD invented was invented in 1909. .What About The Cucumber? .According to the Hite Report, candles are the artificial device used more frequently by women when masturbating. .Depends On Who You Ask?According to Kinsey Report (1953), 15 percent of the female population was capable of multiple orgasms. .It's A Fact! The vagina and the eye are self-cleaning organs. .More Reasons To Own A Vibrator!Having an orgasm relieves menstrual cramps because the vigorous muscle action moves blood and other fluids away from congested organs..Blame It On Ben! "Scrump" is archaic slang for "the sexual act." Ben Franklin referred to prostitutes as "scrumpets." .G-e-e-e-! The G-spot is named for Dr. Ernest Grafenberg. .Who Knew?The modern psychiatric definition of nymphomaniac is a woman who cannot experience sexual satisfaction regardless of the number of orgasms or partners she has. .What's In A Name?According to one source, there are about 1,000 recognized slang words for "vagina." .8 out of 10 Can't Be Wrong!In a recent survey of women who use vibrators for sexual relief, 8 out 10 stated they do not insert the vibrator inside them, they use it on the outsideof the clitoris to achieve orgasm. .Not Tonight! A female orgasm is a powerful painkiller (because of the release of endorphins), so headaches are in fact a bad excuse not to have sex.. |
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I JUST LOVE THIS SONG
This right here is what a good Dom can do to a sub!
The only aphrodisiac I need is your voice
Hearing you speak my name
Beckoning me to answer
Telling me you want me
So I tell you that you're the answer to every question I've ever had about love
Without words I use my tongue to tell the tale of us
Tracing your shadowscape
Kneeling before you my eyes feast upon your masculinity and
All its divinity and I praise you
Because all of that is for me
I begin to indulge myself of your delicacies
Digesting semi-sweet dark chocolate decadence as it melts
Dripping down my chin
Your taste is something Godiva couldn't re-create
Needing every atom of your anatomy
Necessity is placed upon me knowing you are the source of my serendipity
Dipping in and out of me stroking more than my consciesness
Subconsciously I find myself rewinding our love scenes
In my daydreams
Seeing that face you make when you're making me cum
And it makes me want you right there and then
Thinking of you in inappropriate places I get
Tingling sensations in private locations where I wish to be caught between a rock and your hard place
As wetness develops my legs begin to open and my spot turns to a backdraft and all I want you to do is extinguish it
You know my body like the back of your hands
And touch me and send me into ecstacy
My thighs quiver in anticipation of deep penetration which gets me high
Body rising
Sweating
Panting
Make-up melting
Pulling my hair and
Scratching my back
I get a temporary case of tourettes because all I can say are four letter words in a four octave-range screaming your name
Aye papi.... *English Translation of Spanish Lyrics* "You are so big and so hard, you give it to me so good, you are my mortal sin."
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
I see your tongue pink between your lips and I want it between mine
And I struggle
As you lick torturing me
I try to get away but
Not really
Running out of room begging for more up against the wall that has been scuffed by my stilletos
Again
You pry apart my thighs and tell me to be still
And I willingly submit to you because I love the way you dominate me
Demanding that I cum for you so I do as I'm told
You've molded me so I'm good to no-one else but you
You've conquered this once orgasmicless world and multiplied it
Again and
Again
My face radiates with after-glow
My pillow scented by you
A fragrance which haunts me
My room smells of the best sex
Covered in body prints and finger prints and you above me
Your name written indelibly upon my body in your genetic history
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
You fucking me makes me bilingual
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VIRGO: The Virgin
Dominant in relationships. Sexy. Someone loves them right now. Freak in bed. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Intellectual. Attractive. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Hard to forget. Love at first sight. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. The one and only. Ultimate sexiness.
SCORPIO: The Sex Addict
Can be mean. EXTREMELY sexy. Intelligent. Energetic. Predict future. Most erotic. (Freak in bed.) (GREAT kisser.) Always get what they want. Sexy. Attractive. Easy going. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. The sexiest ever.... Romantic. Caring.
LIBRA: The Lame Lover
Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique sexiness. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in Bed!!! Did I say Amazing in Bed? Not the kind of person you wanna FUCK with... you might end up crying... the most irresistible.
ARIES: The Liar
Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to FUCK with. Erotic. Funny. Take you on trips to the moon in bed. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY sexy. Loves being in long relationships. Addictive. Loud. Best in bed.
AQUARIUS: Does It In the Water
Trustworthy. Sexy. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being in long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out. Amazing in bed, THE BEST LOVERS - BETTER THAN EVERYONE!
GEMINI: Does Twosomes
Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good in bed. Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you the FUCK out. Trustworthy. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. ULTRA SEXY. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE.
LEO: The Lion in Bed
Great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at. Great kisser. Unpredictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found.
CANCER: The Cutie
MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high SEX appeal. Great in bed!!! Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak in bed. Spontaneous. Great at telling stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to.
PISCES: The Piece of Ass
Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. Too Sexy, DAMN IT. Very high sex appeal. Has the last word. The best to find, hardest to keep. Fun to be around. Freak in the sheets. Extremely weird but in a good way. Super good in bed. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. A partner for life. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet.
CAPRICORN: The Passionate Lover
Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Predict future. Irresistible, awesome kisser. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. BY FAR the BEST in BED. Very sexy. Coolest. Loves to own Geminis in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Loves to be your first. So you'll nevebaforget. Smart.
TAURUS: The Tramp
Aggressive. Freak in bed. Rare to find! Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Sexy as hell. Loves to help people in times of need. Outstanding kisser. Very funny. Awesome personality. Stubborn. Sexual as ......... Most caring person you will ever meet! One of a kind. Not one to FUCK with. Are the most sexiest people on earth!
SAGITTARIUS: The Sexy One
Spontaneous. Horny. Freak in Bed. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. The one. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique sexiness. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in Bed..!!! Did I say Amazing in Bed? Not the kind of person you wanna FIGHT with - you might end up crying..
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CANCER: The Cutie
MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high SEX appeal. Great in bed!!! Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak in bed. Spontaneous. Great at telling stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to.
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A Dominant's Prayer
Author: Grifter © Sept 1998
used with permission
To the power more powerful then myself,
I was born in a way that has sometimes left me mystified
Always reaching to guide those about me
Needing to know that they are fulfilled before true fulfillment
reaches
in to caress my soul
I have compromised, in many cases, to allow another to
be fulfilled
Wondering all the while how it is that they can not see
me first, as I
see them
I have found myself pushing away all, in denial of my
need to always
consider another first
Needing to be the one to consider others more needy then
myself
The world about me thinks that
that giving completely is reserved for those
who submit
That serving another is not for the "strong"
How could "they" be so wrong
I love that I am the one who can be turned to
The one to solve a problem
The one to set the direction
The Top
The Dominant
Please help me to remain focussed on this need to walk
to the front
To always stop when a searching soul reaches out for a
hand up
To always be strong enough to pause when all is
insanity
To always surge forward when all has stalled
And to give all of me to becoming ALL
Please help me to know when the hand I extend needs to
be soft
When it needs to be harsh
When it is needed to wipe a tear or crush a fear
When it is needed for punishment
And when all that is needed is a hug
Please let my nature push through the world about me
that questions
I am a Dom
I can be no other
Let me be ALL that is right
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A Pledge To My Submissive
Author: TautLine © 1999
used with permission
I stand in front of you,
My eyes, full of compassion and care, looking down on your kneeling form.
you have offered yourself to Me, your mind, your body,
your emotions, and your soul, and for those I pledge you this.
I shall cherish you not only as My submissive, but as
the woman you are, warm, intelligent, caring, and sensitive.
I shall never intentionally harm you, and although I
know, I am not perfect, I shall try to act wisely in all things.
If I err, I shall rectify My error and I shall apologize
to you.
I shall continually strive to guide you and teach you
to help you and support you, as you make the difficult decisions, which
precede growth.
I will be patient, as you grow, knowing that all thiings
take time and change often does not come easily. But even in My
patience, I shall continually push you forward and not allow you to
fall backwards. If in anything you do fall, I shall be there to
catch you, hold you, comfort you, and then place you back on track.
If I ever lose My temper, I shall step back from that
situation until I regain control, then deal with what has occurred.
I will not act irrationally or hastily, you shall always have the opportunity
to explain what has happened, before I decide what must be done, then
My actions will always be based on correcting you, not punishing you.
I shall edify and build you up, always encouraging you
and never belittling you, as a submissive or woman. I will also
build trust, being open and honest with you.
I shall always communicate with you, even when it may
not be easy for Me, showing both My strengths and weaknesses.
you shall never fear from Me, for I shall never forget your humanity
and shall always honor the gift you have given Me.
I will never lord My dominance over you. you are
submissive, I am dominant, two sides of the same coin, one by itself
is worthless.
I will treasure you, knowing without you, I have no more
than an unfulfilled desire.
Finally, My love, I pledge I shall love and cherish you,
you are Mine, but I am no less yours.
With that W/we B/both have what W/we have always sought,
E/each O/other
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IThe
BDSM emblem has no "obvious" symbolism because it was created
to be enigmatic. To the vanilla observer who would be put off by BDSM,
it is merely an attractive piece of jewelry. Thus, we can wear it freely
as a friendly salute, nod, and wink to other BDSMers we should happen
to pass on the sidewalks and in the hallways of our daily lives.
To the insider, however, the Emblem is full of meaning.
The three divisions represent the various threesomes of BDSM. First
of all, the three divisions of BDSM itself: B&D, D&S, and S&M.
Secondly, the three-way creed of BDSM behavior: Safe, Sane, and Consensual.
Thirdly, the three divisions of our community: Tops, Bottoms, and Switches.
It is this third symbolism that gives meaning to the holes in each
unit. Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest
a love style, the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual
within the BDSM context. However "together" and "whole"
individuals may be, there remains a void within them that can only be
filled by a complimentary other. BDSM cannot be done alone.
The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is
not accidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the
hazy border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved
borders here represent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S,
and S&M.
The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains
or irons of BDSM servitude/ownership. The three inner fields are black,
representing a celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM sexuality.
The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of
a lash as it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic spanking.
The all-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity
of it all and the oneness of a community that protects its own.
The BDSM Emblem is copyright 1995 by Quagmyr@aol.com who maintains
the copyright in order to protect the symbol. It is freely available
for all educational and non-commercial use within the BDSM community
without charge |
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LOVE
What is love ? I know for me love is a feeling, a sense, a emotion. When their is love in a relationship it don't need to be said it can be felt ,or should be felt. Is this not what we are all looking for to feel that feeling of being wanted needed caired for. I know as far as I am concerned that is what I am looking for. In our life style and correct me if I am wrong (But then again this is how I see it ) The Dom is the back bone the strong one The one that makes the decisions He is the one that says what goes on he runs the show . Sub /Slave is the one that cares for his needs , stands behind him in every thing (even if she don't think its right) lives life to make his a better one . she is their to take care of him and he is their to take care of her as well .
I( am rambling on and forgot where I was going) Dam I hate when I do that.
Any ways love is a bond and if applied correctly will out last and thing in this world. any ways I am lost I am tired and well I will probably delete this come morning |
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I think its time to add something into my journal. I have just been thinking and I would like to add a bit more about me. Lets see where do I start?
I am not not a 24/7 hard ass Dom, I am the type of Dom that has a soft romantic side to him, Lets face it if you where to be with some one that is mean a rough all the time it would just be mean. I am not looking for that not with a 24/7 type Sub. Their has to be good times as well as bad their has to be a balance some where ,would you agree?
I have talked to a bunch of Subs so far and I am finding out that a lot of Dom's are ASSHOLES more then their are good Dom's. Well let me rest assure I am not one of the Assholes I am kind hearted (when the time is right) I like to be romantic (when the time is right ) But I can also be strict when it is called for.
I am learning a lot from a lot of people on this sight am I would like to thank all of you for the input you have given me and when I find the right one I know she will fit right in and we will have as close to perfect life as we could. So if yr out their and like what you have read and would like to chat send me a line and lets see what happens. |
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I read this some place and this all makes sense to me and if you agree you know what to do. This here is what I am looking for
Ten Principles to me of submission
- submitting, submitting ones complete existence, completely letting go of complete control and putting my life in my Owners control and hands. To me this means no reluctance or hesitation and if i have any questions to be sure ask my questions respectfully and at an appropriate time. To follow my Masters lead and know that He is bending O/our lives to His Will building them as He pleases and desires, knowing He will take me places i was destined to experience with Him and for Him.
- learning, being a slave is a constant learning process, always learning, changing, growing, refining, polishing, all under Masters control to teach me to be pleasing to Him. Teaching me how to be worthy of being His, as His Honor is to be worshipped and respected. Feeding and fucking my mind like no One ever could. To teach me a world beyond being slave, to teach me to be His slave. Testing me, pushing me, being hard on me, to reshape me so i may learn to be worthy to kneel at His feet.
- willingness, one has to be willing to have an open mind so that it may be filled with His Knowledge and Wisdom, willing to trust her very life in this Mans hands, willing to submit her entire existence to Him, to exist only for her Master, without her Master, does she truly exist if He is her reason and purpose, her very destiny being to serve Him. Willing to learn, change, understand and grow.
- servitude, serving Master is more than sexual and doing the dishes. Servitude runs much deeper, down to the very essence of ones soul. Servitude can be sexual, i am here to be used as Master pleases in this i feel complete and this is a special gift for me to be the one to serve Him. My Master is on my mind constantly, every choice i make out of His presence i think of the repercussions of my choices, asking myself what would Master tell me to do, or would Master be proud, or will Master be pleased? it is important i have a great eye for detail; it is the little things that He will be hardest on me, to push me and teach me. Servitude is done with grace, elegance, style, Master would have nothing less.
- honesty, i must always be honest with Master, what i need, how willing i am, what my limits are, things in my life. in being honest trust is maintained. Master is an honorable Man and if i have done wrong or slacked somewhere, i must be honest and face my discipline or punishment. Deceit or trying to cover my ass is unacceptable and grounds for abandonment and release, and this is harder work for Master, as not only is He displeased, i will have then dishonored and disrespected Him, i have shown lack of trust to come to Him, and i have failed the only reason i exist….i have failed Master but also He now has to address my deceit then my wrong. i will always be honest even if the truth isn’t something i am proud of or if i know there will be consequences. i am honest at all cost, i can then have pride in knowing no matter how dark or ugly the truth is, i can know i have kept my honor and word, that i was honest. slaves have pride and honor to maintain too, but Masters always comes first. Owned slaves pride and honor is their Masters property.
- Discipline, slaves have to be strong, committed, devoted, enthusiastic, hard-working, for a True Dominant is going to be hard on her and expect her to follow through. They need to have strong mental discipline as they will be expected to remember things and not need to be told twice. Some of the Lifestyles most beautiful experiences are very ritualistic behavior; patterns are set, from thought to emotion, to physical actions. i am very focused and dedicated to being better for the One i serve. The Lifestyle is a learning and growing process, one must have self discipline to learn. Then there is Masters Discipline, this is to change my way of thinking so that i have a higher understanding on how to be pleasing and worthy to Him, all is to mold me even physical discipline is a mindset to teach me.
- intellect, i must be smart and feed my mind with Knowledge, the One i will serve is Greatness and will expect me to keep His interest. He desires a mind worth controlling, allowing me thoughts and expecting me to express them at the appropriate times so that He can better mold me and refine me, always to be done respectfully. Masters Dominate, it is what and who they are, they are the smartest and strongest of Men, True Masters are filled with Wisdom, my Master will expect me to think quick on my feet and will challenge my mind to feed me His Wisdom and to show me a higher understanding. He will educate me and expects me to have the discipline to educate myself too.
- trust, i must have compete trust and faith in Master and His Will, i must trust Him so i may turn my life over to Him to own and know that i am safe and protected under His control. i must trust His word and not hesitate or question, but know in my soul to do it as directed and instructed because it is what is best for me so that i am a better woman, a better slave and learn to be more pleasing. Accepting Masters Word is law, it is His way, and it is my place to follow His Lead. Master must be able to trust me as well, knowing i am honest, and loyal, that He is my world, my universe, without Him there is nothing, with Him there is everything, He is everything. By living up to Masters expectations to the best of my ability, always giving my all and serving with passion, Master will see my desire to please and serve Him.
- Strength, a slave is not weak, she walks with the strongest of O/our kind, she too must be strong and able to endure, as she will be pushed hard mentally, emotionally, and physically. When she over comes one challenge another will come, sometimes she will have to face multiple challenges at once, she must be strong enough to face the endurance her Master expects her to have on all levels. She will have to be strong enough to face herself or perhaps what dark thoughts lurk in her mind and heart. All of her will be trained and reformed, i must be strong to face all challenges be it in body, mind, heart or soul. i must be strong to face those that don’t understand the Lifestyle and society, strong enough to set a good example to others especially subs new to the Lifestyle to let what it is really about live on and to please Master. i must have the strength to over come pain on all levels as well as shame on all levels so that i can be my raw form for Master to twist as He desires.
- Love, this can be a hard one, it requires a lot of work to maintain balance and harmony and grows from the other principles mentioned. it also includes respect, anyone can tell You a Dominant is to be respected, but few realize a slave earns her little piece of respect gracefully too. her limits need to be respected, and if she is found worthy of serving such Greatness and Power, she must be one hell of a woman, one of strength, endurance, discipline, honor, and intellect, strong enough to even defeat herself to truly submit to such a Man with all her existence and to keep His interest and to please Him. Some ask how can they make one they love suffer, they could never be in love with their property…i disagree, i ask…how can You make one You suffer You aren’t in love with and keep dear to Your heart? How can You invest so much time and hard work into one that You aren’t even in love with? i feel i suffer for Master because i love Him, He forces me to suffer because He loves me. He Leads me because He is in love with me and wants the best for me…the best for me is Him, so He teaches me how to please Him and be worthy of the honor to kneel at His feet, to be Owned by Him. My Master is my everything, everything i do is out of my love for Him, this makes me a true slave to Him, as the chain of Love is a strong bond. i need Master to be capable of falling in love with me too, to love me for what and who i am as i grow in His Dominance. Sadomasochism….ahhhhh such a beautiful word, meant to be one word, for if You have a Sadist with no pain slut, what good is the skill of His touch, and if You have a masochist, with no One to make her feel alive, what good is her existence, but in Sadomasochism both are whole and complete. i need to be filled with His Light and Love as i shine from His Light, and love Him so much that i worship Him and give Him all of me. To bring love into a D/s relationship is not for the weak, only the best can do this with success, truly becoming O/one, leaving all to admire such perfection, perfection created by Master. i did not number these, because i don’t believe any one of them is a higher priority than another, i feel it is the perfect blend of all combined in the Power of the Dominants Will. in the harmony of all combined, i am truly free in His Control as i am free to be what and who i am, free to fulfill my purpose, free to take my place at His feet, free from the cold empty shallow place i find in the vanilla world, it is not a place for one like me, free to learn and grow, most of all free to truly exist.
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| Age: 25 |
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