| I believe, there are two ends to the spectrum of experiences that abound in the world of D/s. Each end, as well... the middle, to be enjoyed, explored and savored. It matters not where you place yourself. A sub, whose gift is sincere, by any other name... is still a rose.|
On the left end of the spectrum, within the domain of the witty and practiced Dominator... stands the submissive whose true essence... is that of the spirited fawn. The ultimate goal of their intricate dance, always... capture, subdue... recapture... next... and then, move on...
Near the middle... the demure submissive and her partner(s)... the occasional Master, yet most often the heavy weight Dom. Between them... exclusivity may prevail, the depth of the submission be profound, the feelings intense... instinctual, focused, primal and real. The "bond" however, seems to take seed and mostly develops within the reaches and amongst the ripples, of personal Dom/sub space.
It is at the far end of the rightmost corner of this spectrum that I believe is home to the "defined" slave. It is her pursuit, her adventure, her intense need to give everything... the mind, the body, heart and soul. To truly be "owned" ... to be Mastered... to submit not just all that she has, but all that she is. It is to perfect and become what she and her Master desire... the ultimate in the giving of oneself, that defines this corner of the spectrum. It is here where discipline does not equal punishment, and punishment is no longer defined by pain.
No longer does she ask the question... What is the essence of what I desire? Is it the total submission or the struggle for control and the ultimate overpowering of will? The challenge... the battle... or the victory? A slave knows the answer, it comes from within... it is the transfer of all... into the hands of her Master.
She is an adventurer in the most profound of human ways..
I am a single Dom living in south Orange county. I am an educated business professional. Not new to the life style. Been in D/s life style for over 20 years. I am seeking to train submissives and slaves in Orange county in a safe environment.
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