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	I am a dark, contemplative, brooding yet spontaneous,intelligent and fun loving Master with 19 + yrs rl experience. That being said, I am not here to indulge your selfish kinks, nor am I here so satiate your need for instant gratification.I am tantric, which means I DO NOT DO BOOTY CALLS OR QUICKIES! You'll not find Me at all the usual places and I am very fond of My privacy. I am enigmatic and somewhat empathic, I wield a whip to develop trust and interelationship dynamics that 99% of the population in collarme have proven they simply cannott/will not understand. A cool collection of toys does not a Master make! Just because someone puts bread in a toaster does not mean they are a chef! If this metaphor escapes you, you're wasting your time reading My profile! One has to have genuinely mastered something before they can call themselves a Master I am here but for one reason. To posses what, from the start, was already Mine. Do NOT step to Me if you're not prepared to submit. I am not even the slightest bit concerned about your personal opinion of what this lifestyle means to you, unless I ask. The majority of the "subs and slaves" on this site and many others, are only playing a role to satiate themselves... the exact opposite of a sub or slave. The one's that are for real, know they are for real. The ones that aren't usually, know they are not simply come up with excuses why its not their fault they are frustrated. Listen ladies... the truth will set you free.Don't pretend, because that, in and of itself, is going to land you with meeting egomaniacs with inferiority complexes.They lurk like vultures and prey upon the niave. you want reality?... choose genuine Doms... not the "My mommy didn't love me Doms" that think their collection of toys automatically endows them with the mantle.I assume responsibilty for the prosperity of My property... I don't allow them "sub drop". I don't suffer idiocy for even a second. be honest and I'll train you... pretend you're something you're not and watch how fast I unravel you and leave you vulnerable and embarrassed. That said... have a wonderful experience and be and stay safe!

12/8/2015 6:22:40 AM

One word... Shibari!

6/25/2014 5:42:13 AM

I see a lot of "Master_so-in-so" in cllarme/space so I wanted to take some time to address specifically what the differences between being a Top, A Dominant and Master are as they relate to real life.

A "Top":
The term "Top" refers to a preference when sceneing/ or engaged in intimacy that isn't nessecarily intended to infer something meaningful (although it can). the Top is the opposite of a bottom, It knows no gender and simple means that the Top is in charge of the progression of intimacy whether it be BDSM or not is irrelevant.

A "Dominant or Domme" This is more of an identification of lifestyle choice rather than just a sexual preference. A Dom identifies that in their life, they are more likely to prosper and self actualize when they are in charge of a situation.
By way of example; a Dominant won't do well as a mere employee of a company, there has to be at least the appearance or promise of a supervisory role for them to prosper. So you see.. a Top doesn't have be a Dominant but a Dominant is automatically a Top.
In The D/s lifestyle, there are many faces to being a Dominant such as a Mental Dom or a Daddy Dom, even a Hypno Dom or Psycho- Dom (referring to psychological not to mental stability). These simply represent the way the Dom prefers to express their dynamic when interacting within the context of their relationships.

A "Master or Mistress":

A Master is first and foremost a Master of himself. Being a genuine Master requires a lot of self inventory and the title should not be used wiliie nillie. A Master of kung fu for example, is in an almost constant state of self reflection.
In the context of a D/s relationship dynamic. A Master sees his slave as a piece of property yes but what many don't see or fail to realize before they endow themselves with the title errantly is that A REAL Master takes on every single responsibility that would otherwise distract their charge from focusing soley on them.
A Master shoulders all of his/her charges' responsibilities, decisions and personal growth so that she can revel in his/her attention at all times. A Master does this unconditionally because his/her own affairs are exemplary and his/her slave trusts him/her implicitly.
So if you aren't prospering your property by means of personal growth... you're not a Master
If you are not handling their finances succesfully, you're not a Master
If you aren't making 100% of their decisions, you're not a Master
If your own personal growth is lacking, you're not a Master
If your personal finances aren't in order, you're not a Master
If your decision making skills aren't beyond reproach, you're not a Master
If your property doesn't trust everything about you 100% of the time, you're at the very least, not their Master

I realize that the internet is a virtual world and that many of the people here are trying on something they can't actualize in real life and for many it's just role play... just be aware that role play is not D/s! The kink side of D/s is an expression of trust that requires a responsibility on the part of both participants. Just because you put on a Batman suit here, doesn't mean you are, in fact, Batman.

10/15/2013 6:24:47 AM

I don't get on here much these days but I'm still sorta looking.

8/13/2013 2:29:16 AM

So I've now moved to Arizona and for as much disdain as I had for the Midwest, I must admit, it had a much livelier lifestyle scene. As I listen to the pins drop and contemplate the song of the crickets here, I can't help but wonder what this void of sub/slaves here might do to My standards. Will I choose a less exquisite piece of property simply because the choices are so few? Will I be more eager to embrace one simply because the correspondence was there? Will I go to great expense to relocate one from far abroad?

If only anias ninn would materialize from thin air prone before me.. sigh

12/22/2012 4:05:35 PM

subs, slaves... really? I know this is collarme and ya get what ya pay for... but just how much of a slave are you when you start your introduction with "I want" "I wish" or "I think". I get that you all want to establish limits and choriegraph just exactly what it is you're looking for but let's face it... "I want" is just about as vanilla as it gets. I personally don't give a flying fat ass rat's fat ass what you want. The only thing that peaks My attention after 21+ years training and owning and losing and learning (btw.. there's no such thing as Dom who knows everything) is willingness to serve, and that starts with humility... humility, by it's very definition, is putting the needs of others before your own... so.. if "you want", simply put; you're not.. submissive

3/28/2012 6:55:49 AM

Looks like I'm very likely to be moving to Sedona Arizona

11/29/2011 11:29:48 AM

Occasionally I get asked if I am looking... the answer is a bit less cut and dry than a simple "yes" or "no". In My motley set of experiences in the lifestyle, "looking" can potentially be problematic. I find that "looking" sets forth requisite expectations; expectations that can potentially equate to disappointments. In a general sense, I suppose that I do have My eyes peeled for someone that shows potential relative to My tastes and preferences. But that certainly doesn't mean I spend hours at a time browsing profiles and hoping against all odds that there is a match there somewhere. I'm just as likely to have the perfect slave materialize from thin air, already bound and gagged and prone before Me as I am to find a needle in this haystack.

So then... why am I here? Well... for the same reason some of U/us might look at real estate ads when there really isn't an opportunity before U/us to make that sort of investment; or maybe look at a desert menu when W/we are on a diet...

Now... what are My preferences (if I were to indulge them)?

OK... glad you asked.

Probably a gal that was younger than Me with a limited set of experiences (old dog, new tricks theory) but then again I find not having to vest Myself into training to be a valuable asset too so maybe an older girl with a wealth of training is the ticket.

I'd love a swimwear model with gams of the godz. But maybe a homely girl that knew how to appreciate attention and wasn't high maintainence would fill the bill better.

I'd be stoked with a gal that was demure and pliable, but maybe a gal that was outspoken and spontaneous would be more engaging.

get the idea? Openmindedness is My mantra at this late stage in the game (I'm 40 something). Setting My expectations aside has yielded some wonderful friendships along the way. Maybe one day I'll actually wear My heart on My sleeve and make a full blown effort to bring another gal into the fold, but for now I'm keeping My expectations at bay and letting the cards fall where they may... if she's out there... she'll show up. If not, I'm gonna have to stalk her down and stripe her fanny hard!

4/8/2010 5:27:25 AM

Look... I could care less about your "limits" and any list of things you are looking for in a relationship. I look at them, but only to see what W/we might in common. I prefer what I call the "pre internet approach" where two people who enjoyed each O/other's company took the time to discover one another's appetites and since no 2 relationships are the same, I'm not about to "standardize" My expectations and dwell in the realm of checklists and disappointments. Been a Dom for quite a long time and choriographed introductions sap the spontaneity out of anything potentially genuine. Besides... any statement from a girl that begins with "i want" is gonna be a red flag to a Dom anyway. (at least a real one lol). If you feel compelled to set up a lengthy checklist of what you want/like, bear in mind that the longer that list is, the better the odds you will be disappointed. Its when you open your heart and let down your guard and show that you aren't afraid to be raw and vulnerable... That's when the real Doms raise an eye to ya and take notice.No genuine submissive heart with more than a weeks experience is gonna put up a profile layin all their sexual desires out to bear cuz it just shows their own self centeredness and selfishness.If this doesn't make My intentions clear then I suggest you leave collarme, expand your toy collection and browse porn... because you're not a sub anyway.

10/21/2009 4:34:28 PM