I am a successful Business man.
I am 6ft, 64, Dominant Master ,who is seeks a slave who knows where he stands.
I am an Old School Master.
- My Slave will have access to me 24/7 this will help my slave understand what there responabilites are, and will allow them ask questions, I am one of the few masters who allows this.
- Slave must be able to define to me what it means to be a slave and to serve.
- Slaves will be collared, and there feeding and medical and clothing will be cared for by me.
- I do not put up with foul mouth or any disrespectful mouth, punishment is serve for that.
a slave may not touch anything used to punish, discipline, or restrain it unless ordered to
if a slave is not able to execute an order, it will immediately prostrate itself for punishment
a slave may not sit or lie on any furniture except for the performance of its duties
a slave may not lean against walls, furniture or other objects except for the performance of its duties
a slave may not lie down except in prostration awaiting discipline or for bedtime
a slave will execute all commands immediately without hesitation or question
a slave may not tell a lie
a slave may not use profane language at any time
a slave may not touch its genitals, nipples or ass unless specifically ordered to, or for cleaning purposes as required by its Master
a slave must always be naked in any Master's household, unless specifically instructed otherwise
a slave will keep its body clean and available for its Master's use 24 hours a day
a slave will use the word 'SIR' only once per statement as in 'It is 3:00, SIR'
a slave will address its own Master as 'Master' or 'Sir', but will address any other Master only as 'Sir'
a slave speaks only on command, but may speak to ask a question or request permission to use the restroom, etc.
Rules for a Successful slave
I will serve, obey and please my Master.
I am nothing more than an object of small value - an instrument Master will use to draw out His pleasures.
I will ask my Master for permission to satisfy whatever need I have before acting on it.
My body and mind are the property of my Master.
I must always give thanks to my Master for all I am given immediately after receiving what He has given me, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to me by Him.
I have no will of my own other than that which falls within the context of the rules I have selected and of that which is needed to pursue the ambitions I am allowed to seek out as according to the permissions I have received from my Master. I will report to Him my progress in such matters to receive His favor or His guidance in making whatever steps may be required to move ahead so that I am successful.
I am always in submission to my Master whether He is present or not, ready to please Him at any time, in any place, under any circumstances, regardless of who may be present. For the opportunity to submit and to please is by far more important and satisfying than any other pursuit. I trust my Master will keep me safe, protecting His reputation and mine in the presence of others, as He examines my ability to present myself to Him and to others in a subtle manner when required to protect our lifestyle from those who may not understand, nor support, as long as our behavior is not in any way misrepresented nor misinterpreted by those who may be afar. I am to set, once again, a good example, ready to explain my position to others when required to do so. my lifestyle is a part of a growing culture for which I must never forget that I am an integral part.
When I am not in the presence of my Master and I have choices to make - I will perform them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance He has allowed me.
my eyes must be cast down in the presence of my Master unless I am given permission to do so otherwise. I am to focus on my behavior, waiting to act appropriately and without hesitation when directed to do so by Him.
my 'place' is on my knees before my Master, for it is a privilege and honor to be His slave.
I choose willingly to be treated as my Master's property
I must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Master. Failure to receive properly asked for permission and I will endure punishment
I must confess to my Master when I have been naughty so that He may decide if such violations require me to be disciplined or to be punished. I must accept whatever decisions He makes by thanking Him for His choice - if He allows it before or shortly thereafter, specifying as to why I will be or have been disciplined or punished. I must focus upon how sorry I am for not behaving in the way in which I have been taught - for I have brought defilement upon myself and to Him an unacceptable act which is displeasing to Him.
I realize Master may own more than one slave, if He so chooses, and that I, unless allowed by Him, may never be able to have another Master other than Him, accept by His choosing to further my training. I trust Master will take whatever precautions are necessary to keep the slaves He chooses to own sexually healthy and to provide whatever measures are necessary to protect us from the eruptions and ravages of any jealously which may try to corrupt the relationships our Master has allowed between each of us - including the one we each have with Him.
if I am required to be my Master's toilet, into or onto which He chooses to release the watery juices of His cock, I shall position myself to receive His personal waters by kneeling for Him, tilting my head back, opening my mouth wide, and closing my eyes so that He will delight in the display and offering of my body and of one of my orifices for Him choose upon which one to use. I shall remain still as He releases Himself, swallowing what I can of the waters He allows me. I shall play with myself during the release, as is instructed by Him, so that I am permitted to sexualize the experience as much as possible for His pleasure, thanking Him afterwards for allowing me the opportunity to honor Him in this most private way.
I shall gladly make my body available to my Master to be used as furniture: my body positioned to decorate a room or a garden, a footstool to rest his weary feet and legs upon, my backside as a His table to eat off of, my palms to be used to hold a plate of His food, or my hands to hold a book open for Him to read or a lamp to for Him to see.
Privacy is a privilege - even to have it when I need to use the bathroom. I must ask for it and accept my Master's decision even when I am denied of it.
As a domestic slave I shall perform chores about my Master's house, and those of others He allows, acting in a sexual and enticing manner in all that I do.
If I am sent to another Master to serve - I will serve that Master well, as if He were my Master, for I want my Master to receive a good report after I have been returned to Him.
I will not date others or form a relationship with others without permission and approval from my Master. If I should have sex with others I will have it safely and will always tell my Master in detail what I have done so that no part of me is a secret and that I am laid bare for his inspection and approval.
Attitudes and Attributes
The slave shall display the following authorized slave attitudes and attributes at all times:
Humility Submission Obedience Eagerness to Obey Speed in Carrying Out Orders Competence in Carrying Out Orders Success in Completely Carrying Out Orders Servility Slavish Loyalty Slavish Devotion Gratitude towards its Master Love for its Master Worship for its Master
The slave shall immediately, eagerly and without question carry out all commands and orders given to it without exception.
The slave shall fully and successfully carry out all such commands and orders, complying completely with both the letter and spirit of every command.
The slave is strictly forbidden to make any mistakes whatsoever in carrying out its Master's orders and commands.
The slave must carry out all orders and commands completely within the time allotted for carrying them out.
The slave shall show its Master the utmost gratitude for the privilege of carrying out His orders and commands, offering Him formal thanks whenever permitted to do so.
The slave shall immediately report to its Master upon the complete carrying out of any order or command, except when to do so would bother or irritate Him.
The slave shall humbly and quietly await further orders when it has fully completed one order or command and has reported back to its Master.
The slave shall be prepared at all times to have all completed orders, tasks and assignments fully and minutely inspected to see that every detail has been carried out according to instruction.
Any failure on the part of the slave to fully, completely and perfectly carry out its assigned orders shall be considered a serious and punishable offense.
The slave’s General Rules
The slave will always show his Master the highest level of respect.
The slave will never lie to his Master.
The slave will never piss standing up. A slave is subservient to his Master and should not be so presumptuous as to imitate his Master. The Master pisses standing up, His slave does not. The slave will always sit on a toilet or squat down to piss. This will help serve as a reminder of who and what he is. The slave will not use the seat of a toilet. The slave will sit on the cold porcelain when he shits or pisses. The Master uses the seat and the slave's ass is not worthy of touching what He has used.
The slave shall address the Master as 'Sir' or 'Master' at all times unless given permission to do otherwise, and shall address the Master with respect at all times. When using formal address, the slave will refer to the Master as 'the Master' or 'He', and to itself as 'the slave' or 'it'. When using familiar address, the slave will refer to the Master as 'Sir' or 'You', and to itself as 'I' or 'me'. When speaking to others, the slave will refer to the Master as 'my Master’, and to itself as 'I' and 'me'.
The slave shall, at all times, respectfully request permission to take any action not expressly directed by the Master. A reason must be given for such actions at the time of the request.
The slave is to use the Master's space with utmost respect and shall always leave any area he is permitted to use in a state of order and cleanliness. Notwithstanding, the slave shall not disturb any of Master's personal belongings without express permission.
The slave will never wear underwear, except as the Master directs. It is an article of unnecessary clothing. If the slave works on the outside and must wear something, it will be a jockstrap. The slave will never touch its cock, balls, asshole, or tits without the Master's permission. They are for His enjoyment only, not the slave's.
The slave will have no privacy from his Master. There is nothing that the slave will not reveal to Him. The slave is the Master's property and, as such, He has the right to know everything.
The slave will sleep at the foot of the Master's bed or in a cage as the Master requires.
The slave will only sleep in the Master's bed when ordered to do so.
At home, the slave will not sit on any furniture unless instructed to do so. The slave will kneel, lay, or sit on the floor as ordered.
The Master will train the slave and the slave will always do his best to follow instructions. The slave will learn how to serve his Master's every need and desire.
The slave will never embarrass his Master for fear of being severely punished.
The slave will always strive to extend his limits to new heights so the Master can be increasingly proud of His property.
The slave will willingly accept punishment from the Master. It is meant to remind the slave of how he is to behave and perform his duties to Him.
The slave will offer his body and mind to the Master at any time He desires to use it. The purpose of how He uses the slave is immaterial; it is sufficient that He wants to use it.
The Master will frequently enjoy Himself in ways that may cause the slave great pain. The slave will learn to accept and rejoice in the fact that it is able to perform that service for Him, even when it means considerable agony.
The slave will always wear what the Master determines to be the appropriate attire for any given situation. This may be as little as a jockstrap and slave collar, even in public. The fact that this may cause the slave embarrassment is of no concern.
When in the Master's home or when the Master is present in the slave's home, the slave will remain naked at all times.
The slave will keep himself shaved of hair, as ordered or as removed by the Master. When clothing is required, as determined by the Master, it will be specified by the Master.
All orders are subject to verbal modification at the pleasure of the Master and the Master may impose such additional orders as He deems appropriate.
The slave shall keep its mind concentrated solely upon service to the Master and shall demonstrate its acceptance of his role of service and availability at all times.
Whenever the Master or the slave enters a room in which the other is already present, the slave will immediately kneel and kiss the Master's feet, unless physically unable to or under previous orders not to. If the Master's cock is free, the slave will take it into its mouth after kissing the Master's feet and keep it there until the Master orders otherwise.
The Master may give the slave 'free periods' in His presence, during which the slave may express himself openly and freely. There will be no punishment applied during 'free periods.' It is understood, however, that the slave must still address the Master with respect at all times, and that the slave may be punished for infractions of this rule.
The slave’s Creed
I am a cock sucking, ass kissing slave whose sole reason for being is the pleasure of my Master. I have no rights, no privileges, and am worthy of no considerations. my Master's pleasure is my reason for being. my body and mind are His property to do with whatever He chooses. I exist only to serve.
I acknowledge that I am the property of my Master. I swear to always honor my Master through obedience and service to Him. my mind and body are His to use in any way He chooses. I acknowledge my Master is under no obligation to explain His orders nor to justify His punishments, but I am under every obligation to obey Him and accept His punishments. I acknowledge my Master’s seamen is precious and when introduced into my body, I will regard it as a privilege to be the vessel, to hold it within me through swallowing or in my rectum. I vow never to spill nor leak my Master’s precious body fluids. I acknowledge I am a worthless faggot slave and I live to worship, obey and please my Master.
“unlocked, yet he does not run or try to escape…because a true slave’s bondage of the mind to his Master’s will is stronger than any metal forged by man.”
Words of wisdom from Father Mark that should be required reading for everyone involved in the power exchange community. We all understand that for the majority, power exchange is only an erotic game with s and props and (hopefully) a really great orgasm. Tons of fun for the Fantasy Inclined. But for a few, TPE is a way of life that allows both Dom’s and subs the ability to live and express their entire personality. The domination is real and the submission is real. The above post beautifully demonstrates: • Simply calling yourself a ‘“master” does not make you one; •Dom’s have an obligation to be responsible and knowledgeable; •How important open communication is the foundation between a Dom and sub. A collar is not a prop in the real world of power exchange.
There is more to a Master/slave relationship than just the dungeon or the scene, there is life also and living it to the fullest! Respect is earned after trust is established. Why would any slave want to serve a Master that was not a positive influence in the slave’s life? It does go both ways and when it happens, it’s euphoric! The Quintessential Leatherman to me a Leatherman has a set of core values, common decency, honesty, integrity, respect, self-discipline and pride. A Leatherman has a certain gait that is firm, confident. A Leatherman does not engage in idle gossip and is not demeaning to others. There is a certain type of behavior that goes with being a responsible Leatherman. A Leatherman lives by an unwritten code. A Leatherman is a gentleman, works hard, plays hard and supports himself but is also there to give a leg up to others by encouraging and empowering them to achieve their goals in life. A Leatherman lives in harmony with the world around him and stands up against social injustice. A Leatherman makes informed decisions about his life and lives accordingly. He does not necessarily try to just fit into the crowd but stand apart and recognize the strong bands of brotherhood that can extend around the globe. He recognizes the interconnectedness of how the world works and his part in it. A Leatherman expresses confidence in himself and his abilities and yet is very humble and ready to empower others to live their dreams and achieve their goals. I was, two times and the New Master in Australia is number three. the first collar began in 1977 when I was in the Marines and He was in the Marines also. The time in intense play pushes my personal limits and boundaries and carries over into my professional and personal life. Very spiritual to me.
Honesty is expected it’s a nonnegotiable. At first it sounds easy but that means in all things. Until you have put aside the masks you show the world how can you earn his respect or give your loyalty? In some ways it’s the hardest part of submission being vulnerable even with the parts of you it reveals are not your best qualities. Hard yes, scary definitely, worth it? Yes, if you are going to grow.
“The best slaves are those who are totally engaged and present in their slavery ... not mindlessly detached. The best slaves are confident, secure, self-empowered, courageous, extremely intelligent, and resourceful and most of all capable of making the CHOICE to directly engage in an emotionally mature relationship where obedience and service is where they derive their greatest joy and happiness. A slave with 'no will' is of little value because he essentially has 'no responsibility' to do the work of being a slave. A slave with 'will' wants a Master who has the leadership skills, maturity and life skills to entrust with the well being of his life. And most so called Master ‘s just really isn’t up to that challenge, neither that level of commitment nor that degree of accepting responsibility.”
Total obedience is required.
What is a slave? ...
A slave is far beyond what most people believe. A slave serves, it is pleasing perhaps, excludes its joy in all it does. A slave lives, eats and breathes its submission. A slave feels the fire deep in its belly, for it is not a choice, the slave simply is. A slave's first and only consideration is in pleasing its Master. A slave does nothing except what its Master allows it to do. it revels in His total and absolute Mastery. A slave has attained true freedom through its total and absolute submission to its Master. it begs for His Mastery and lives for it.
| slavery is not about suffering - slavery is about service.
slavery is not about humiliation - slavery is about humility.
slavery is not about pain - slavery is about being present.
slavery is not about being used - slavery is about being of use.
slavery is not about control - slavery is about letting go.
slavery is not about what is done to you - slavery is about what you do for others.
slavery is not about abuse - slavery is about acceptance.
slavery is not about proving anything - slavery is about being real.
slavery is not about contempt - slavery is about respect.
slavery is not about how you look - slavery is about how much you care.
slavery is not about denying yourself - slavery is about being open.
slavery is not about bondage - slavery is about freeing your spirit.
slavery is not about punishment - slavery is about discipline.
slavery is not about being unable to escape - slavery is about being committed.
slavery is not about submission - slavery is about obedience.
slavery is not about fear - slavery is about trust.
slavery is not about sex - slavery is about love.
slavery is not about pleasure - slavery is about happiness.
| “The best slaves are those who are totally engaged and present in their slavery … not mindlessly detached. The best slaves are confident, secure, self empowered, courageous, extremely intelligent, and resourceful and most of all capable of making the CHOICE to directly engage in an emotionally mature relationship where obedience and service is where they derive their greatest joy and happiness. A slave with “no will” is of little value because he essentially has “no responsibility” to do the work of being a slave. A slave with “will” wants a Master who has the leadership skills, maturity and life skills to entrust with the well being of his life. And most so called Master ‘s just really aren’t up to that challenge, neither that level of commitment nor that degree of accepting responsibility.”
Being a slave.
The only purpose, obligation, meaning, of the slave’s life is to submit, serve, obey and worship its Master with no other option and no possibility to escape.
The slave (it) completely surrenders its body and mind, its humanity and life for its Master. Given up and presented for its Master to use and to work as a convict.
The slave only breathes for its Master.
it is to be used, abused, tortured, humiliated, degraded […] to satisfy and please its Master…
it lives and remains at its Master’s feet (or/and under other superior Alpha Men) who has absolute ownership over the body, the mind and all the aspects of the slave’s life.
it has no right, no free will, and won’t have any sympathy, mercy, limit, privilege…
it has no escape at all, as it is no longer a human but a dog, a property, an object…
it is owned property, dehumanized, trained, objectified and reprogrammed for its Master’s own use.
The slave is always eager to improve itself.
it knows that its existence is to be its Master’s servant and flunkey…
The slave is chained, collared, used, abused and tortured, humiliated […] as the helpless captive non human property that it is.
its life is ENTIRELY dedicated to serve and please its Master.
The slave is under its Master’s absolute control and domination.
The slave worships its Master as its Lord and God.
it lives in chastity, on all fours, on the ground/floor, lower than an object, totally devoted and obedient to its Master…
What Makes a Good Slave?
A slave needs to understand that his purpose is to serve and be controlled by his Master. That should be enough to make him content. A slave who needs more than the opportunity to serve and be controlled is unlikely to stay the course. Various external factors such as career, studies and "life goals" may come into play, but a slave should ultimately be looking to achieve these in the context of serving his Master. A slave should be as happy doing menial, boring, dirty jobs (cleaning the bathroom, doing the ironing) or simply waiting as he is being played with sexually.
A slave needs to understand that a Master/slave relationship is inherently not fair. The Master is under no obligation to treat his slave "fairly". In general, I believe it is in the Master's interest to be fair most of the time (and crucially the Master's definition of what is fair is the relevant one), otherwise a slave may well get confused about what is expected of him, but the slave has no right to expect it.
A slave needs to have a degree of intelligence. He needs to have thought about what he is giving up in order to be a slave, and be happy with his choice. A slave needs to be able to enhance his Master's life and be able to use initiative (in the correct way) when required.
This slave's ideal in life :
A slave surrenders all its human rights and civil liberties and indeed it has no real need of them. The slave is after all just a mere nonentity that is the owned property of its lawful owner. A slave is not its owners spouse, lover, friend, associate, colleague; it is its owners owned property...period. The slave cannot say what it pleases, do what it pleases or go where it pleases. It can only do what it is told and go where it is told.
Being a slave is by no means an easy option in life. A slave must have plentiful labor to keep it busy during the day so it’s never really idle.
Some owners require it to endure painful suffering in order to alleviate their own stressful anxieties and/or to enhance their three dimensional cathartic euphoria and improve and maintain their general well being. Even when safety is ensured it is no easy task for the slave to endure.
it has been the custom and tradition for a slave to be kept completely in various types of restraint to restrict but not prevent movement. Such restraints have varied but included shackles, locked or soldered collars, locked chastity restraints. These have served a purpose of demonstrating to the slave and to others that it is property that owns and has access to nothing of its own and that it is completely owned and under the absolute power of its designated owner. It also additionally served to reinforce the slavery through humiliation, degradation and subjugation.
When it comes to clothing there is little room for compromise. Clothing for a slave is a privilege and slaves clothing is chosen for them, they embrace the Masters desires plain and simple . Failure to adopt this simple rule will give the slave ideas above his station.
A slave belongs to its owner and is on the periphery of its owner’s life, not at the center of the owner’s life. It places a servile and support function role only. Its conduct in slavery must be impeccable and it must never ever let its owner down.
A slave is never allowed to look at its owner's face.
A slave should never ever have access to the same luxuries that a freeborn person has. It should be housed in a small locked room or a cage when it is resting or sleeping or otherwise not required. Adequate heating and ventilation provided along with food and drink and mobile toilet facilities during its confinement stay.
Once owned the slave should not have any further contact with family or friends nor should it watch television, listen to the radio, read newspapers, periodicals, books, use the computer, or telephone and write to anyone. It also has no right of complaint about its treatment as a slave or any right of appeal to a third party.
It is property that is owned and so it must remain. Once negotiations have ceased and agreement reached about the parameters of the said slavery, the slave itself must offer itself unconditionally and not place any hindrance in the way of its owner’s legitimate right to use her owned property as she herself chooses within the agreed parameters.
|Only a strong person can be submissive.
- Submissiveness is not timidity, it is not servility, it is not subservience, it is not docility, it is not degrading, it is not a sign of weakness.
- Submission is a sign of strength, not of weakness and a greater degree of submission requires a greater degree of strength of personal character.
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