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	To me this life is real. It is not something to play at. It is 24 hours a day 365 days a year. It is not the same every minute of every day as what happens every minute of the day cannot be known in advance. It requires a commitment to one another, a commitment to learn about and from your partner(s), A willingness to learn to trust your partner. Trust and working together are the keys to making a relationship last. Nobody starts a relationship off without knowing the other person and some level of agreement on likes and dislikes. That is why you must meet and talk before you decide if you want to continue. You can decide without meeting someone if the other party is not right for you. If you are not ready to put the time and effort into advancing yourself or otherwise are not real, dont even try to get into a life, especially mine. While love and children can be great, you cant have either without ever having met the other person. You can only be open to the idea and hope it happens if that is what you want. I dont play at life which means I want someone hoping for it to develop into a long-term regular relationship where we both want some things that are alike and agree that our differences are not so far apart that we will let them get in our way. Doing something that someone else wants is not a sign of strength or weakness. That is determined by why it was done and how often it was done. Doing it because it will lead to the result you want is strength while always doing it without getting anything from it is weakness. As you can tell, what I wrote applies to any relationship just as any relationship has a lot of similarities. That is why life is 24 hours a day. It is the differences that make one type stand out, to you, over another life.

12/17/2023 1:10:28 PM

RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual) are important to this life. RACK says you are aware of the risks you will accept from the kink that you will undertake as will your partner. While SSC says you are sane, acknowledge that in your opinion what you will do is safe and both you and your partner want to proceed. It can be as simple as where the two of you are going to have dinner or as complex as you want to make it.

This lifestyle is about a life together with your partner, not just to find a play partner. If you only want someone to play with, start your profile accordingly. You and your potential partner will have to discuss what you both want from a relationship together. That is one of the reasons there should be an initial meeting where you both just talk. It is better to walk away from a potential relationship in the beginning, if you think it is not what you want than to wait months or years. If you are not sure, say so and you both may want to spend more time together before committing to a relationship. Ground rules can and should be set for both of you so you both can be happy.

Dominant/submissive are 2 people trying to exist together. The dominant is the one who normally gets their way while the sub normally does what the other person wants. While this is normal in the bdsm worled it is also normal in the vanilla world. Some examples are supervisor and employe, teacher and student, doctor and patient, police officer and people being stopped to name a few. Can also throw in waitress and customer. In all these circumstance, one person has some control over the other.

It is the level of control that differentiates how people see themselves and sometimes you can be the opposite of what you normally are.