To see the twisted pathways my mind wanders down when bored, check out the profile stalkingyou, it's my alter ego

http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1260164/details.htm

I've been exchanging messages with a lesbian slave for a couple of days. It came to nothing as you might expect, but did raise for me the possibility of exploring my inner masochist more fully with someone I wasn't going to fuck.

Now I know that may not be a surprise to many, but the messages did allow me to explore the concept of pure pain play more fully.

And also look at ways of induging my kink whilst retaining some level of comitment to my marriage

Anyway I think a great opportunity missed, but some intersting ideas gained