UPDATE: I'm currently dating someone :) I made some good friends here, so I'm leaving profile as it is, but not looking anymore.

Seeking a lady between the ages of 24 + 40

Someone who is open minded and tolerant. I'm not an Englishman, I moved to the UK five years ago, if it is a problem sorry, but you need to find someone else.

Someone who doesn't mind the idea of being poly herself and let her partner enjoy the fact that his mistress is sexually happy with him as well as other men.

Someone who can understand a person whose life consists of reading, computer and good movies and therefore needs the space and time to complete those things in his life.

I am a perfectionist and houseproud and I love to do my own cooking. I hope you are perfectionist too. I'm very caring type of person.

I am submissive (not a slave), I enjoy pleasing and woshipping women. I'm not into scat, and phone sex.

I don't mind if you are not a very fast mover and you are not into everything straight away - so therefore I'm happy to date you like any vanilla relationship until we are both comfortable with each other.

I suit anyone who is dominant, switch or even a flexible sub (vanilla to me and sub to others). I'm after long term relationship. If you have a few extra pounds of weight - it is not an issue for me, I like it.


In my sexual life I'm rather sub however in vanilla life I am rather dominant. I'm in control of my life and I know what I want and where I'm going to.

I know I might seem like a paradox, but this is as honest as I can be.