As a Dominant I am familiar with various aspects of domination, to include bdsm (both old guard and new), Gorean philosphies, and several other disciplines. My personal areas of interest deal primarily with impact, mental, and some "edge" scenes rather than pure bondage. I have owned 2 slavegirls at once and have trained 5 other girls. I am married to my first gir, who is no longer activel. We have our own dungeon. I welcome newcomers to the bdsm world and enjoy mentoring them. Contact me if you would care to know more. I practice both SSC and RACK. All my girls have tended to be bisexual, although sexual contact is not required from others. I enjoy sharing experiences, training new (SERIOUS) people, and providing what guidance I can if the chemistry is right and people are open and honest with me. I am interested in Real Time, no online players or protracted email fantasies. I am for real and treat bdsm and d/s as a lifestyle of choice...and expect the same in those I spend time with. I am also experienced in Polyamory and other alternative lifestyles to which the same expectations apply. Contact me if you want to know more or are curious about anything...do NOT be shy!!! UPDATE: I'm now retired and semi-handicapped in minor ways. This only means that I am less active in events as I was previously. I can travel within limited areas.
A Poly Household
Mental Bondage (Expert)
Hair Pulling (Expert)
Orgasm Denial (Expert)
Flea Markets (Expert)
Garage Sales (Expert)
Canes and Crops
Eye Contact Restrictions
Local BDSM Community (Expert)
Knife Play (Beginner)
Genital Punishment (Beginner)
Housework Service (Beginner)
Bar Hopping (Expert)
Going to the Opera
Masks (On Partner)
Diet and Exercise
8/16/2010 4:55:09 PM
Lady Flutterby no longer wears my collar. We are not affiliated with each other at this point in either our personal or bdsm lifestyles or groups. I wish her well on her journey.
3/24/2010 2:04:55 PM
Color me curious, but still a straight male dominant...
As weird as it may be, I seem to collect primarily (90%+) bisexual males in my "Who's Viewing Me?" listing. I find this strange if not a little flattering. However, I currently own one slave and am considering another dominant for a slave position, (oh and guys? BOTH are females...I've checked and know the difference...HONEST) so I'm not really in the market for a male submissive just now. I'm not a homophobe and enjoy the company (and occasional scene) of both bisexual and gay men, as well as multi-sexual ladies. My name is Native American in origin and isn't some form of handle that may denote a French Hooker. Thanks for the interest (and in some cases emails) from all of you, and I hope you find what you're looking for, but right now I'm a tad too busy to be hunting up a new slave/sub of any gender.
Oh, one other thing. I also seem to attract (as I suspect many men on here are probably doing lately on CM) dominant "ladies" looking for submissive men. Um, ah, DUH...I think I make pretty clear that I'm not submissive in ANY way to ANYONE nor do I harbor a secret desire to bottom to anyone. So please "ladies" whether you're a pay-pal gal, pay for play, phisher, or whatever you are...READ the profile first before you waste both of our time.
Oherwise, I'm perfectly content and willing to discuss the lifstyle with any gender, sexual orientation, or physically handicapped, or whole individual who may think I have some pearl of wisdom to share. That may not be the case and I don't have many pearls but I'm honest, sincere, HONORABLE, and willing to answer questions or befriend those who are polite enough to ask...not just perv or troll around on here.
Thank you all for you time...the few who may actually READ what's written in a profile or journal.
Be Well and Safe Journeys; Manitou from Montana (not a cowboy but a Injun yep)
1/16/2010 10:10:27 AM
It is my pleasure to announce and clarify the recent change
to my “it’s complicated” change to my profile that I recently made to my
relationship status here on CollarMe.
The matter is no longer “complicated” in that we can now
make an official statement as to who or why that action was taken. I have been
in negotiation with Lady Flutterby and we would like to jointly announce a
surprising change in our personal relationship with each other. She and I have
always had a close bond and enjoyed a wondrous friendship filled with mutual
respect over many years. We were both surprised that that relationship was even
deeper than either of us had suspected and are overjoyed with our recent mutual
We have agreed that Lady Flutterby will enter into a
submissive arrangement with me and accepted a Collar of Consideration. It is my
utmost pleasure and honor to make this announcement. The time period we have
tentatively set for ourselves is one of six (6) months. At that point (if not
sooner) we will make further announcements of the permanent nature of this
agreement or any other changes to that relationship. At the least we will
always remain close and steadfast friends and equals in the Dominant fields
that are our primary calling.
While Lady Flutterby has graciously accepted this collar of
consideration, in no way will that change her persona or her goals in this
lifestyle. She will remain, and always be a respected Dominant in her own
right. She will only submit to me and become known as my property and that will
not be confused with any other person. Lack of proper respect for Lady
Flutterby as a Dominant will not be appropriate or acceptable to anyone
else…PERIOD. We will be working out other details of this arrangement over the
next six months or so. We anticipate and wonderful joining between the 3 of us
here, my slave muse, and my new girl, Lady Flutterby. And for the record…the
term girl or any other similar term is to be used only by myself…nobody else!!!
Please take this time to offer us both your support and
acknowledgements of this change of status between myself and Lady Flutterby.
She is a wonder as a Dominant and is already displaying her passion and
dedication to her new role in the life of my primary partner and I.
Now we continue with your regularly scheduled programming.
Thank you for you patience.