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Hello, and Greetings to all my like minded Folk. I am a 42 year old BBW Dominant Woman, who loves to be in control, and knows what she wants.
I first must say that this lifestyle is not a game to me or is it just something I do to spice things up. It is a part of me, part of my core being. I take it very SERIOUSLY!!! The Sadist in me takes it very very seriously!!!!
That being said, I am looking for a male/female submissive/slave. He/She must be unattached and single. Sorry, I love Poly but not my focus right now. I need Him/Her to be a serious Masochist. Fluffy Bunnies need not apply. Here are some other qualities I am looking for:
1) Punctuality – Being late is a MASSIVE pet peeve of mine. As fun as it can be to give a punishment for not being on time, doing it on a regular basis would just piss me off.
2) Pride – I wouldn’t want a partner that was ashamed of his/her submission. Because, by extension, he/her would be ashamed of me.
3) Be Open – Having a partner who is closed off mentally and emotionally is exhausting and makes it extremely hard to create trust. A submissive doesn’t have to like the same things as me, but has to be open-minded enough to try them or be able to communicate which things are his limits.
4)Caring and Flirty – Some days I need my sub to just pamper and care for me, the same way I would do for him/her. Flirty. Yes, I want a sub who will flirt with me. Play with me, And I’ll flirt right back. Don’t treat this like a business negotiation.
5)Genuine interest in a relationship. I’m not interested in being with someone “just” for kink. I actually want to date them and want them to want a kinky AND romantic relationship.
6)Ability to Converse - Has to be able to hold up a conversation. Heaven forbid you answer my questions with well formed and thought out sentences. I need more than a yes/no answer.
7)Be Polite and respectful. You needn’t follow protocol at all times (unless we negotiate that), but generally polite and respectful is a must.
8) Prefers a sensual, sadistic and/or disciplinarian Domme. What is your preference please know ahead of time. If you are unsure, please do not be afraid to state that, we can work from there as long as you are honest.
If you are interested please drop me a line, and we can chat!
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